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Does a post-menopausal woman still need to go to mikvah?


As per Family Purity guidelines, after menstruation, husband and wife abstain from marital relations until the woman goes to a mikvah. This brings G‑d into a marriage. By following G‑d's commandments – and not simply "doing what comes naturally" whenever and however – the husband and wife elevate their physical relationship so that it becomes holy and spiritual.

Going to the mikvah is predicated on two givens:

1. The woman is married.

2. The woman has menstruated, and then made the proper preparations for going to the mikvah.

So, a woman who is not married does not go to the mikvah. And a woman who no longer menstruates doesn't go to the mikvah—as long as she immersed in a mikvah after the last time that she menstruated.

However, if she did not immerse that last time – or even if she had never immersed in a mikvah before – then even though it has been many years since she menstruated, it is very important that she go to the mikvah at least one time. This one-time immersion sanctifies the rest of her marriage, and is retroactively spiritually beneficial for her marriage and her children.

Since a woman doesn't just jump into a mikvah – she must prepare properly before going – it is advisable to consult with someone knowledgeable in the laws of Family Purity. Your local rebbetzin (rabbi's wife) is the best bet for this.

Read Confessions of a Mikvah-Goer for a heart-warming firsthand account of a post-menopausal woman's first mikvah experience.

Chaya Sarah Silberberg,
Chabad.org

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Chaya Sarah Silberberg serves as the rebbetzin of the Bais Chabad Torah Center in West Bloomfield, Michigan, since 1975. She also counsels, lectures, writes, and responds for Chabad.org’s Ask the Rabbi service.
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