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Cracked Vessels

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An old Chinese woman had two water cans which were attached to a yoke. Each day she put the yoke over her shoulders and went down to the river, filled the cans, and walked back to her modest hut. The water can on the right side of the yoke was fine and sturdy; when she arrived home it was always full. But the can on the left had a crack in it. By the time the woman arrived home, half the water was usually gone.

My sister's handicapped child could not walk, talk, hold his head up, or control any limb of his body.

The water can always felt inferior to his partner. He was ashamed that he was cracked and wasn't pulling his weight. One day he turned to the woman and apologized for being defective. The woman smiled gently and said, "Did you think I didn't know that you had a crack, and water dripped from you? Look at the path from the river to my hut. Do you see all the beautiful flowers that are growing on the one side of the path? Those are the flowers that I planted there, that you watered every day as I walked home from the river."


My sister had a severely handicapped child, a beautiful boy who could not walk, talk, hold his head up, control any limb of his body. But Yankie could smile and he could laugh. He radiated peace, tranquility, and happiness; because his body was merely a shadow of a body, it could not conceal the holy soul that occupied it. The purity of his soul shone through his eyes and had a powerful effect on everyone who knew him. He inspired love. He inspired people to devote themselves to helping others. And he taught everyone to look beyond the façade of a body and to see the Divine soul that is the essence of the person.

By Chaya Sarah Silberberg
Chaya Sarah Silberberg serves as the rebbetzin of the Bais Chabad Torah Center in West Bloomfield, Michigan, since 1975. She also counsels, lectures, writes, and responds for Chabad.org’s Ask the Rabbi service.
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January 30, 2013
Beautiful!
In life we will not always be perfect it is important to remember that we still have purpose.
Karen Claudio
Lowell, ma
December 10, 2012
Cracked Vessels.
Everyone and Everything is for a REASON : Proverbs 16:4,5.
LYNDA CLEMONS
February 9, 2012
This story inspires me for there are times that I can't accept my own shortcomings. Upon reading this i realized everything exists for a reason. It maybe be small or big but it brings big changes into our lives if we know how to appreciate it.
ness79
Cebu, Philippines
August 23, 2011
Objectifying a person
I cannot accept this attitude, as it turns a person into an object to say that the person exists to bring out the best in others. It is based in pity and in trying to justify severe disability for its salutory effect on "normal" people. It makes a mockery of the fact that all are b'tzelem Elokim.
Rafi's Mom
MInneapolis
March 6, 2011
Everything that happens has definite purpose
Praise God again! The Lord again fed me, strengthen me through this contemporary parable. Truly, everything that happens has definite purpose; but even if everybody has their own individuality, all of us share the same mission of existence, that is, to use our God-given life in God's special plans, in very ordinary ways... Let us live life in its fullness.
grace santos
Angeles City, Pampanga
January 20, 2011
Thank you!
This is so beautiful and profound. Thank you for reminding us of our specialness!
Patricia Nordman
DeLand, Florida
November 26, 2010
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Anonymous
tokyo, japan
August 26, 2010
A Unique Person
Most of the time, we believe ourselves that we can compete with others, but we always remember that a person is unique, we are different than others, we have different weaknesses and strengths that makes us happy and sad. We never forget that we are special creation made by God, accept what we are, even when problems and obstacles lie on our path. Go and be good to others, love one another, for these things are the most important in our life.
Girudel Postrero
Pagadian, Philippines
May 21, 2009
Sometimes we feel like a cracked vessel.
There are times when we feel broken and sad like the cracked bucket, but it is that very feeling that makes us vulnerable, human, and more compassionate to others. Very often, it is during these times that we are growing the most. Growing in our knowledge of ourselves, as well as growing closer to God. Accepting our own imperfections, and knowing that they are part of God's plan helps us to accept others as well.
Yocheved Hande
Boca Raton, Florida
March 21, 2008
Cracked Vessels
Thank you for this story.
Long before I knew her, my best friend had a child like Yankie. She always speaks of him so lovingly and about the love and light that came from him. When I read this article I knew I had to give it to her. We both stood there crying (tears of Joy) as she read it, because the light of his soul was with us.
Linda
Aiken, SC
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