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What happened to Jephthah’s daughter?


Question:

I saw a docudrama about Jephthah and it ended with him sacrificing his daughter. But in an article on your site you say she lived a reclusive life in the mountains until she died. Which version of events is correct?

Answer:

In the name of artistic license, films, and even historical documentaries, are not always accurate. So let’s examine the story based on the words of our sages.

But first, in brief, the story is as follows: Jephthah was asked by the Israelite leaders to lead them in battle against the oppressing Ammonites. Before leaving his home, Jephthah vowed to G‑d, “If You will indeed deliver the children of Ammon into my hand, then it will be that whatever comes forth—that shall come forth from the doors of my house towards me, when I return in peace from the children of Ammon—shall be to G‑d, and I will offer it up as a burnt offering.”1

When he triumphantly arrived home, the first one to greet him at his door was his daughter. “Alas, my daughter!” he cried out. “. . . I have opened my mouth to G‑d and I cannot go back . . . and he did to her his vow which he had vowed; and she had not known any man.”2

Firstly it is important to emphasize that Judaism has always viewed human sacrifices as a reprehensible abomination. Regarding the Canaanites, Moses says: “For every abomination to G‑d which He hates, they did to their gods; for also their sons and their daughters they would sacrifice in fire to their gods.”3

Based on this idea, many of the biblical commentators4 maintain that Jephthah did not offer his daughter as a sacrifice. In fact, his original vow, “whatever comes forth . . . shall be to G‑d, and I will offer it up for a burnt-offering,” had a dual intention: if it will be a person, then it “shall be [consecrated] to G‑d”; and if it should be an animal, then “I will offer it up as a burnt offering.” (The Hebrew prefix ו which precedes the words “I will offer it” can be translated as “and” or “or.”)

According to this interpretation, Jephthah’s daughter was sent to the mountains to live in seclusion. She never married and dedicated her life to the service of G‑d.

Other biblical commentators5 disagree. Though Jephthah was one of the Israelite judges, he was chosen for the position because of his bravery and might, not because of his Torah scholarship—indeed, he was woefully ignorant.6 And though he was not bound whatsoever by the vow he made—as it clearly transgressed the rules of the Torah—he ignorantly went ahead and offered his daughter as a sacrifice.

Had he only consulted with Phinehas, the learned high priest of the time, he would have been informed of his error. But that didn’t happen. Jephthah was too arrogant to travel to Phinehas to receive guidance: “I am the general of the Israelite forces, and I should go to him?!” And Phinehas was too proud to unilaterally go to Jephthah to advise him: “He needs me; why should I make the trip?”

The hubris demonstrated by these two leaders cost an innocent girl her life. According to the Midrash7 both were punished. Phinehas lost the divine spirit that had hitherto rested upon him. Jephthah became ill, and he lost many of his limbs. Because his limbs were buried in many locations, the Bible says that Jephthah was “buried in the cities of Gilead.”8

Best wishes,

Rabbi Naftali Silberberg,
Chabad.org Editorial Team

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FOOTNOTES
1.

Judges 11:30–31.

2.

Ibid. vv. 35, 39.

3.

Deuteronomy 12:31.

4.

Ralbag, Radak and Ibn Ezra (cited in Nachmanides on Leviticus 27:29).

5.

Nachmanides ibid., Rashi and the Midrash.

6.

He was an exception to the rule. The other judges were exceptional scholars and righteous individuals.

7.

Bereishit Rabbah 60:3.

8.

Judges 12:7.


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Posted: June 26, 2011
Anonymous in Fresh Meadows makes a good point
Because you can dedicate non-kosher or non-edible items (donkeys, horses, valuables, etc.) to HaShem. Usually, the animal/object cannot be used for secular purposes either while in this category (like the donkey can't be used for pulling a plow, for example)...I think sometimes such an item can be redeemed for its value, but what would be the value in the case of Yiftach's daughter? The Torah does assign values for a person in other contexts (criminal and civil law, or 30 day old infants, for example), but this is a very particular (and peculiar) case. Maybe she couldn't be redeemed because of the context, so she couldn't be "used" or "employ herself" for non-kodesh purposes at that point, hence the necessity of withdrawing from everyday life.

I'd like to thank all the participants in this give-and-take by the way. It's making a very lively Torah discussion!
Posted By R. K.

Posted: June 25, 2011
The Living Word
How exciting G-D's word is! here we are, thousands of years later, debating. Every day there is something new to learn from Scripture. Thank you for this balanced explanation.
Posted By Dee, George, South Africa

Posted: June 22, 2011
Is the peshat so simple?
If it is so clear that Yiftach offered his daughter as a korban, why does it say that the daughters of Israel mourned her virginity and not her life. If she were killed, you would think that the loss of life would be the primary concern. What is so important about the virginity. Was she the only Jewish girl who had died before marriage? On the other hand, learned Jews know that most vows at the time were made in the form of a konam vow: "I shall receive no benefit from Ploni as if he were to be made a korban." If it were a konam vow, he had no authority to marry her off unless the vow was anulled. Simple.
Posted By Anonymous, Fresh Meadows, NY

Posted: June 22, 2011
Yiftach
I have always been puzzled by this. Even if it were only his dog greeting him, let alone his daughter, which cohen would allow him to bring the "offering" - a child or a nonkosher animal and kill either of them and then burn it on a holy altar? A number of things distinguished Jewish altars of ancient times found in Israel - there are only kosher animal bones, no human bones or other animals. So how exactly could Yiftach fulfill his oath unless he himself did the killing and burning upon his own specially constructed altar? And no one objected?
Besides, even without Pinhas' help, he could renounce his vow with a Beis Din.
Posted By Rochelle, Yerushalayim, Israel

Posted: June 21, 2011
always wondered about this!
Thanks for the answers!
Posted By R. K., L.A.

Posted: Dec 21, 2010
Jephthah
Jephthah commits a grave sin against G-d. Although, victorious in earthly battle against the Ammonites, he forgets the spiritual battle of our G-d against Chemosh or Molech. Jephthah's vow is as horrible as Solomon's later actions. In sacrificing his daughter, Jephthah betrays G-d. Jephthah is spiritually defiled by Chemosh without ever realizing it. Notice when Gideon destroyed his father's altar to Baal, he did so following the angel's command, not by giving the angel commands. "Let Baal take action against him..." sounds like a spiritual curse, that Jephtah fell right into, because he rushed foward with a vow, instead to waiting for G-d to show him the correct path of action to take.
Posted By Phillip Zezulak, Bloomingdale, IL

Posted: July 14, 2010
Read it as it was Written
I couldn't agree more with Reginald B. So many Biblical accounts depict acts which would make most of us recoil with horror if they were played out in today's society (and some of them are). Yet, whenever the recorded events disagree with our modern sensibilities, we twist, squeeze, and parse every word to make it conform to our version of what we feel must have happened. Are we afraid of what G-D is really like...that he may not be as we wish him to be? If we distort the words, we distort the message (and ultimately the will of G_D). The big question in my opinion: If the writings of the Bible are of vital importance to our well-being and/or everlasting salvation, wouldn't G-D have insured that they were written in a clear, unambiguous manner that would allow every individual to comprehend them with absolute certainty, and then make our own decisions accordingly? I was raised in a religious household by loving parents, but have always struggled with this question.
Posted By Michael, Portland, OR

Posted: Nov 5, 2009
Jephthah!
The more I read of this man the more confused I become. He was mighty warrior, yet let his brothers drive him away. Some have characterized him as ignorant to the ways of the Lord, but he gives an excellent account and history lesson to the king of the Ammonites. The men of Tob like him and follow him. He does not seek revenge on his brothers. He acts with great restraint and wisdom in his intial negotiations with the Ammonites. He doesn't appear to seek great power, appears humble, and his name appears beside David's in the faith chapter of Hebrews. I can't wait to get to Heaven to find out the whole story!
Posted By Michael, Spotsylvania, Va. / USA

Posted: Aug 29, 2009
When Mouth over runs reason and Honor is first
It is a sad point in the history of the Bible. No matter the view (Christian or Jew) to look upon a man who has made a vow that to him was so sacred as to not be violated regardless of cost. I am sure that Jephthah would have rather given his own life than to loose his beloved daughter... But when a man has sins in his past and has been caught in a situation of honor before his God... He may have considered her coming forth from the house as a "Punishment" of the Lord for his Highwayman past. And to fulfill his Vow and living thereafter as a bearing the punishment and shame that he may well have felt he deserved from a Sinful past.
As David after the sin with Bathsheba mourned his child's sickness and then arose after its death and said "I shall go to him, but he shall not return to me." This mindset that God had the child now in safety and that they would meet again is the only comfort that he may have taken.
There are worse things than going to be with the Lord.
Posted By Mr Maranatha, Columbia, MS

Posted: July 7, 2009
What CAN'T be justified
I am amazed at the ability of believers to make mental adjustments to stories that otherwise would be silly or obscene. Thus my question is what stories or acts CAN'T be justified? The Holocaust has Biblical equivalents. Jim Crow laws have scriptural cousins. If Jephthath's story was made into a movie unadulterated then maybe just maybe we would acknowledge to grossly barbaric nature of these people. I am at a loss of words but I know that if we as a human family can allow the Holocaust and the Rwandan massacres then we can excuse anything.
Posted By Reginald B., Miami, Fl



 


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