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Why is it important for a woman to dress modestly?


I was once watching a video of a circus show. A magician came on with his assistant. He was dressed in a tux and tails, a cape, a top hat; she was barely dressed at all... What did this show say to me? It said that the man was the artist, the skilled professional. And the woman? Well, all she was good for was her body; presumably everyone would focus on her physical features, so the magician could perform his tricks without being caught. I was so offended, I turned off the tape.

Tzniut – modesty – has always been the hallmark of the Jewish woman, Tzniut in its greater sense is dignity and self-respect, an understanding of one's intrinsic self-worth. When a woman acts and dresses in a tzniut way, she effectively tells the world that she expects to be judged as a human being with skills and capabilities, intellect and emotions, and not as a "piece of meat" that is being displayed to attract the attention of a buyer. Read the "suggested dress for women" section in any manual on how to apply for a serious job, and you will be amazed at how closely it correlates to the general laws of tzniut. Because the woman applying for a job is expected to be hired on the basis of her abilities, not her body...

It would seem to me that any true feminist would actively encourage all girls and women to dress tzniut!

For more on this topic, see our Inner & Outer Beauty section.

I hope this has been helpful.

Chaya Sarah Silberberg,
Chabad.org

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Posted: Oct 12, 2011
Muslims and Jews
Muslim and Jewish women should unite together as one to voice concerns over how immodest society is becoming.

I love the way Jewish women dress. I myself am a Muslim and our women dress in a similar fashion.

We have SO much in common. Lets stop talking politics and focus on commonality - our religions.
Posted By Fatima Zahra Bhatti, San Ramon, CA

Posted: June 8, 2009
Feminists
I wish all "feminists" could read this. So many of the women who talk about their feminist views do so in clothing that is not modest (to say the least).
Skin tight pants, super short skirts, see through blouse, unbuttoned to reveal as much cleavage as possible, etc.
All that does is take away from their arguements. They are saying that they are equal and should be hired for the same intellectual jobs but dressing in a way that shows the world that all they care to offer is their body. How do they expect to be taken seriously?

As they keep dressing and acting in certain ways, that becomes the norman and expected stuff. Those of us who don't dress and act like them must have something wrong with us.

I am tired of having to work twice as hard to prove myself because some women choose to dress in revealing clothing and put on the helpless act. I am smart. I am creative. I am as good at what I do as any man around me. And I don't have to show my body to prove it.
Posted By Anonymous

Posted: Feb 7, 2008
pants & feminism
The issue of wearing pants or only skirts is not primarily of modesty. It is an issue of one gender using garments intended for the other gender. The question of which garments are intended for which gender, (women's pants) can also have more than one answer, but that is another topic....

For A Spiegel: If you are defining feminism as women being valued as people, not objects, with tasks that are of equal or greater value to the world as men's tasks, you are sounding like a Torah Feminist! If you are saying that people should be able to do equal/identical work and be equally/identicaly renumerated for it, without regard to their gender, then you are sounding like a Torah Feminist! If you have similar ideas about Torah learning then you are sounding like a Torah Feminist!

In other words, yes, Torah actively promotes feminism.
Posted By Sarah Masha, W Bloomfield, MI USA
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Posted: Jan 26, 2008
It just seems there are more important things to worry about than whether I am wearing stockings and a long skirt than if I am wearing (women's) pants.
Posted By Anonymous

Posted: Jan 21, 2008
MODESTY
Regarding your last sentence:
"It would seem to me that any true feminist would actively encourage all girls and women to dress tzniut!"

Are you suggesting that the true way is feminism?

Please, clarify...
Posted By A. Spiegel

Posted: Jan 21, 2008
modest in pants? maybe/maybe not
the question was if God cares... not if you can be modest or not in pants- also, just because you can be modest in pants doesnt make it a general principle that everyone can follow--- at what point do you draw a line and create a standard for modesty? if we can all decide for ourselves what is considered modest dress then are we creating our own religion or are we still following what G-d wants?? so how do we know exactly what G-d wants?? im not including or excluding pant wearing, but i join you in asking that same question in regards to many aspects of judaism... also, i believe there is a prohibition from wearing clothing of the opposite sex, so that begs the question, who gets the pants?
Posted By Anonymous

Posted: Jan 20, 2008
Exactly. I can still be modest in pants. That is a little different than being a suicide bomber.
Posted By Anonymous

Posted: Jan 18, 2008
By pointing out the differences in dress only highlights the fact that women are different and we should be treated differently, instead having equal expectations as men. My spiritual journey and observances are not determined by what I wear. Or should not be. I can still be modest in pants. If someone can disuade me, I encourage you.
Posted By Anonymous

Posted: Jan 18, 2008
Does G-d care?
That begs the question - does G-d care about anything? Does He care if I eat a ham sandwich? If I go to church or synagogue? If I blow myself up as a suicide bomber or if I devote my life to helping people?So if we believe that He cares - why shouldn't He care about your jeans and t shirt as well? How de we presume to dictate what G-d cares about and what He doesn't?
Posted By Anonymous

Posted: Jan 16, 2008
Yes, but does G-d really care if I wear jeans and a t shirt?
Posted By Anonymous



 


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