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One day a rich and learned Jew came to one of the great European centers of Torah learning to search for a fitting match for his wise, pious and beautiful daughter. He invited all of the eligible young scholars in the town to the main synagogue that evening, and posed to them a difficult Talmudic problem. Whoever could solve the problem to his satisfaction, he announced, would win his daughter’s hand in marriage, and his own pledge to provide financial support for the couple and their future children for twenty years while the worthy scholar pursued his studies.

The town’s scholars struggled to understand the problem, and then labored through the night to solve it. Dozens of answers were submitted to the visitor, but he refuted them all. He remained in town for three days, without any further success. Disappointed, he ordered his bags packed for his early departure the next day.

The next morning he climbed into his carriage, settled into into his seat, and gave the signal to his driver to crack his whip. As the horses trotted off, a young student could be seen running toward the carriage, shouting for him to wait. The man ordered his driver to stop, and the young man looked in the window.

“Just a minute! Wait!” cried the young man, panting to catch his breath. “You can’t go yet! You must tell me the answer!”

“Pardon me?” asked the visitor.

“Ever since you posed the question,” said the student, “I haven’t been able to sleep. I’ve been grappling with it day and night, but try as I might, the solution eludes me. I must know the answer! You cannot go without telling me!”

“Ah!” cried the scholar, satisfied at last. “You are the one whom I want for a son-in-law!”

By Tuvia Bolton
A popular teacher, musician and storyteller, Rabbi Tuvia Bolton is co-director of Yeshiva Ohr Tmimim in Kfar Chabad, Israel, and a senior lecturer there.
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February 9, 2013
Wonderful life lesson, Rabbi Tuvia Bolton. I am also wondering, what question did he asked of the scholars that eliminated all, but, one scholar?
Mika'yahu
Brookland, Arkansas
June 1, 2011
The answer!
Of course. It's like that Solomon Story of the two women claiming the same baby. He recognized the true Mother spoke with love.

Learning is about thirst for knowledge and surely a man would fund this when he is interested in finding THIS in another, with that as pure motive without codicils.
ruth housman
marshfield hills, ma
May 30, 2011
weak story
I think you should provide stronger meaning stories. This one lacks everything, at least, provide an explanation ( and please dont tell me because i am asking the meaning of the story, I will have a fortune and a bashert for me )
Anonymous
mexico, mexico
May 30, 2011
The Problem
There was no solution to the problem. As this young man tenacious desire to solve the problem he was very determine not to give up. That is a virtue hard to find. There was no answer, but this young man determination in finding the answer at all cost was what puzzle the future father-in-law. We should never give up. Wisdom and strength comes from Hashem, as we seek him in all our endeavours, He, blessed be He, will give us the solution.
Anonymous
Mesa, Arizona, USA
July 19, 2004
Wisdom
It took nothing short of wisdom to recognize the one truly great scholar and, therefore, a fitting match for the daughter.

I love the kind of stories you write, and the way you write them; thank you, Rabbi Bolton.

H. Hudspeth
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