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Why Is Jewishness Matrilineal?


Question:

Why does whether you’re Jewish or not depend on if your mother is Jewish? Why doesn’t the father’s Jewishness count?

Answer:

First, the biblical inference for matrilineal descent:

“You shall not intermarry with them; you shall not give your daughter to his son, and you shall not take his daughter for your son, for he will cause your child to turn away from Me, and they will worship the gods of others” (Deuteronomy 7:3–4).

The implication is that children from such a union will be torn away from Judaism. Since the verse states “for he (i.e. a non-Jewish father) will cause your child to turn away . . . ,” this implies that a child born to a Jewish mother is Jewish (“your child”), whereas if a Jewish man marries a non-Jewish woman, the child is not Jewish—and as such there is no concern that “she,” the child’s mother, will turn the child away from Judaism.1

Although one’s Jewishness is dependent on the mother, other genealogical factors important in Judaism, such as one’s tribal affiliation, are contingent on the father. Thus, whether one is a Kohen, Levite, or Israelite depends on the father’s lineage.

The reason for this is as follows.

There are two basic components to a human being: (a) his essence, and (b) that which he projects forth, such as his talents and abilities. In Kabbalistic terminology, this second component is referred to as “revelations” of himself, as opposed to his essential self.

The creation of a child requires both a man and woman, but for entirely different functions. The mother provides the essence, while the father adds the potential for what the child will eventually project—the revelations of his self.

This is due to the different natures of male and female souls. The male soul emanates from G‑d’s emotive qualities, such as kindness, discipline and harmony—qualities that do not define G‑d Himself, but rather are the means through which He relates to His creations. The female soul, on the other hand, originates in G‑d’s attribute of malchut, royalty. According to the teachings of Kabbalah, malchut is rooted in the essence of G‑d that transcends all divine “revelations.”

The essence of a Jew is his Jewish soul, his Jewish identity. This is inherited from the mother. His tribe—a revelation or projection, the way his Judaism is practiced and actualized—is begotten from the father.

For more on this topic, see our Knowledge Base articles on Essence & Expression; Etzem & Giluyim.

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Excerpted from What Is Wrong with Intermarriage? The original exegesis appears in the Talmud, Yevamot 23a and Kiddushin 68b, and Pesikta Zuta on this verse.


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Posted: Jan 30, 2012
disallowed to convert
My understanding is that any person who sincerely wants to follow the Mitzvot and learn what is involved is able to convert. Some rabbis discourage people from "conversions" that don't involve a true willingness to be an observant Jew.
Posted By Anonymous, NY, NY

Posted: Jan 30, 2012
G_d said
He would make us like the stars in the sky and like the grains of sand on the beach.

And goodness G_d has tried. It was Rabbis who made our nation small.
Posted By Chaim, UK, UK

Posted: Jan 30, 2012
Annonymous in Omaha
I know your pain. Rejection is part of the process. Apparently it's a test to see if you're serious. The argument for it seems legit enough, and that is, they are responsible for you once you convert, and if you're not serious, then I suppose you could hinder rather than promote the cause of Jewish survival. I'm not Jewish either, so I may not be understanding what I have heard correctly.

However, the rejection process makes no sense to me whatsoever. Why don't they just let you go ahead and undergo the conversion process, which includes a massive education in Judaism. If you get through that, then you're serious! If not, what was the harm? Just my take as a goy.
Posted By Anonymous, ottawa, canada

Posted: Jan 30, 2012
Jude and Anonymous
Jude: The Talmud is Rabbinical. The reason why Naomi's two sons didn't need their wives to convert is that in Biblical times they weren't concerned about "marrying out" their children were still Jewish. They actually couldn't marry Ruth and Orpah because they were Midianites where you can't marry their daughters or sons. Infact they never bothered with conversion way back then. Wasn't an issue as it is today like many things. If Moses were to see us today he'll be confused as to what religion we were following it would be so unrecognisible. Back in Biblical times the children of Jewish men and non Jewish women were still Jewish.

Anonymous: Can you tell me more? can't comment or advise without knowing more.
Posted By Abe, London, UK

Posted: Jan 30, 2012
Disallowed to convert
I have read many things regarding conversion-mostly that the convert is almost more welcomed than the born Jew-but having a Jewish father, I was really depressed to learn that I was not really welcomed to convert. Very discouraging.
Posted By Anonymous, Omaha, NE

Posted: Jan 29, 2012
Re: Chaim and Valerie
The truth is that the bible itself does not record anything about Ruth converting, although I think the commentaries discuss it. But if she became Jewish with the "speech" you mention, it would mean that Naomi's two sons were guilty of intermarriage, which could indeed be true, but again it is not mentioned anywhere. Alternatively, she became Jewish beforehand (as some commentaries claim) but again, all it means is that how she became Jewish is not mentioned in scriptures.

As for the source for needing a Rabbinical court of three for conversion, I believe the source can be found in the Talmud Kidushin 62b and Yevomot 46b-47b where it expounds on the verses in Leviticus 24:22, Numbers 15:16, Deuteronomy 1:16
Posted By Jude

Posted: Jan 27, 2012
thank you!
thank you so much for your comment and the 'spot on', Chaim - makes my day! good friends in their 60's who were born and raised not jewish - and that's putting it mildly - during one of their bible studies a few years ago - thought something was not right (for them). they started studying the Torah, grew to love Hashem - since they had never known our Hashem - keeping kosher, the whole thing. they could not find a rabbi who would convert them. the husband passed away this week, they never let go of Hashem. you can imagine they are much more religious than me! they were disappointed to not have been formally converted; but we know G-d knows the heart!
Posted By valerie, akron, oh

Posted: Jan 27, 2012
Valerie
Spot on!

G-d accepted anyone who wished to lead a Jewish life. All Ruth did was say her famous speech and she was Jewish. To express a desire from your heart and follow it through is enough. All this Beth Din conversion is relatively recent. A man would have to have a Brit though. But on the whole there was no "conversion" process. Your comment about "Biblically G-d accepted" is very true. Many things we do nowadays have been man made.
Posted By Chaim, London, UK

Posted: Jan 26, 2012
re Chaim's comment
we were just talking about this in Shul! your comment never occurred to me, though!! let's face it, there will always be contention -- in fact if my parents were here, it would be a hard pill for them to swallow that if the mother only were Jewish, their children would be Jewish. (they most likely/definitely would say they believe only if BOTH parents were born Jewish would their children be Jewish!! that's why they were against my dating anyone non-Jewish.) Yet even bibically, G-d accepted and loved those who came to believe in Him, and kept His commandments, right?
Posted By valerie, akron, oh

Posted: Jan 25, 2012
Anonymous, NY, NY
After being taught the Torah in the womb the fetus is tapped above the lip in order that the fetus should then forget all it has been taught in the womb. That is the indent above the top lip and under the nose. Non Jewish people have this too!
Posted By Chaim, London, UK



 


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