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Was Sarah wrong to give Hagar to Abraham?


No, Sarah was not wrong to give Hagar to Abraham. She did this because she was already very aged and naturally there was no way that she could have any children. The biblical commentators laud Sarah's decision and see her act as a very selfless one. She was concerned with having progeny, and therefore was willing to forego her own honor or exclusivity as Abraham's only wife.

Sarah's plan was to raise Ishmael as her own son, teaching him the ways of Torah.

But G‑d had another plan in mind. He wanted Abraham and Sarah to have their own child...and so Sarah, miraculously, at the age of ninety, gave birth to Isaac, the second forefather of the Jewish people!

Chana Weisberg for Chabad.org

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Posted: Aug 28, 2011
Sarah treats hagar harsely
I would like to know what exactly it was, that Sarah did unto Hagar to make her run away.
Posted By Valerie Jean, köln, germany

Posted: July 18, 2007
Yes
My opinion is that she was wrong. She didn't trust G-d's plan. Instead, she divised one of her own. As a result of her resolution, the descendants of Hagar and Sarah battle forever.

I understand the desire to see it as a selfless act, but it was selfish because she prayed but didn't trust. Of course, I'm a gentile so what do I know :-)
Posted By Xenite, Van Nuys, CA

Posted: June 19, 2007
Many a time I see families doing selfless acts that merit them having a child of their own after many years of trying to conceive, just look at the many cases of people adopting kids than they get pregnant, afterwards.
This is like the Sarah and Hagar story here.
Posted By Gisele, Brooklyn, NY



 


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