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Response to a Casual Marijuana User

Response to a Casual Marijuana User



A while back, I was struggling with hard drugs and going downhill fast academically and socially. Since then I have experienced a series of ups and downs, but today I have a good job and live happily for the most part.

Now, here is my dilemma. I smoke marijuana on a casual basis, and do not see it having a negative effect on my life. I have strayed far away from the hard drugs I once took, and feel that marijuana is a safe way for me to indulge myself from time to time. I am a musician, artist and thinker, and hopeful I’m not sounding like a 1960s cliché when I say I have a somewhat more profound, surreal and exciting experience when I do this.

I suppose my question is this: What are your thoughts on my occasional, casual use of mj?


What complicates this question is that it’s not just the substance, but also the social issue. In other words, the issue is not just the drug itself, but how it is used—and how it is used depends principally on its social context.

For example, as I’m sure you know, even though marijuana is not without its fair package of damage, alcohol is really a more dangerous drug. However, Jews have created a social ambience for it that greatly limits the dangers involved. If you had lived in Baghdad 100 years ago, there may have been something similar for the use of hashish.

Marijuana today brings with it a lot of social baggage. It also doesn’t come with that traditional context of kiddush and l’chaim—and quite the contrary. Right now, that may not affect you. But what will happen when you decide to start a family? You have to buy it, hide it, explain it …more and more problems.

Bottom line, it’s not only the chemical effect of the marijuana on you—it’s everything that goes along with it.

I’ll give an example from a very different but similar situation:

Chocolate is one of my greatest weaknesses. Problem is, once I start eating dark chocolate, I get strong cravings for it. But dark chocolate is a stimulant, and most of my family—me included—are very sensitive to stimulants. Meaning that if I or one of my kids eats enough dark chocolate after 4 PM, there’s no way we’re going to be sleeping until after 2 AM.

So, in order for me to eat chocolate, I need to…

  • buy it when there are no kids shopping with me
  • sneak it into the house
  • hide it where they don’t suspect
  • take it out and consume it when none of them are around
  • wash out my mouth afterwards—they’re so good at detecting these things.

Nevertheless, my compulsion for dark chocolate was so great, I tried anyways. Needless to say, I was eventually discovered.

But what really shook me up was what my children learned from this. It wasn’t just that they said, “Hey, Daddy’s got chocolate and he’s hiding it from us!” That’s bad enough. What’s worse is that they emulated my behavior: They snuck the chocolate from my hiding place, hid it and ate it at night.

I like chocolate, but I don’t want my children to learn to steal, lie or cheat. Today, there are no dark chocolate bars hiding in my secret place.

That’s chocolate. With Mary Jane and all she brings with her—the implications for kids, the social milieu, the parties, the dealers, the street—okay, you’re intelligent, you can work it all out.

It’s not fair unless I provide an alternative: Attend a Torah class at your local Chabad House. The teachings of the chassidic masters and the kabbalists are great meditation material. Throw your mind into something deep and mind-altering—only that in this case, you are the one altering your own mind. And you can also go work out at the gym for 30 minutes. You’ll get high, higher than you could imagine.

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April 20, 2015
That does not mean it is Kosher
That means you got a heter to eat non kosher food. That also means that it has the same negative spiritual effects. So yes you could eat pork to save your life, but that doesn't mean that its the same as Kosher food.
Yaakov Mark
Los Angeles
April 20, 2015
marijuana kosher?
Thyroid medication made from porcine thyroid glands, i.e., Armour brand, is kosher. So if marijuana is medicinal to save a life, yes, it is kosher.
burbank, ca
April 14, 2015
Vodka made with Fruits or Sugar
Traditionally, vodka is made by the distillation of fermented cereal grains or potatoes, though some modern brands use other substances, such as fruits or sugar - grains are plants too...
Boca Raton FL
March 18, 2015
Kane Bosim like other scientific names has many similar sounding species and related plants that sound like it. The odds of Kane Bosim and Kannabis being the same thing are low. If your smoking Kane Bosim, you might be smoking something as potent as oak leaves and so I would go back to the drug dealer and ask for your money back. It might just make you cough alot.
Yaakov Mark
Los Angeles
March 18, 2015
Vodka is generally made from grain or potatoes. Despite a widespread misconception, physiologically alcohol not only doesn't warm a person up, but further depresses a central nervous system already depressed by body temperature. What it does do, though, is help a person care less about freezing to death.

You're right that making kiddush on mashkeh is not a general practice among chassidim. Even among Lubavitchers it is usually reserved for "special" occasions like, say, a Shabbos M'vorchim kiddush in shul. And of course, it's only a minority who will do it. After all, the Rebbe זי"ע said not to do it. He also said people should limit themselves to three l'chaims (and he was talking about the typical little plastic l'chaim cup). If you point this out to somebody making kiddush on hard liquor, or about to pour his eighth l'chaim, he will likely just give you a little smile, as if to say, "Yes, the Rebbe said that, but he didn't mean it for real chassidim like me."
March 17, 2015
Don't smoke on Shabbes. Kne-Bosim is the only good drug...that includes alcohol and especially tobacco, cigarettes are toxic with deadly chemical added.
March 17, 2015
Ha Ha Ha! Very funny, Sorry!
Where does vodka comes from? Isn’t from fruits too or vegetables like any other wines? All I know is usually the kiddush is done over wine. I suppose some people go to the extreme using something a bit stronger. Is this a general tradition? I don’t think so. Don’t pour all the Chassidishe in one cup! Vodka was customary for Russian, Polish and people living in the bitter icy cold of Siberia to warm up their heart and soul and stay alive. It was handed down from generation to generation but might have stopped with the new ones. Although I do not believe in alcohol, I do have a certain respect for these people as our ancestors. But I would not encourage anyone to follow on their trail today.
Boca Raton FL
March 16, 2015
To Feigele
I thought it was evident that when I spoke of alcohol abuse in chassidishe circles, I wasn't talking about wine. "Brown" and "white" are not wines. Have you ever seen the result of people making kiddush on vodka? I have. On occasion, I've also had to avoid stepping in said result.
March 15, 2015
This discussion no longer goes according to sechel. Chabad don't openly support medical cannabis, because there are enough good people already in jail for this.
This has nothing to do with Juidaism, and all to do with living in a opressed state, Mitzrayim!
March 13, 2015
Kids are getting high from the THC in cooked brownies all the time. I do not get it. Anyway, your question regarding Kashrus is simple. Its not milk or meat, nor is it pork or animal in anyway. All the plants are Kosher. The question here is if getting high is halachically acceptable. In that respect their are different rabbinical opinions and so you can rely on an opinion that says its ok, I am sure. (Disclaimer: I am not a Rav and my halachic answers should not be relied upon) You should ask your Rav. Is it antithetical to the practice of Judaism? Since Judaism teaches us to reduce our lust of pleasure and physical things, and instead to focus our lust for spiritual things, I would say Marijuana fits that bill. Others will say what about alcohol? My own opinion is that alcohol in moderation, leaves the system quite nicely while THC sticks in the brain and accumulates over time. I believe that over time it makes you less spiritually sensitive.
Yaakov Mark
Los Angeles
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