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Why is it the woman's role to light the Shabbat candles?


Our sages have declared that the privilege of lighting the Shabbat candles belongs to the woman because:

  • She is usually more involved in the running of the house, and spends more time at home.
  • Eve, by persuading her husband to eat of the tree of knowledge, brought death to the world and extinguished the "candle of G-d." To atone for this, women kindle the Shabbat candles, reigniting the G-dly spark.
  • It is the woman who determines the spirituality in the home. By encouraging the study of Torah and the meticulous performance of mitzvot, and through her nurturing presence, the woman transforms her home into a place of holiness, peace and tranquility. It is thus fitting that she be the one to bring the extra measure of light and holiness with the Shabbat candles.
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Posted: Aug 28, 2011
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Please Show me where it is written candles are to be lit on shabbat.
Posted By batyah, goldsboro, nc

Posted: Aug 23, 2011
candle lighting : Shabbat
This article is very spiritual to me .
is just what I needed.
Thank you for very much.
Posted By Anonymous, Andalusia, AL

Posted: Nov 19, 2010
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i have always wondered about this. your explanation and its connection to the biblcal past is really illuminating and deeply meaningful. many thanks!
Posted By Anonymous, nuremberg, germany

Posted: Sep 23, 2010
Candle lighting: Shabbat
This article is very spiritual to me,and is just what I needed. Thank you for very much for posting!
Posted By Anonymous, EHT, NJ



 


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