I acknowledge my profound debt to the following people for
assisting me in the production of this work:
My brother, Dr. Norman Lamm, my mentor and colleague,
President of Yeshiva University, who sacrificed precious hours to critically
review the entire manuscript;
Rabbi Zvi Schachter, Rosh Yeshiva, and Head of the Kollel
at Yeshiva University, who tested all my halakhic decisions;
Rabbi David Bleich, Rosh Yeshiva, and faculty member at
Cardozo School of Law, who reviewed the chapter on prohibited partners;
Shimon and Anita Wincelberg, authors and playwrights, who
made important suggestions regarding style;
Adaire Klein, librarian at Yeshiva University, Los Angeles,
who contributed dedicated and invaluable research assistance in the preparation
of the bibliography and manuscript;
Ben Zion Jerusalmi, who diligently reviewed the sources;
John Loudon, my editor, who was persistently confident of
the need for this work;
Last and most, my parents, Samuel and Pearl Lamm, who serve
as models of the Jewish Way in Love and Marriage. May they continue to find
their dreams fulfilled for many years to come.