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If G-d Knows Best, What's the Point of Prayer?



Question:

I'm a bit confused about the idea of praying to G-d to help us in a certain situation or provide us with something. If G-d has made a person's situation a certain way, then He wants it to be this way. He knows this is good for that person. So then, why should a person pray for the situation to change?

Answer

Yes, the whole concept of praying is confusing. We trust in G-d that He is good and does everything for the good. We believe that He has perfect knowledge of everything and that everything is under His control. And we ask him to change things and make them good. Yes, it seems a contradiction.

So think of it like this: G-d wants people to pray to Him. Something like a parent wants a child to pick up the phone and say,"Hi, Mom and Dad." More than that, He wants things to progress in His world through mutual consultation. He wants that we should be involved in understanding what's good for us and bringing it about -- no matter how much better His own understanding and ability is than our understanding and ability.

That's what prayer is all about: Communion between you and G-d. Think of prayer as G-d talking to Himself -- through you. In prayer, you and G-d are one.

So ask for everything you need. But keep in mind Who it is that you are asking. And ask yourself what you are doing in return. What kind of a partner are you?


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Posted: Mar 22, 2006
prayer
Let's say I told a friend who had just been robbed that that would never happen to me because I'm devoted to G-d and He'd never let it happen.
Even an agnostic would tell you that's asking for trouble.
So what if I think about this later and realize it was a mistake to say? I'd pray to G-d and ask for forgiveness and beg him not to punish me. G-d might still punish me, or he might decide not to seeing as I had already learned my lesson. So prayer would make a difference in this case.
Same with wanting a sick relative to recover. Praying might teach you to trust G-d and that relative would get well. Or the lesson might be to accept G-d's will, then the prayer wouldn't be answered, but you would still have learned something and become closer to G-d. Prayer makes a difference.
Posted By Carmen Lambert, Sydney, Australia

Posted: June 15, 2005
my homework assignment
This comcept is confusing but i don't really agree with this answer (us JUST being part of the process). Yes, we're part of the process but that doesn't seem fit enough for such a question, it's too plain. It is also a little discouraging when it says that it is pointless for someone to pray for a situation to change because it IS possible for our prayers to be effective, otherwise all that we learn on torah is a complete paradox!

(no disrespect, sincerely)
Posted By Tanya Frank, miami, florida

Posted: June 8, 2005
If God knows best whats the point of praying?
Tvi Freeman is confused, he wants to know why we should daven to
g-d if whatever god does is for a reason and for the good.

Answer:
we know that g-d does everything for a reason he has perfect knowledge of everything. Ex. lets say you are destined to break both of your legs and you pray to g-d he'll change it to probally just getting a scratch or only breaking 1 leg.

This is what praying is all about communication between you and hashem (g-d)
Posted By sharon cohen 7th grade Bies Chana, boca, florida



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