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Man and Woman


It is a mistake to consider man and woman two separate beings. They are no more than two halves of a single form, two converse hemispheres that fit tightly together to make a perfect whole. They are heaven and earth encapsulated in flesh and blood.

It is only that on its way to enter this world, this sphere was shattered apart. What was once the infinity of a perfect globe became two finite surfaces. What was once a duet of sublime harmony became two bizarre solos of unfinished motions, of unresolved discord.

So much so, that each one hears in itself only half a melody, and so too it hears in the other. Each sees the other and says, "That is broken." Feigning wholeness, the two halves wander aimlessly in space alone.

Until each fragment allows itself to surrender, to admit that it too is broken. Only then can it search for the warmth it is missing. For the depth of its own self that was ripped away. For the harmony that will make sense of its song.

And in perfect union, two finite beings find in one another infinite beauty.


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From the wisdom of the Lubavitcher Rebbe; words and condensation by Tzvi Freeman. To order Tzvi's book, "Bringing Heaven Down to Earth, click here. Rabbi Freeman is available for public speaking and workshops. Read more on his bio page.

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Posted: Apr 5, 2009
That is beautiful. Shalom!
Posted By Anonymous, UK

Posted: Dec 20, 2008
Man And Woman
I am searching for my "rib" but this time in an inteligent manner. By that I mean core values have to be demonstrated and it is no longer the best looking woman but rather the best woman I can find. You have to shop around. Well, I hope this works but certainly it can't fail completely! Or can it?
Posted By sam, castro valley, CA

Posted: Dec 11, 2008
Shidduchim Crisis at large
I agree with the person who wrote two post up from me that there surely is a match-finding crisis especially so in the Religious world, and the Jewish leaders need to address this problem in a comprehensive way - like a major campaign. A new set of standards for men especially need to be made, and a support system to meet one another needs to be in place. Thanks for the article though. Its quite brilliant~
Posted By Anonymous



 


Love: an Anthology
Love Yourself
The Grammar of Love
Man and Woman
Mikvah Time
The Jealous Lover
Do We Love Too Much?
Trust
How to Criticize and Other Thoughts On Love
The Rebbe's Love Laboratory
Love According to the Rebbe
Love in a Heartbeat
The Calling
Uncle Irv
Mirrors
Sitting in a Café
The Gift
Two Against One
The Meaning of Love
The Man Who Mistook His Wife's Foot for His Own
Kabbalah of Love
Why Do We Fall in Love?
Alienation and Faith
The Loving Friends
Love at First Sight: Five Biblical Examples
A History of Love
24,000 Plus One
Partner
Are You Happily Ever After?
Ramblings about Stress and Love
The Cry of the Holy Sparks
The Morality of Weakness: Defining Sexual Harassment
Why Is Torah Law So Restrictive of Contact Between the Genders?
What If You Mess Up?
Tanya Chapter 32
The Baal Shem Tov on Love
A Joyous Divorce