It is customary to perform the kaparot (symbolic "atonement") rite in preparation for Yom Kippur.
The rite consists of taking a chicken and waving it over one's head three times while reciting the appropriate text. The fowl is then slaughtered in accordance with halachic procedure and its monetary worth given to the poor, or, as is more popular today, the chicken itself is donated to a charitable cause.
We ask of G‑d that if we were destined to be the recipients of harsh decrees in the new year, may they be transferred to this chicken in the merit of this mitzvah of charity.
In most Jewish communities, kaparot is an organized event at a designated location. Live chickens are made available for purchase, ritual slaughterers are present, and the slaughtered birds are donated to a charitable organization. Speak to your rabbi to find out whether and where kaparot is being organized in your area.
The Timing
Kaparot can be done any time during the Ten Days of Repentance (i.e. between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur), but the ideal time is on the day preceding Yom Kippur during the early pre-dawn hours, for a "thread of Divine kindness" prevails during those hours.
The Chicken
Several reasons have been suggested for the choice of a chicken to perform the kaparot rite: 1) In Aramaic, a rooster is known as a gever. In Hebrew, a gever is a man. Thus we take a gever to atone for a gever. 2) A chicken is a commonly found fowl and relatively inexpensive. 3) It is not a species that was eligible for offering as a sacrifice in the Holy Temple. This precludes the possibility that someone should erroneously conclude that the kaparot is a sacrifice.
It is customary to use a white chicken, to recall the verse (Isaiah 1:18), "If your sins prove to be like crimson, they will become white as snow." In any event, one should not use a black chicken, as black is the color that represents divine severity and discipline. Nor should one use an obviously blemished chicken.
A male takes a rooster; a female uses a hen. Ideally every individual should use their own chicken. If, however, this is cost prohibitive, one fowl can be used for several individuals. So an entire family can do kaparot with two chickens—one rooster for all the males and one hen for all the females.
In the event that more than one person share a kaparot chicken, they should do the kaparot together, not one after the other. For one cannot do kaparot with a "used" chicken.
A pregnant woman should perform kaparot with three chickens—two hens and a rooster. One hen for herself, and the other hen and rooster for the unborn child (of undetermined gender). Or, if this is too expensive, one hen and one rooster will suffice (and if the fetus is female, she shares the hen with her mother).
If a chicken is unavailable, one may substitute another kosher fowl (besides for doves and pigeons, as they were offered as sacrifices in the Holy Temple). Some use a kosher live fish; others perform the entire rite with money, and then giving the money – at least the value of a chicken – to charity.
The Ceremony
If you're reluctant to hold a live chicken in your hands, someone else can hold the chicken and wave it over your head.
Even the smallest of children are traditionally brought to kaparot, and one of their parents waves the chicken over the child's head, while saying, "This is your exchange, this is your substitute, this is your expiation..."
It is of utmost importance to treat the chickens humanely, and not to, G‑d forbid, cause them any pain or discomfort. Jewish law very clearly forbids causing any unnecessary pain to any of G‑d's creations. The repugnance of such an unkind act would certainly be amplified on this day, the eve of the day when we beseech G‑d for – perhaps undeserved – kindness and mercy. In fact, the Code of Jewish Law suggest that we take the innards and liver of the kaparot chickens and place them in an area where birds can feed off them. "It is proper to show mercy to the creatures on this day, so that in Heaven they should have mercy upon us [too]."
The same procedure outlined above is followed – sans the ritual slaughterer – if using fish or money for kaparot.
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It is very easy to dismiss many of these rituals as having evolved from a time when Jews were not as well educated as they are today, and therefore are no longer "necessary". That in itself is hardly a reason to dismiss the importance of rituals. For many they continue to give a sense of inspiration and spiritual support.
However, what is also often forgotten is that by following rituals that arose in a different time, in a different place, and as guidance for people who were less socially and culturally developed than we are today, is that it reminds us as Jews that we have a link with the past. What we believe and what we do did not simply arise out of nothingness. What makes Judaism strong is that it is not simply as faith of today, but it has a continuity over hundreds and hundreds of years and all of us as Jews are part of it.
Following rituals which arose a long time ago makes us part of this.
Bloomfield, CT
Actually, i was pitifully attempting to explain what i had heard on NPR about kapparot, i.e., chicken thing/sacrifice.
He's 15-years-old. He hunts with his father, which he drew a parallel from during our talk...to quote: "Most people think hunters are desensitized to life, but actually it's the opposite (we agreed to some hunters)." It was the whole experiene of the kill and all that entails of the individual's psyhe, emotioin, mental state, etc that owes to the solemn, yet incredibly experience between the hunter, the animal and g-d.
For whatever this is worth, i felt it played a direct role in understanding the experience a jew must feel during kapparot.
As for the prior comment, the love from which the jews draw upon during the sacrifice (and gift to poor) is far more than i can say for the meat industry that slaughters millions of fowl for your dinner!
pgh
Perhaps when created Kapparot made sense - it was for illeterate peasants - not so today.
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Montreal, CAnada
expiations of others? Or are they eaten by the family?
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