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Yizkor - The Memorial Prayer

Yizkor - The Memorial Prayer

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Yizkor, a special memorial prayer for the departed, is recited in the synagogue four times a year, following the Torah reading on the last day of Passover, on the second day of Shavuot, on Shemini Atzeret and on Yom Kippur.

Yizkor, in Hebrew, means "Remember." It is not only the first word of the prayer, it also represents its overall theme. In this prayer, we implore G‑d to remember the souls of our relatives and friends that have passed on.

When we recite Yizkor, we renew and strengthen the connection between us and our loved one, bringing merit to the departed souls, elevating them in their celestial homes.

The main component of Yizkor is our private pledge to give charity following the holiday in honor of the deceased. By giving charity, we are performing a positive physical deed in this world, something that the departed can no longer do.

The soul gains additional merit if the memory of its good deeds spur their loved ones to improve their ways.

It is customary for those with both parents alive to leave the synagogue during the Yizkor service. A mourner during the first year remains in the synagogue, but does not recite the Yizkor. Some kindle a 24-hour Yizkor candle (before the holiday).

In addition to reciting Yizkor for one's parents, one may recite Yizkor for any Jew who has passed on, including relatives and friends. When reciting Yizkor for more than one person, repeat the Yizkor paragraph each time, and substitute the words "Aböh Mori" (my father), or " Imi Morösi" (my mother), with the appropriate title, as follows: For a Husband: "Ba-ali." Son: "B'ni." Brother: "Öchi ." Uncle: "Dodi." Grandfather: "Z'kainy" . Wife: " Ishti." Daughter: "Biti." Sister: "Achosi." Aunt: "Dodosi." Grandmother: "Z'ken-ti."

Text of Yizkor

For a father (and all males) say:

Hebrew and Transliteration:

Translation:

May G‑d remember the soul of my father, my teacher (mention his Hebrew name and that of his mother) who has gone to his [supernal] world, because I will — without obligating myself with a vow — donate charity for his sake. In this merit, may his soul be bound up in the bond of life with the souls of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, Sarah, Rebecca, Rachel and Leah, and with the other righteous men and women who are in Gan Eden; and let us say, Amen.

For a mother (and all females) say:

Hebrew and Transliteration:

Translation:

May G‑d remember the soul of my mother, my teacher (mention her Hebrew name and that of her mother) who has gone to her [supernal] world, because I will - without obligating myself with a vow - donate charity for her sake. In this merit, may her soul be bound up in the bond of life with the souls of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, Sarah, Rebecca, Rachel and Leah, and with the other righteous men and women who are in Gan Eden; and let us say, Amen.

Continue here:

Translation:

May the All-Merciful Father Who dwells in the supernal heights, in His profound compassion, remember with mercy the pious, the upright and the perfect ones, the holy communities who gave their lives for the sanctification of the Divine Name.
They were beloved and pleasant in their lives, and [even] in their death were not parted [from Him]; they were swifter than eagles, stronger than lions to carry out the will of their Maker and the desire of their Creator.
May our G‑d remember them with favor together with the other righteous of the world, and avenge the spilled blood of His servants, as it is written in the Torah of Moses, the man of G‑d: O nations, sing the praises of His people, for He will avenge the blood of His servants, bring retribution upon His foes, and placate His land — His people.
And by Your servants the Prophets it is written as follows: I will cleanse [the nations of their wrongdoings,] but for the [shedding of Jewish] blood I will not cleanse them; the Lord dwells in Zion.
And in the Holy Writings it is said: Why should the nations say, "Where is their G‑d?" Let there be known among the nations, before our eyes, the retribution of the spilled blood of Your servants. And it is said: For the Avenger of bloodshed is mindful of them; He does not forget the cry of the downtrodden. Further it is said: He will render judgment upon the nations, and they will be filled with corpses; He will crush heads over a vast area. He will drink from the stream on the way; therefore [Israel] will hold its head high.

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October 20, 2016
If one cannot determine the Hebrew names of the deceased, one may use the secular names. Though Yizkor is recited specifically for Jewish deceased, you can still recite Psalms and give charity in honor of a non-Jew who has passed on. Charity can be given to public not strictly Jewish causes.

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Simcha M Bart
October 12, 2016
Saying Yizkor for a person when you do not know their hebrew name and their parents name
I want to say Yizkur for a parents but I do not know their hebrew name nor the hebrew name of the parents. I do not have any family to ask. How do I remember them through Yizkur?

Also, í have an "aunt" who is nonJewish but has done more to mold me than anyone. She would be one I would want to remember more than anyone; is it permittable to say Yizkur for her?

How do I fulfill the obligation of charity? I support Bikers Against Child Abuse (B.A.C.A.), do my contributions to them mães the requiements for charity.
Thank you
Michael
Cedarhurst
October 12, 2016
Yom Kippur fasting
When did fasting fist become a requirement on Yom kippur?
Michael
Cedarhurst
June 10, 2016
thank you.
Linda Roa
tampa
October 4, 2015
Yizkor for sister
Should a person say Yizkor for their sister, if the parents are still alive?
Anonymous
St Kilda East
September 23, 2015
Thank you for the prayers.
Anonymous
hallandale
September 21, 2015
Does anyone knows what prayer should I say when lighting the candle for my father's memory?

Thanks!
hannah
Florida
September 20, 2015
To Jeremy
I am so sorry for your loss, may G-d comfort you amongst the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.
You may attend Yizkor but the custom is not to say the actual prayer during the first year of mourning.
Chabad.org Staff
chabadone.org
September 18, 2015
Do I attend Yizkor next week as my father died 3 weeks ago
Do I attend Yizkor next week as my father died 3 weeks ago
Jeremy
Hampshire
October 14, 2014
To Anonymous
Yes, Yizkor is said on Shemin Atzeret (Thursday October 16 2014).
Mrs. Chana Benjaminson
mychabad.org
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