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Four Excuses

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The "That's how G-d made me" excuse:

Why shouldn't I do whatever I want? After all, if I want it, that means that there's something inside me telling me to want it, right? I'm just being me. Isn't it natural for me to be me?

The "Sorry, I lost it" excuse:

Look, I know it's wrong. But I can't control myself. I have this violent streak in me that... well, once you start me off, I can't stop.

The "I'm special" excuse:

I'm an artist/business tycoon/holy man//commander-in-chief/heiress/scientist. I have very special talents and abilities and great things to accomplish. The regular rules don't apply to me. I can't be constrained by laws designed to keep the herd in line.

The "Little me" and "What's the use" excuse

You know, I used to care about these things and try to right the world's wrongs. But what's the point? The world is what it is, and what I do or don't do won't make much difference anyway. So I just let things take their course.


The Torah reading of Mishpatim ("Laws" -- Exodus 21-24) includes much of what can be called the Torah's "civil code" -- the laws governing criminal assault, theft, damages, loans and rentals, employer-employee relations, etc. But as the Chassidic masters repeatedly remind us, everything in Torah has both a "body" and a "soul": the most lofty or esoteric concept has a practical application, and the most technical law has a spiritual import.

Mishpatim includes the laws of the "Four Prototypes of Damages" (as the Talmud defines them) -- "the animal, the pit, the man and the fire." Technically, these describe four basic categories of damages for which a person is responsible: 1) "Animal": damage caused by one's animal or other possession (e.g., your ox gores your neighbor's cow; your goat eats up your neighbor's tomato plants); 2) "Pit": passive damage caused by one's criminal negligence (e.g., you dig a hole in the middle of the street and someone falls in and breaks a leg); 3) "Man": active, human-inflicted damages (e.g., you break his $1000 lamp or the only nose on his face); 4) "Fire": damages arising from the failure to control potentially damaging forces that are one's responsibility to control (e.g., you're burning garbage in your back yard and it spreads to your neighbor's property).

The "Four Prototypes of Damages," says the Rebbe, also describe four spiritually damaging phenomena: the tendency to blindly and indiscriminately follow our wiles and desires ("the animal"); the failure to control anger and other destructive forces in our psyche ("fire"); the delusion that everything is permitted in pursuit of a "higher" goal ("man"); and the inertia of the passive, hollowed-out soul ("the pit").

As the laws of Mishpatim warn against and prescribe the remedies for the physical "Prototypes of Damages," so does the "soul of Torah" counteract its four spiritual analogs:

Yes, our animal instincts are natural, necessary and desirable, but only when guided and directed by the higher instincts of our G-dly soul.

Yes, volatile forces rage within us; but we have been given the responsibility, and the means, to control them.

No, our highest and most spiritual aspirations are not exempt from the rule of law. On the contrary, when they fail to submit to its higher authority, they become the cause for the greatest evils perpetrated by man.

Indeed, passivity is all too easy a rut to roll into. We must constantly remind ourselves that our actions do make a difference in G-d's world: He created it, He entrusted us with the task to improve it, and He supplied us the resources to do so. We need only scratch the surface of our soul to uncover the faith, the will, the passion and the energy to act.

By Yanki Tauber
By Yanki Tauber; based on the teachings of the Rebbe.
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February 12, 2012
great!!!
Thanks for pulverizing any "excuses" I made/make or will make.
Nowhere to hide anymore, oh well. Thank you so much.
Anonymous
February 21, 2009
Four excuses
Thank you for an eye opener. Your written thoughts have to be reviewed; so much subtle, practical information. i plan to print your article; so I can reread the ideas often. Thank you again.
Anonymous
St. Louis Park , MN
May 3, 2007
Four excuses
Your article about the four excuses offered is very much to the point: I keep kosher here because it is easy, but have been of late thinking of doing so when back home.

The reason for not bothering is precisely that: that I am not important, I don't count so why would G-d be bothered by what I eat (what I do sure it hurts others).

Your article has shown me many of us use these excuses for many things!
Anonymous
Jerusalem, Israel
February 15, 2007
Thank you so much for that well written article about the four states/excuses; it took subject matter that I might have dismissed as somehow irrelevant to my particular situation/life, and transformed it into very pertinent, thought provoking, timeless subject matter. Now I know this is always the case with the torah as a rule, but articles like this, written by writers like this, really truly bring it to light. Thanks so much!
Debbie Sassiver
NYC, NY
February 14, 2007
Re; soul
"Let it loose, let it rip..."
I was a prison guard for 7 years and heard similar comments from thousands of men doing hard time. The kind of Time that does irreparable damage to a man's psyche. Letting rip also caused damage to every other life associated to that person. When they let it rip they thought of nothing but their own wants no restraint. Who's it going to hurt, right? There's a reason we have a higher brain; think outside your box before you let it rip.
Stephen Sherman
angleton, TX
February 19, 2006
soul
Yeah, its good to control yourself. But sometimes you gotta let it loose, let it rip. Have no control over yourself, and see where you end up. This is true intuition, i guess...
igorq
Garnerville, NY
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