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The Iron Necklace


Many years ago, at a time when Jews had full control of the Cave of Machpelah in Hebron, the one in charge of the keys to the gate was a man by the name of Yitzchak. Yitzchak was a poor widower. He had an only daughter named Dinah, a kind-hearted and beautiful girl. The time came when Dinah reached marriageable age and was betrothed to a fine young man.

Yitzchak worked hard to save money for his daughter’s wedding needs. He bought her a trousseau and an assortment of finery for her wedding day. But then, Yitzchak remembered that the traditions of their community demanded he provide Dinah with a gold necklace to wear at her wedding. However, he did not have enough money left to buy one. Yitzchak became very sad. This adornment was a matter of great pride among the women of the community, and poor girls lacking the proper attire had been known to weep for shame on their wedding days, some even running away to avoid the embarrassment. Yitzchak was beside himself about what to do. He didn’t tell Dinah anything, for he did not want her to feel sadness earlier than she had to.

As the wedding day approached, one night Dinah had a dream that she was standing at the gate of the Cave of Machpelah. There she was, holding the keys to the gate. A woman dressed in white came up to her. The woman had a face filled with light like the sun. The woman raised her hand and touched Dinah’s hair. She said to Dinah, “This big chain, with these keys to this holy place, should be your necklace at your wedding. This necklace holds a hundred times more merit than any necklace of gold and jewels.”

Then the woman disappeared. Dinah awoke and, remembering her dream, decided not to tell anyone about it.

The wedding day finally came, and Yitzchak’s face was gray with dread about what would be. Dinah’s friends came to help her get ready for the wedding. After Dinah dressed in her wedding clothes, she called her father over, asking him if she could have a word with him alone. With a broad smile on her face, she said, “Father, please give me the keys to the Cave of Machpelah. They will be my wedding necklace. They have much more merit than any gold or jewels.”

Yitzchak was surprised and relieved. He ran to fetch the keys and gave them to his daughter. Wearing the iron chain with the keys of the Cave of Machpelah, Dinah was radiant. People exclaimed the she was more beautiful with the necklace of iron than brides of the past with gold and jewels.

From that day, Hebron’s brides wore this special “Necklace of Iron” instead of gold and jewels at their wedding.

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Adapted from Hebron.org.il, by Yrachmiel Tilles. Rabbi Tilles is co-founder of ASCENT OF SAFED, and editor of Ascent Quarterly and the Ascent and Kabbalah Online websites

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Posted: July 1, 2011
אין עוד מלבדו, סיפור מיוחד מאד ותודה על פירסומו.
Posted By חיים אייזנבאנק, beitar, Israel
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Posted: Feb 25, 2011
Very insightful
I am studying in Genesis and have to come to this great story being non materialistic. I love the story and will tell it to my family.
Posted By M, Brea, Ca/USA

Posted: Nov 19, 2008
Beautiful story. Who wrote this? I have never heard it before...in what generation did it take place?

I assume this story actually happened. For how many generations did the girls adopt this tradition...or was it only Dina?
Posted By MS

Posted: Dec 5, 2005
Awesome!
In a world today where the weddings are so lavish we need stories like this to remind us of what is important on the wedding day, not the jewelary but the prayers. Love your stories.
Posted By Rivka Burde, Brooklyn, NY

Posted: Jan 1, 1900
I like that. good job!
Posted By sarah miniyargaski



 


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