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Humpty Dumpty Should Have A Great Fall

(Or At Least an Elevation)


When a child first hears of the tragedy of Humpty-Dumpty, the child may react in several ways:

1) The child will laugh at the funny sounds.

2) The child will cry (Why did he fall? Couldn't a doctor help him?)

3) The child will be puzzled (Who was Humpty Dumpty? Was he a person, or an egg? If he was a person, why wasn't he more careful not to fall? If he was an egg, why was he on the wall in the first place, and what did all the King's horses and men care so much about a broken egg?)

To the thoughtful child, Humpty Dumpty and his ilk are enigmas. The child may assume that since these characters and their stories are introduced right at the onset of his/her education, sung to beautiful music and accompanied by beautiful colored illustrations, they must be important. What is the significance of the mishaps of Jack and Jill? Who was Old Mother Hubbard? Who were her children? Why did she have only a dog? Why was her cupboard empty?

As the years pass, Humpty Dumpty does fall into the background. Yet it may leave a bothersome impression on the mind, which might only be relieved by chancing upon a scholarly volume, entitled something like "The Psychological Significance of Nursery Rhymes (Annotated)". Here Humpty Dumpty receives his full due. Humpty Dumpty, it seems, evolved from a political spoof among English Lords or Commoners, many, many years ago. Ditto for many other of the nursery rhymes.

You see, there was once, perhaps, a Lord Dumpty, who failed in his political aspirations. Is this a heritage for our kids?

There is no such thing as a "meaningless" nursery rhyme. If it is nonsensical, it fills a child's mind up with nonsense. Many, however, are violent, foolish, or misleading. That which enters semiconsciously into the young mind (or any mind) will emerge later in actions.

Our children deserve better "background music" for the most impressionable and formative time of their lives.


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From an article by Yaffa Leba Gottlieb   More articles...  |   RSS Listing of Newest Articles by this Author

From an article by Yaffa Leba Gottlieb, originally published in Di Yiddishe Heim


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Posted: Aug 30, 2005
Reply to Thomas again (& to anyone else)
"Search my son and thou shall find..." Believe me it's out there. Thank G-d, we have been blessed to live in a generation that has available to it a dazzling array of children's interest products for all age groups... We DO have choices; we absolutely must make the most of what we have to provide our children with an antidote to the poison we with in the past 10, 20 & 30+ years...
Posted By mendy mermelstein

Posted: Aug 28, 2005
To Mendy again
And a todah rabbah to you. Still, Mendy, chabad.org is for adults (though there is nothing wrong in very young Jews' perusal of this site).

What I think Jewish kids need (and it's long overdue) are superheroes in the comic books and stories that are distinctly Jewish.

All kids start out in life developing their imaginations, before they grow up (hopefully) to deal with the weighty matters related to life and reality.

Sure, comic books and children's stories (nursery rhymes) are fantasy, and you want to raise a child to grow up (once again, hopefully) to able to live in reality; but the first part of a child's mind that real develops is it's imagination. This precedes knowledge and wisdom, discerning reality; and Jewish kids are often deprived in this area because all of the imaginary superheroes of the childrens' stories are always goy, and the Jew is often not even presented as a decent person.

To feed the imagination of a child is food for the soul of it's mind:kosher.
Posted By Thomas Karp

Posted: Aug 26, 2005
THANK YOU, MR. KARP
Your observation is correct especially since it's just about impossible to remove one's self entirely from the pernicious effects of today's media. But let us appreciate & thank those special people, of whom chabad.org is among the most professional, for providing us with proper media outlets so that one should **not** keep his head in the sand (unfortunately, I feel the need to do that too), should keep abreast of world events & daily developments, & respond if necessary the way a Jew should respond. Yes, there are plenty of heroes & good Jewish role models! "It's all in the presentation"...
Posted By mendy mermelstein



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