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Day One of Week 7: Chesed of Malchut

Day One of Week 7: Chesed of Malchut

43rd Day of the Omer


Week Seven - Malchut

Sovereignty - the last of the seven attributes - is different than the previous six. It is a state of being rather than an activity.

Leadership is a passive expression of human dignity which has nothing of its own except that which it receives from the other six emotions.

On the other hand, malchut manifests and actualizes the character and majesty of the human spirit. It is the very fiber of what makes us human. When love, discipline, compassion, endurance and humility are properly channeled into the psyche through bonding - the result is malchut. Bonding nurtures us and allows our sovereignty to surface and flourish.

Malchut is a sense of belonging. Knowing that you matter and that you make a difference. That you have the ability to be a proficient leader in your own right. It gives you independence and confidence. A feeling of certainty and authority. When a mother lovingly cradles her child in her hands and the child's eyes meet the mother's affectionate eyes, the child receives the message that I am wanted and needed in this world. I have a comfortable place where I will always be loved. I have nothing to fear. I feel like a king in my heart. This is malchut, kingship.

Day One of Week 7: Chesed of Malchut

Healthy sovereignty is always kind and loving. An effective leader needs to be warm and considerate. Does my sovereignty make me more loving? Do I exercise my authority and leadership in a caring manner? Do I impose my authority on others?

Exercise for the day: Do something kind for your subordinates.

From A Spiritual Guide to the Omer by Simon Jacobson
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BA Kress Austin June 5, 2016

Always? Is healthy sovereignty always kind and loving?

Is it always wrong to impose authority on another? Reply

Pesach Swanton June 5, 2016

This is right on time for me! Kindness is the key to happiness! Reply

Temitope May 27, 2014

Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. Speech is a primary tool of power, therefore a kindly heart (speaks) is a more gentle and effective platform of power. Reply

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