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Are Religious Jews Narrow-Minded?


Question: "I try to be open-minded spiritually. Why is it that religious Jews are so closed to the wisdom of other religions?"

Answer: First, allow me to point out that "open-minded" and "narrow-minded" are not objective appraisals; they are the output of a particular perspective.

Those whom you label narrow-minded perceive the dichotomy very differently. Because they concentrate on one path, they tend to think of themselves as focused and committed, and those whom you call open-minded as diffused and undisciplined. That does not mean they deny the validity of a way different than theirs. Rather, they would expect the practitioners of other paths also to devote all their efforts to their own way.

In this light, perhaps the classification of religious Jews as "narrow-minded" is narrow-minded! (I am confident that you are open-minded enough not to take offense from my words.) Of course, "committed vs. undisciplined" is no more objective than "open vs. narrow-minded." How about "multi-pathers and single-pathers"?

Jews do not deny that wisdom is to be found among the other nations. In religious matters, however, it is felt that Jews should master Judaism and Jewish resources before turning elsewhere. (The Midrash expresses it this way: "If they tell you the nations have wisdom, believe it; if they tell you the nations have Torah, don't believe it.") Until then, spending much time exploring other systems can be counter-productive. When a potential piano virtuoso invests his practice hours learning to play the violin, or an Olympic swimming hopeful spends his playing golf, they probably gain many new experiences and acquaintances and have a stimulating time. But are they making as much progress as they are able towards their primary objective?

After all, if, as the universalists often stress, all paths lead to the same goal (all streams to the same ocean, all spokes to the same hub, etc), striding firmly down just one path should get you there quicker and more efficiently than flitting back and forth between two or more. Or, to rephrase a classic Eastern metaphor, imagine trying to navigate a river with a foot in each of two boats. Equivalent Yiddish proverb: "You can't dance at both weddings!" (assuming that you've been invited to both...).

This does not mean Torah Jews disdain the truths other religious savants may have found or experienced. Nor does it imply we have to be afraid of contact with them or their followers, even though we don't seek them out. We do, however, deny the necessity to turn to other ways in our search for truth, self-perfection and/or salvation, whether personal, national or global. If we feel we need additional inspiration, we assume it is available to us in the Torah. It must be, since (as you accept) Judaism is an authentic, comprehensive path.

You say you have found among the "narrow-minded" -- those committed to a single path -- significant resource. Perhaps they reached their level of accomplishment precisely because of their unswerving focus?

And if G-d plants someone on a specific path -- in this case, arranged for us to be born with a Jewish soul -- why fight karma? Let's exhaust our heritage first before we decide that it requires supplementation.

Sincerely,
Yrachmiel Tilles

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Posted: Sep 7, 2011
Are Religious Jews narrow minded ?
Some are and some are not.
Posted By Jack, Midland Park

Posted: Nov 20, 2009
It's personal
This is a very personal matter, and what is at stake is YOU. A bank teller is taught what a real note looks like, and doesn't look at a fake in detail. If you have come to a understanding that Judaism is the right path, then time spent looking at other faiths is wasted on you, and a danger to you personally. Don't be taken in by the fake note, that has no value to you. Judaism is not narrow minded, it is protective of a most precious thing, YOU.
Posted By James Black, Canada

Posted: Oct 22, 2009
Narrow Mindedness
I am heartened and disheartened by the comments and commentators. Heartened by those who have reflected on the topic to find wisdom. Disheartened by several who believe only they have the correct religion, and that others, be they reform, conservative or orthodox Jews, or Buddhists or Christians have not found an equally true way to reach to G_d. We are all like blind men trying to describe an elephant. We can learn from all. But, as Jews, we are distinguished and bound by one particular fact: our Covenant with G_d. The rest is commentary.
Posted By Malcolm B, South Salem, NY/USA
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Posted: Oct 9, 2007
Narrow / Focused vs. Open / Unfocused
Rabbi Tilles makes good points, and everyones comments are interesting. I personally cannot resist anthropology and comparative religion as hobbies, but that's just me. Maybe, just maybe, Jews are not all meant to practice our religion exactly the same way. I admit that I have been undisciplined & unfocused, that I could stand to learn a lot more about my own religion, and that I could benefit from greater observance. However, I'm not entirely convinced that my life's mission is to be equally committed to Torah as the next Jew, or as ecumenical as some other Jew.
Posted By Rob W., Pittsburgh, PA / USA

Posted: Mar 1, 2007
I so much enjoyed R. Tilles responsa that I had to comment on this person's question. What I believe the questioner is experiencing is that Jews love to argue. This is not in the sense of verbal combat as so many view the term, but in the sense of "midrash" which is the basic tool in the search for truth that has developed the wonderful corpus of Halachic knowledge that has been acquired communally down through the ages. The thing is, if you come to the table you must bring something besides your appetite. They have done their homework and they love to test their knowledge. If you have done the same, not only will you find a richly open and academic respondent, but you will also find a true friend whose shared wisdom will only serve to more greatly illuminate your own path. This is why I, a Roman Catholic, respect and revere Judaism, from whence we originated.
Posted By Neil Downey, Chicopee, MA

Posted: Feb 23, 2007
Re:Are religious Jews narrow minded
That was the most clear, concise answer to a question everyone needs to understand. Thank you so much, Yerachmiel, for making it so simple and clear to why we need to concentrate on Torah and not take side trails. So much to learn and too little time!
Posted By Bea Baldridge, Pueblo West, CO

Posted: Feb 22, 2007
Narrow Mindedness
I agree with the Rabbi about being focused and committed. Too many people talk in superlatives and never get off the couch to do anything. But, I got involved in several other religions and studied others. Having gone through these experiences gives me a greater appreciation of richness of Judaism. I am not sure if I would have had such a depth of love for Judaism without broadening my perspective-WITHOUT GETTING LOST in other religions. We Jews mingle with everyone but do not become like anyone else.
Posted By Mark Adler, Chicago, IL

Posted: Feb 22, 2007
closed mindedness
It is best to know the world and what goes on around you. Don't close your mind off to it. If you undersand another's religion, than you will better understand the other person.
Posted By Anonymous, Pittsburgh, PA

Posted: Feb 22, 2007
Are Religious Jews Narrow-Minded?
Does it matter what men say? What does God say?
Posted By Patsy, TX

Posted: Feb 18, 2007
One can dance at both weddings. I am 16 years old. I attend a Reform Synagogue on Shabbos every Friday night, and I spend Shabbos on Saturday at the Chabad House. All of our Jewish paths can lead to one ocean. You can dance at both weddings. And, in my case, I learn two different dances and I'm better for it. Just go to one dance later than the other - you have a car, no?
And, "undisplined" is a name that "Reform" seem to have been labeled (unfairly) by "Orthdox" - who cares what people call you? Does G-d care about what organization recieved your money every year?
Posted By s rosen, Sugar Land, TX



 


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