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By Tzippora Price
I love my husband, but now that we are married, I realize that he is a little neurotic. He worries about everything...
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By Yisroel Susskind
The single greatest challenge faced by couples is how they handle their anger. How does one deal with the inevitable disagreements in marriage, without becoming angry?
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By Sara Chana Radcliffe
The vast majority of modern divorces are caused by emotional suffering. Men and women feel neglected, unappreciated, insulted, hurt, betrayed, bored, lonely, enraged and otherwise unhappy in marriage.
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By Bronya Shaffer
They'd married less than a year ago, following seven months of story-book courtship. It was a match made in Heaven. Hell, I heard him mutter...
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By Yehudis Karbal
Instead of getting into a power struggle with a person who constantly blames, shames and labels, try a refreshing approach that I call "the Pareve Response."
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Conflict Between My Wife and My Mother
By Tzippora Price
My wife and my mother don't get along. Both of them complain to me about the other one. I'm caught in the middle and I feel like I am balancing on a high wire. What can I do?
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By David Kaufman
When all other options to remain married have been exhausted, divorce is an act of kindness. However, statistical evidence clearly demonstrates that divorce is infinitely more complicated and painful than people expect. Some sobering facts about divorce...
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By Miriam Adahan
It is scary to be around "aggressor" people, since they have no compunctions about using various forms of emotional blackmail to get others to give in to their demands. Six essential tips on how to deal with these types...
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By Sara Chana Radcliffe
People scream in order to be heard. The thinking seems to go: "He/she isn't listening; I need to say it again and again, louder and louder. That way I will get my message across." Unfortunately the only message we get across that way is, "You are my enemy."
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The Couple that Had the Courage to Explore New Frontiers
By Bronya Shaffer
She grew up to the sights of women studying, teaching, arguing law and pedagogy; the women in his family awoke to prepare the lavish breakfast for their men. She was appalled at their apparent submissiveness to their men folk...
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Overcoming Unhealthy Generational Patterns
By Yehudis Karbal
Sara was very much like her mother, dynamic, outspoken, and definitely more comfortable in the "driver's seat." She saw how frustrated her mother was with her father's quiet, more passive way. And she was now reliving that anger in her own marriage.
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Use caution when sharing your feelings
By Miriam Adahan
Many psychologists are prone to overly optimistic promises about the power of communication to solve all problems. They urge people to, "Share your feelings," and "Talk it out until the problem is resolved." However, this advice can be disastrous! Not everyone values emotional honesty...
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By Tzippora Price
My husband works, while I stay home. By the time he comes home and the kids have gone to bed, I am exhausted. I just want to relax with a book and don't want to talk to anyone. But my husband is insulted by my desire to just chill out on my own.
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By Bronya Shaffer
Having discovered, finally, her Jewish identity, she could not abandon it. Yet, he never had thought to, nor was he now willing to, commit himself to the laws and practices governing Jewish life. How could she choose between the love of her life and the love of her people?
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By Sara Chana Radcliffe
Your spouse is "human imperfection personified." So are you, but that probably doesn't bother you that much. Help your spouse to improve but most of all, help YOURSELF to deal with it.
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By Avrohom Kass
Love and anger cannot coexist together. Anger will always push away love. A person cannot ingest poison and then remain healthy; so, too, a person cannot receive anger and still feel loving toward the angry person.
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And The Power of Words
By Yehudis Karbal
Yael and Yosef had a "good enough" marriage, but their marriage felt boring, and on automatic. Whenever they did find time to be together, the talk usually drifted to problems and negativity. As a result of their disconnection, they were both feeling lonely.
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By Tzippora Price
My husband and I have a good marriage. I respect him a lot, and he is definitely my best friend. But sometimes I find myself wondering "Is this it?"
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By Miriam Adahan
We have a stringent duty to honor our parents. But are there limits? What if they are interfering in our marriage?
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By Sara Chana Radcliffe
What makes a person loveable? Being "loveable" is relatively easy to achieve during the dating process but becomes much more difficult a few weeks after the marriage...
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