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Why Kiss the Mezuzah?


Dear Rabbi,

I want to understand why some people touch the mezuzah on the doorpost of their home as they enter or leave?

Answer:

The mezuzah, which is placed on doorways in Jewish homes, holds a piece of parchment containing two selections of verses from Deuteronomy (6:4-9 and 11:13-21).This is the shema prayer, which expresses the unity of G‑d. The verses start with “Hear, O Israel, the L‑rd is our G‑d, the L‑rd is One” and continue with the commandment to love G‑d with all of your heart. The parchment is placed in a small encasement and affixed on the doorposts of the home.1

The tradition in many Jewish homes is to place one’s hand on the mezuzah when passing by, and there are those who then kiss the hand that touched it. What is the source of this custom?

The first record of someone touching a mezuzah in this way is found in the Talmud in a story of the famous Roman convert to Judaism, Onkelos the son of Keloinimus.

The Talmud relates that the caesar sent troops to bring Onkelos2 to him:

They went once, and Onkoles spoke to them from the verses of the Torah [Bible] and they were inspired and converted.

The caesar sent another set of troops, telling them not to tell him anything. Onkeles said let me tell you something trivial… inspired by his words they all converted.

Caesar sent another set of troops, and the caesar told them not to discuss anything with him.

The third set of troops took him without entering in discussion with him.

As they were taking him out of the house, Onkeles saw a mezuzah on the doorway; Onkeles outstretched his arm and touched it. Onkeles asked them, “What is this that I am touching?” The troops responded, “You tell us.”

Onkeles explained to them, “It is the custom of the world that the king sits in the inside of the palace and the guards protect him from the outside. However, with G‑d, His servants are inside their homes and He protects them from the outside, as the verse says (Psalms 121:8), “G‑d will protect your departure and your arrival from now and forever.”

The troops were inspired and they converted.

Caesar did not send any additional troops.3

Based on this Talmud, Rabbi Moses Isserles added in a gloss in the Code of Jewish Law:

Some have the custom to place their hand on the mezuzah when they leave their home and say, “G‑d will protect your departure….” And the same when one enters the home—one should place one’s hand on the mezuzah.” 4

Why place a hand on the mezuzah? Commentaries explain that it reminds you to contemplate the unity of G‑d, as Maimonides writes in his code of Jewish law, the Mishneh Torah:

A person needs to be very careful in his or her observance of mezuzah, for it is incumbent on every individual and during the entire day.

Through the mezuzah, every time a person enters or leaves one’s home, one will encounter the unity of G‑d and remember his love for G‑d. Thus he will awaken from his “sleep” and recognize his obsession with the vanity of the times. And he will know that there is nothing that lasts eternally besides for the knowledge of the Creator of the world.

Through contemplating this, the person will regain awareness and follow the path of the upright.5

Rabbi Isaac Luria, known as the Arizal, adds that one should kiss the finger that touched the mezuzah, as if the holiness of the mezuzah transferred to the hand.6

The Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson, of righteous memory, in a 1987 talk, praised the custom of children kissing the mezuzah prior to going to bed. The Rebbe explained how what a person sees and hears as a child influences him as an adult, and that for children, “kissing the mezuzah engraves the recognition that there is one G‑d that watches over them and all that is found in their room.”7

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FOOTNOTES
1.

While it is widely accepted today to protect the parchment with an encasement, it is not required. However, if the mezuzah is not covered, one should not place one’s hand on it out of respect (see Pitchei Teshuvah on Shulkhan Arukh Yoreh Deah 285:4).

2.

There are those who opine that this is the same Onkelos who was the nephew of the emperor.

3.

Talmud, Avodah Zarah 11a.

4.

Shulkhan Arukh, the Code of Jewish Law, Yoreh Deah 285:2.

5.

The Laws of Mezuzah 6:13.

6.

Kitvei Arizal, vol. 12, Taamei Hamitzvot, Vaetchanan. See Rabbi Chaim Joseph David Azulai (1724-1807), known as the Chidah, in his volume on the Shulkhan Arukh, ibid 285:4.

7.

Freely translated from the talk published in Torat Menachem Hitvaduyot 5747, vol. 2, p. 647.


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Latest Comments:
Posted: Dec 1, 2011
Kissing or Touching Mezuzah
Whatever you want to do either kiss or touch, do it from your heart. I think it is not necessary to touch the Mezuzah, we can just keep our hand away from it and take a kiss of Mezuzah.
Posted By Anonymous, Alibag - Raigad, India

Posted: Nov 27, 2011
The to the Mezuzah
Dear rabbi
To get to know and understand the meaning of the thouching and kissing of the MEZUZAH to me is a blessing ......if I felt protected before by faith ...
Now I can expresed with more Joy!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted By Gloria , Saint Cloud , FL.

Posted: Nov 25, 2011
kissing and Hygiene!
Yes, you are suppose to kiss any Mezzuza where ever you see one. However as per today's hygiene’s standards, it is not very healthy to do so, as oppose to years ago when people were not aware of germs as we are today. If it's going to touch your lips, then do it with a tissue or just don't really touch it or your lips, don't worry about people seeing you, do it for yourself and G-d who, I'm sure would understand.
Posted By Feigele, Boca Raton, Florida

Posted: Nov 24, 2011
Kissing any mezuzah ... ?
What about mezuzot from other people's houses ... be it family or friends ?
Should one kiss them ? Or NOT touch them ?
Or just kiss the mezuzot in ones own home ?
I have seen people kiss mezuzot while entering shops ... or visiting others.
Posted By Mark Bebernig, NYC, NY

Posted: Nov 24, 2011
Unity
What is the "unity of G-d"?
Posted By Richard, San Diego, USA

Posted: Nov 17, 2011
great Q
That is a great question and I would say that it is fine not to if that is the worry. First of all that is a valid concern nowadays, in fact there is a comandment to guard ones' health. Aside from that, it is not compulsory to kiss the mezuza at all but to merely have it on the doorpost. My own suggesion is to kiss an inch away from your finger before touching the mezuza so to onlookers it looks as if you are and for yourself as to not get out of the habit of not doing it at all if it is important to you.
Posted By Anonymous

Posted: Nov 14, 2011
kissing vs touching mezuzah in dirty city
I know this may seem silly, but I have a health question. Living in NYC we take the trains, touch very dirty things on the way home. I always wash my hands as as soon as I get home, but before that I kiss my mezuzah on the way in. I am nervous these days about having dirty hands, kissing the mezuzah before washing the germs off of my hands. Is it OK not to kiss the mezuzah upon entering but to only touch it?
Posted By Sonya



 


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