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Why Not Make it Easier to Convert?



Question:

I often hear rabbis complain that the Jewish people are shrinking due to intermarriage and assimilation. But it is you rabbis who are the major obstacle to Judaism growing! If you would make conversion a bit easier, many more non-Jews would join us. Why do you stubbornly insist on a long and difficult conversion process, when you are closing the door to many potential converts?

Answer:

I would like to nominate you to be the next prime-minister. You have come up with a brilliant formula that could greatly benefit the world.

You argue that the Jewish people would grow if only it were easier to become Jewish. If we apply your logic to some other scenarios, most of society's problems could easily be solved. We could reduce the number of people living below the poverty line by simply making the poverty line lower. And we could have many more millionaires around if you didn't need so much money to be one! The crime rates would drop dramatically if we just legalize criminal activity. And if we dropped the average life-expectancy people would live so much longer!

Either Judaism is truth, or it is not. If it is truth, then truth can't be saved by diluting it. And if it isn't, why bother saving it at all?

The road to conversion is a challenging one. I have seen the hard work sincere converts put in to become Jewish. They inspire me and I am proud to know them. And I have seen the sad consequences of "quickie" conversions too. To paraphrase Groucho Marx, how could someone respect a religion that bent the rules to let them in?

Perhaps the conversion system isn't perfect. That is something that the rabbis should indeed be working to improve. But we can only fight assimilation by presenting pure, unadulterated Judaism in an accessible and relevant way. That is a Judaism that can be respected - by Jew and non-Jew alike.


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Posted: Sep 29, 2009
Re: The convert's path
Maybe it's time to look for another shul.
Posted By Rabbi Tzvi Freeman

Posted: Sep 25, 2009
the convert responds
Thank you, Gila, for your supportive words. I wish people could understand how painful the journey really is when you are not accepted. I sometimes wish I had the opportunity to educate people on how they could fulfil so much with just a bit of warmth. I wonder how these people would feel sitting alone all the time. Do they think I am a secret Christian holding out for a decade? And I wish rabbis and educators would find ways to make congregants understand that to turn away a true convert is no different than turning away from a person who is lost in a storm. Being raised christian devastated my life for 30 years. Imagine finding the beauty and safety of Judaism, then being snubbed because I don't look "Jewish". Can you imagine how that feels? It's sort of like fleeing a fire only to be told I look fat in those clothes. It makes no sense in association to the event at hand, which is indeed a sort of saving of my soul as well as the potential of so much more.
Posted By Sarah the convert.

Posted: Sep 25, 2009
Although I had an appalling time fighting unjust treatment by a dayan on my way to the mikvah, as a then single woman I am grateful to many good Jewish people who helped and supported me on my journey to come home as the Jew I was supposed to be. I am sorry Sarah that you are not finding that kind of acceptance.

What needs to be made deeply clear, is that genuine converts are in truth essentially Jewish already. Once their Jewish neshama is awakened, they normally go through much agony before finally being able to come home. I suspect that most, if perhaps not all converts, actually are descended from Jews themselves, whether they know it or not. Some are even halachically Jewish already but cannot prove it.

While it is only right that the motives and character of someone converting do need to be scrutinised by sound, experienced rabbis, this clearly does not require insensitive and emotionally abusive treatment, unnecessary bureaucratic obstacles nor a prolonged agonised wait.
Posted By Gila, Jerusalem, Israel



 


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