
Why Not Make it Easier to Convert?
By Aron Moss
 |
|
Question:
I often hear rabbis complain that the Jewish people are shrinking due to intermarriage and assimilation. But it is you rabbis who are the major obstacle to Judaism growing! If you would make conversion a bit easier, many more non-Jews would join us. Why do you stubbornly insist on a long and difficult conversion process, when you are closing the door to many potential converts?
Answer:
I would like to nominate you to be the next prime-minister. You have come up with a brilliant formula that could greatly benefit the world.
You argue that the Jewish people would grow if only it were easier to become Jewish. If we apply your logic to some other scenarios, most of society's problems could easily be solved. We could reduce the number of people living below the poverty line by simply making the poverty line lower. And we could have many more millionaires around if you didn't need so much money to be one! The crime rates would drop dramatically if we just legalize criminal activity. And if we dropped the average life-expectancy people would live so much longer!
Either Judaism is truth, or it is not. If it is truth, then truth can't be saved by diluting it. And if it isn't, why bother saving it at all?
The road to conversion is a challenging one. I have seen the hard work sincere converts put in to become Jewish. They inspire me and I am proud to know them. And I have seen the sad consequences of "quickie" conversions too. To paraphrase Groucho Marx, how could someone respect a religion that bent the rules to let them in?
Perhaps the conversion system isn't perfect. That is something that the rabbis should indeed be working to improve. But we can only fight assimilation by presenting pure, unadulterated Judaism in an accessible and relevant way. That is a Judaism that can be respected - by Jew and non-Jew alike.
|
|
|
I have been trying to convert for along time now, I cannot find any one to help or guide me, so I have gathered as much study material and have been working with those for years now, trying to take on as much as I can and implement into my life the best i can. There is no synagogue in this area, so, I want to relate to being Jewish, I do, I relate to one which is stuck in a place with no community, it is hard. Currently I am trying to get use to wearing a Kippah as everyone stares and some say anti-Semitic things, it hurts hearing that, but I feel it. I am trying to keep a Jewish home, my study books are mostly from Artscroll. There is so much more but I just wanted to say, ok keep it hard, but make the path a bit clearer to find?
|
I am not a Jew, but I kind of understand what's being said here - and I agree. I try to follow kosher, try not to swear using G-d's name, all sorts of things, but I have to accept the truth that it is not easy, I don't get it very right and to convert would be dishonest of me.
|
My Gentile dad went through a physically painful but quick and therefore incomplete conversion to marry my Jewish mom. Why I admire his token effort, he knows he's not really Jewish. I am awe-inspired by the commitment shown by many converts I know to Judaism; many are now highly observant Jews, and many are associated with Chabad so as to teach lost secular souls like mine who were born to Jewish mothers but lazy and / or uneducated. One fellow I know has been attending a Reconstructionist schul for years if not decades. I always assumed he was Jewish. However, he finally "converted" only recently. So even though the Reconstructionists would have allowed him a quick conversion, he took it seriously enough to study for many years before claiming membership to the tribe.
|
|
|  |
|