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212. In Trouble Together

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Once, I came home to find my children climbing into the attic through a hole in the ceiling—an act I had sternly forbidden due to the dangers involved. But I watched before I opened my mouth. It took four of them: two to lift one up, and another to hold the chair those two were standing on. It was then that I understood something I had heard my Rebbe say many times:

When a father sees his children working together with love, he is prepared to forgive them for anything. Better disobedient children who love one another than obedient ones who quarrel.

Based on letters and talks of the Rebbe, Rabbi M. M. Schneerson
From the wisdom of the Lubavitcher Rebbe, of righteous memory; words and condensation by Rabbi Tzvi Freeman. To order Rabbi Freeman’s book, Bringing Heaven Down to Earth, click here.
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February 18, 2011
Profound. I have 4 children and have discovered this also. Thank you!
Nina
Rogers
February 18, 2011
thank
I love, but sometimes. I get into trouble. There is a beauty in the breakdown that has many times in my life shown a truly unconditional love that could hardly be explained without g-d.
brian holmes
madison, wi
February 18, 2011
A Mess of Crazy Children
This act of loving patience is so powerful and realistic and comes at a real good time for me. I'm looking back in a different way and learning from what people have said about me. For one thing said: I would have made a great mother-as a matter of fact I was one-to a bunch of musicians and artists who as was put acted great acrimoniusly but not harmoniusly-and their music and art is a reflection of this fact-even though I have written about them in the past in an angry way they were my children so I tend to vascilate in my ideas on exactly how to cope with how they acted with each other actually-but my behaviour with them was loving..as G-d would have wanted me to be---all ears-always the listener-conveying the idea of "Don't compare yourself to others"- Thank you for listening
Miss Judith L Witten
Brockton, Ma/USA
March 3, 2008
Newspapers quelling group violence
Mass psychology is inseparable from news writing. Newspapers CREATE news by sharing ideas which people copy or respond to. Newspapers change the world by sharing ideas which shape peoples thoughts, opinions & actions. Therefore a newspaper can quell violence by sharing peace inducing ideas. A newspaper can prevent additional violence by keeping the entire population calm (by sharing peace inducing, soothing ideas, while intentionally withholding information which might lead to more violence.) Newspapers create wars by sharing ideas which agitate people & newspapers end wars by sharing ideas which calm people down. It is very easy to spark a fire but putting a fire out is very difficult & the fire will consume everyone it can including the person who sparked it therefore it would be best if journalists would make a conscious effort to prevent major catastrophe by keep everyone calm (by printing only the most peace inducing articles while intentionally withholding agitating information.)
Mayim
February 28, 2008
Normally sensible individuals commit horrific crimes when influenced by other people which is y I must carefully ? & analyze everything, especially when "everyone else is doing it." 2 to a billion people perpetuate horrific crimes together, crimes they would never commit if they function alone, as individuals. Sensible individuals commit horrific crimes because they r swept into a fantasy perpetuated by rallies, speeches, TV, radio, newspapers. Think 4 yourself because "wars r not fought 4 territory, but 4 words. Man's deadliest weapon is language. He is as susceptible 2 being hypnotized by slogans as he is 2 infections diseases. & when there is an epidemic, the group mind takes over." Every single war is avoidable & the damage is considerably lessened when the sane people think 4 themselves instead of allowing themselves to b brainwashed by misleading slogans & images perpetuated by highly charismatic but sick individuals in rallies, TV, newspapers, speeches & classrooms.
Mayim
February 21, 2008
No, we cannot do the wrong thing simply because everyone else is doing it. After every single genocide, including the Holocaust, the murderers always say exactly the same things:

1. "I did it because everyone else was doing it."

2. "I was just following orders"

It may be important to love, but it is not acceptable to sin simply because everyone else is committing the same sin. And those few who refuse to sin while the rest of the group was sinning (like those who sheltered Anne Frank's Family, and Schindler) are always remembered as heroes once all of the horrible mass psychosis is over. Wasn't the Tribe of Levi was granted special status because they refused to worship the golden calf while everyone else did? The phoenix was granted eternal life as a reward for refusing to eat the forbidden fruit offered by Eve, while all of the other birds did eat of the forbidden fruit (The Legends of the Jews, by Ginzberg).
Mayim
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