Once, I came home to find my children climbing into the attic through a hole in the ceiling—an act I had sternly forbidden due to the dangers involved. But I watched before I opened my mouth. It took four of them: two to lift one up, and another to hold the chair those two were standing on. It was then that I understood something I had heard my Rebbe say many times:
When a father sees his children working together with love, he is prepared to forgive them for anything. Better disobedient children who love one another than obedient ones who quarrel.
Rogers
madison, wi
Brockton, Ma/USA
1. "I did it because everyone else was doing it."
2. "I was just following orders"
It may be important to love, but it is not acceptable to sin simply because everyone else is committing the same sin. And those few who refuse to sin while the rest of the group was sinning (like those who sheltered Anne Frank's Family, and Schindler) are always remembered as heroes once all of the horrible mass psychosis is over. Wasn't the Tribe of Levi was granted special status because they refused to worship the golden calf while everyone else did? The phoenix was granted eternal life as a reward for refusing to eat the forbidden fruit offered by Eve, while all of the other birds did eat of the forbidden fruit (The Legends of the Jews, by Ginzberg).