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Does G-d Really Care?


Question:

I still struggle with the idea of a personal G‑d since He does not answer our prayers or ease the suffering of the good and innocent. We say all these blessings about how G‑d is intimately involved, but to our eyes it seems otherwise, except for the righteous tzaddik who is able to communicate with Him.

Please help.

Response:

G-d listens and answers every prayer of the heart, whether in packaging that we recognize or otherwise. He eases the suffering of the innocent and protects those who are helpless. Where there is oppression, G-d is there with the oppressed. Where there is wrongdoing, He stands with the downtrodden, the persecuted and the broken hearted. This lies at the very core of our faith: That there is only one of Him, from whom all things come, and He is good. To live believing otherwise is to not truly live at all.

It is just that, for this sliver of time out of eternity, He has granted humankind free will and placed His world in our hands. Yet in the big picture, those who foster darkness will face the consequences of their own devices while those who stay close to Him in the hour of their distress will remain there to bask in His light as it breaks forth in unbounded intensity in a time to come. Even now, they sit embraced within that light, unable to sense more than an inkling of His presence. Our world is not yet ready for such revelation, but soon it will come.

In the meantime, repeat to Him the words I have told you, in truth the words of David, sweet singer of Israel. And as a sweet father responding to his little girl, He will live up to His words. Whenever your heart is aching, turn to Him. If you are angry with Him, tell Him so. If you need to cry, cry in His arms. He will hold you tight.

Evil exists within a fleeting moment, but good endures for eternity. Live in the eternity.

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Posted: Feb 17, 2011
God really Care!
If we consider all that God has done for us as individuals and as a whole human race, the answer to the question ‘does God really care’ would be a resounding: Yes! Just look at our home Earth. It can produce food and resources for our benefit. It has put in motion to maintain itself by our awesome creator. God did that in advance for humans. What forethought! While we are going about our daily routine, the amazing sun produces energy to sustain our planet without being told. Who set this in motion? Our loving God. Did you ever injure yourself? I have. Afterward, I notice an amazing thing. My body has the ability to heal itself. Who did this? Our caring God! And then there are times when I need emotional support that no human can understand. There in God’s written word are many psalms that comfort me. (Psalm 94:19). Does God really care? Yes!
Posted By Anonymous, Columbia, SC

Posted: Dec 12, 2010
does G-d care?
I cried when I read the part about how G-d responds as a father to a little girl. That's how I say my prayers lately because I am in such a crisis, there is no one to help (as king David says in one of the psalms), and he is G-d. He loves us and is always looking for us. We have to stop relying on our own "rational" understanding sometimes because there are such far greater things than us at work here, fortunately!!
Posted By chanah, jersey city, nj

Posted: Dec 1, 2010
Does G-d really care?
How can we be sure when we do mitzvoth that we will get to Gan Eden in our after life experience?

I do believe there is a G-d who created man and the universe, but when this life is over what really happens to our Neshumahs (souls)?

These are questions that no one can answer. I just have faith that there is another life that awaits us, but I will be very disappointed if I am not united in spirit to all my loved ones who have gone before me, and whom I miss terribly.
Posted By Joan L. Crisona, Sandy Hook, Ct,/USA
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Posted: Nov 26, 2010
To St Louis, MO
Ouch! Matriarch Sara dies from shock when she was told about the Sacrifice of Isaac. As far as i am concerned she was sending G-d a message (she was the only woman G-d spoke to) that in the future He should be more careful about the challenges that He gives His people. So, i hear you. Talk about a hell on earth, it happens. As you say, great to philosophize, i wouldn't want to be in your boots. Life is tough enough as it is. Faith can help, but the cliff is sometimes a very steep slope.
All the best.
Good Shabbos, with a hope that one day of the week can help lessen your pain, even if for only one day.
Posted By Anonymous

Posted: Nov 24, 2010
To Anonymous, St Lluis, MO
May your Life be better, may LIGHT comes into your soul. G-d Loves you. We love you friend.
Posted By Anonymous, Atlanta, GA

Posted: Oct 9, 2010
Faith
I was never a great believer in G-d until I got older. I went to a Chabad house for a course in spirituality ,and "the after life", the nashuma and what happens to the body and our spirit when we die. I had heard about mitzvahs and did them in a half hearted way. After this course and wonderful teachings of Rabbi Jos. Eisenbach of Litchfield Connecticut I began to believe... My sadness began to lift and I did some really good mitzvahs with a whole heart. These mitzvahs must have given my parents and beloved husband in Gan Eden joy. I began to pray and one of my prayers was answered. It was so specific to what I prayed for it couldn't have been anything but G-d answering my prayer. Maybe it took me 81 years to get here, but it's never too late.
Posted By Joan L. Crisona, Newtown, Ct.
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Posted: Oct 8, 2010
This is hard to admit, but
In my experience, positive response to prayer has been slow in coming, no more so than random chance, I'm afraid.
Posted By Anonymous, Rockaway
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Posted: Oct 6, 2010
G-d most certainly answers my prayers. He protects me and my family, He cherishes me with special gifts of beauty in nature, and He provides for my needs. G-d is Love- how could He not answer our prayers? What good father will not provide for, love and cherish his children? How much more our heavenly Father?
Posted By Nancy, Cobourg, Canada

Posted: Oct 4, 2010
G-d's love for us
I have many questions, and no answers...but I KNOW, with perfect faith, that G-d will answer all of our questions when Moshiach comes!
Until then, it is our duty to question everything - to know our own minds - know what we love, what we hate; what we trust, what we don't. G-d doesn't want 'muppets' - He desires that we love Him and trust Him - He is our Father...what father would give his child a stone and tell him that it is bread?...or a snake, and tell him that it is food?
Maybe we're just in exile to "learn" to love G-d. Maybe that's the only 'real' mitzvah we have...to fear, and to love, and trust - all of our questions will be answered, and all of our tears will be dried, by Our G-d!! All we need is to focus on Him, rather than the world (yes, it's hard!!...maybe impossible - but Trust in Him is paramount!!)

Waiting for Moshiach!!! May He come quickly to His loyal children!!
Posted By Judith, Hangzhou, China

Posted: Oct 3, 2010
My view on this - it is about freedom of will
Whenever I am going through something difficult - which seems like it is much of the time for me - I always feel that even though G-d could take away my troubles in an instant, doing so would be at the price of my own free will and the free will of those around me. I complain and cry and scream and everything about it all, but essentially this is what I feel. It is my opinion that much evil comes into our world because people have free will and decide to go against G-d's will. G-d made them like that. He could wipe away all of that evil in an instant, but it would mean wiping away free will.. Even though I feel that G-d does care about me, giving up free will and my own ability to learn is just too high of a price to pay to make everything perfect for me - I am just one person in the universe. What I think I need and what I think i want just conflicts with the exercise of the free will of others. He cares, but he values freedom of will too much to do away with it.
Posted By Lisa, Monterey, CA, USA



 


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