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A West Coast lumber merchant once came to New York to see the sixth Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Yosef Yitzchak Schneersohn (1880-1950), in order to seek his counsel and blessing. After addressing the businessman's concerns, the Rebbe asked him:

"How are your children?"

"They're doing great." replied the proud father. "They get high marks in school -- two regular geniuses! They're sure to be accepted in the top universities..."

"And what about their Jewish education? Why don't you send them to a yeshivah, so that they should grow to be knowledgeable and pious Jews?"

"Rebbe... it's a different world here, in America. The neighborhood I live in... their friends... it just won't be right..."

"The Torah applies to all times and places," insisted the Rebbe. "America is no different. You can and must give your children a Jewish education!"

But the businessman would not agree. The Rebbe argued, cajoled and berated; still the visitor remained adamant in his refusal.

"I don't understand," the Rebbe finally said. "Neither I, nor my father, ever engaged in business. Yet you came all the way from California to seek my advice on your most important business decisions. On the other hand, regarding the education of your children -- the field to which I and my forebears have devoted our entire lives -- you won't accept my advice!"

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From an address by the Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson; translation/adaptation by Yanki Tauber.
Painting by Chassidic artist Hendel Lieberman.
Originally published in Week in Review.
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Posted: May 23, 2010
Expert Advice
We tend to put different subjects into different categories. Religious subjects go into religious slots and secular subjects go into secular slots. Anyone who is not living a religious life tends to think that Yeshiva is only for those who are living a "religious" life. However, when it comes to seeking advice from a Rabbi, we tend to think that rabbis must know how to deal with ALL topics.
Posted By Anonymous, Morristown, NJ, USA
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Posted: Sep 7, 2004
Emotion when it vs logic
Emotion and logic can often be at odds. And when that's the case, when they are truly at odds, all the logic in the world won't change a person's emotion. Not even by one iota. Of course people's emotions do change, but I'm referring to the time period when it's all 'feel feel' and more of the same.

But I'm sure the business man didn't just forget the Rebbe's words after he left there. Nor can I imagine the Rebbe's speaking of something without knowing, already beforehand, that his message will matter.
Posted By Anonymous

Posted: Apr 16, 2004
Response to previous comment
I think that the gentleman of the previous comment misses the point of the story. The man in the story DID choose to regard Rebbe's word as an authority in his life -- that's why he came all the way from California to ask for his guidance! All the Rebbe said was this: "If you believe that my guidance should be followed in business matters -- a field in which I have no 'hands on' experience -- then certainly you should accept my advice regarding a field to which I've devoted my entire life!"

BTW, I think that every intelligent person would agree that "learning and living on your own" does not preclude deferring to expert advice (be it that of a doctor, lawyer, accountant, financial analyst, educator, psychologist, scholar, clergyman, etc., etc.) when one's own experience (or the knowledge of others' experience) has shown that this person's field of knowledge has something valuable to teach us, and that the said "expert" is a person one can trust. (Of course, some people would accord no such credibility to the field of "religion"; but then again, there are people who feel the same about medicine, psychology, or any of the other above mentioned fields....)
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Posted: Apr 16, 2004
Arguments
When an argument is rooted in theology, I see no practical reason to engage in such conversation. The strength of one position over the other is rooted in the prejudice of your beliefes. You can no more move a man to dance on his head than you could a goat to sing. This is the reality of my existence. Then why study the arguments as opposed to focusing and living with the strength of your own convictions. Where is the sense of believing in another man's word as opposed to learning and living by your own.
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