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Raising Jewish Children


According to biblical law, a child is not obligated to observe mitzvot until reaching adulthood. Nevertheless, there’s a mitzvah of rabbinic origin, known as chinuch, for parents to train their children to do mitzvot and to avoid doing things that the Torah forbids.

The mitzvah of chinuch kicks in for each mitzvah as soon as the child is capable of observing that mitzvah. Traditionally, we start teaching children from the age of three to recite the blessings on various foods and some basic prayers. That is when a little boy begins covering his head and wearing tzitzit, and at about that age girls begin lighting Shabbat candles.

Though the “carrot and stick” method is mentioned in Jewish literature as an effective chinuch technique, ultimately the goal is to teach children to value each mitzvah for itself and the connection to G‑d that it engenders.

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There’s a Torah obligation for a father to teach his sons Torah.

The goal is to teach children to value each mitzvah for itself and the connection to G‑d that it engendersAs soon as a child begins to speak, he is taught key passages of Torah, such as the verse “The Torah that Moses commanded us is the inheritance of the congregation of Jacob,” and the Shema. And from there, education takes off . . .

One who is unable to personally fulfill this obligation may delegate the honor to a teacher or school. Nonetheless, as a sage once proclaimed: “It is an absolute duty for every person to spend a half hour every day thinking about the Torah education of children, and to do everything in his power—and beyond his power—to inspire children to follow the path along which they are being guided.”

Although technically the obligation to teach Torah rests upon the father, the most effective educating is often done by the mother. As she is the one who usually spends more time with her children, and she has the advantage of a softer, feminine approach to imparting information, she is in the best position to transmit morals and Jewish values.

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Mary Dullinger June 16, 2017

A child learns from doing and from observing what his parents consider important. If the parents start a child out performing simple Mitzvots such as prayers over certain foods , prayers at arising in the morning or even giving small amounts of money to charity, he is much more likely to continue these as an adult and to teach them to his children. Reply

Dr C D Goldberg Cape Town, South Africa September 8, 2016

Educating and Training Children in Judaism The day a child is born, his or her Jewish Education must start in earnest and consistently. A love of Judaism, Halocha, the Hebrew Language, Yiddish, Ladino and other Jewish languages should also be taught and spoken. Parents who enjoy Judaism and the Jewish Way of Life will promote this to their children as well. Use of all available media is also needed this regard. Reply

Anonymous June 25, 2015

Great lesson! Thanks for posting! Reply

chiggy enugu, nigeria January 24, 2011

indoctrination? call it indoctrination, i dont care but i appreciate the importance and power of routine and consistency in training and equiping these blessings from God. Reply

Anonymous jaax, fl October 7, 2010

embarassed?? This is a chabad website... are you embarrassed to say that the sage is the Frideker Rebbe?? Reply

Emmanuel Nkweti Bamenda, , Cameroon October 7, 2010

Teaching the Torah to children The Bible says train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will never depart from it.
We do well to heed this advice and certainly what we learn as children fashion the way we reason as adults! Reply

JDV Paramus June 15, 2017
in response to Emmanuel Nkweti:

True. My guys are 30 and 32 and i can see my teachings reflected in them. Reply

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