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The Rebbe and Viktor Frankl

The Rebbe and Viktor Frankl

The Rebbe's Communiqué to the Founder of Logotherapy

Dr. Viktor Frankl
Dr. Viktor Frankl

I arrived in Vienna – together with my wife, Edla – in 1981, to serve as Chabad-Lubavitch emissaries in Austria. We immediately started serving the local Jewish community by arranging Torah classes for children, programs for adults and youth, and the like.

We were aware that the famous Dr. Viktor Frankl resided in the city, but as he never associated with the Jewish community in Vienna, we did not have the opportunity to make his acquaintance. He certainly never stepped foot in the Chabad center we established.

How surprised we were when Dr. Frankl responded with a contribution to our annual appeal, which we sent out to all the local Jews along with a Jewish calendar in honor of the upcoming High Holidays. He continued this practice every year thereafter—I never met him or spoke to him, but his donation always came.

About Dr. Frankl

Dr. Viktor Frankl (1905-1997), a Viennese psychotherapist, spent three long years in Hitler’s concentration camps – and lost his parents, brother, and pregnant wife to the “Final Solution” – but did not lose his vision of human dignity.

In the first half of his best-selling book, “Man’s Search for Meaning,” he describes his harrowing experience in the camps and considers how it was that some of the inmates seemed to be able to transcend their surroundings. He writes: “We who lived in concentration camps can remember the men who walked through the huts comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread . . . they offer sufficient proof that everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.”

He concludes that even in the most severe suffering, the human being can find meaning and thus hope. In his words, “Those who have a ‘why’ to live, can bear with almost any ‘how.’”

After the war, Frankl returned to Vienna, where he developed and lectured about his own approach to psychological healing. He believed that people are primarily driven by a “striving to find meaning in one’s life,” and that it is this sense of meaning that enables us to overcome painful experiences. In the second half of his book, Frankl outlines the form of psychotherapy that he developed based on these beliefs, called logotherapy—the treatment of emotional pain by helping people find meaning in their lives.

More about Viktor Frankl, and the impact he had in the area of mental health, later in this article.

We did not understand, until one day in 1995 when all became clear. It started with a visit I received from a youthful, energetic 85-year-old woman, who introduced herself as Marguerite Chajes.

"Perhaps you think you are the first emissary of the Lubavitcher Rebbe to Vienna," Marguerite told me, "but that is not entirely the case. You see, I performed an important mission here on the Rebbe's behalf long before you arrived in Austria."

Marguerite Chajes

Her mother's maiden name was Hager. The Hagers were no ordinary Jewish family but relatives of the Rebbes of the famed Vishnitz chassidic dynasty. Marguerite was born in Chernowitz, but spent her childhood in Vienna. Marguerite became an opera singer; she married and had a daughter.

Just a few days before World War II, friends helped her escape, together with her husband and daughter, across the border to Italy, where they made it onto on the last boat to the US. Marguerite and her family settled in Detroit. Unfortunately, the rest of her family remained behind and perished.

Years passed. Marguerite's daughter grew up and married a doctor, who, in 1959, was honored at the dinner of a Chabad institution. In conjunction with that occasion, Marguerite had an audience with the Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson, of righteous memory.

"I cannot explain why," Marguerite said, "but while in the Rebbe's room I suddenly broke down in tears. I felt that it was fine to cry. The dam holding back my river of tears gave way. Like many Holocaust survivors, I had never cried before. If I were to start crying, I felt that I might never stop... I always felt that I have to keep my emotions in check in order to be able to function as a human being."

Marguerite told the Rebbe her entire life story. But more than that, a special relationship was born that night in the Rebbe's room in Brooklyn. Marguerite left that audience feeling that she had been given a second father.

A Favor for the Rebbe

Marguerite had also mentioned to the Rebbe that for some time now she had had a yearning to go back and visit her native land. The Rebbe requested that in the event that she would make such a trip, she should come see him again beforehand. Not much thereafter, Marguerite scheduled a trip to Vienna, and, of course, first came to the Rebbe to inform him of her plan.

The Rebbe wanted her to visit two people in Vienna on his behalf. One of them was Dr. Viktor FranklHow surprised Marguerite was when the Rebbe asked her if she could do for him a favor. The Rebbe wanted her to visit two people in Vienna on his behalf. One of them was Dr. Viktor Frankl, who headed the Vienna Policlinic of Neurology.

"Please send Dr. Frankl my regards. And pass the following message on to him: that I said that he should be strong and continue his work, with complete resolve. No matter what, he should not give up. If he remains strong and committed, he will certainly prevail."

Arranging a meeting with Frankl was no simple task. Arriving at the clinic, she was told that the professor hadn't shown up in two weeks. With effort, though, Marguerite found Frankl's home address and made her way there. Marguerite knocked on the door, and it was opened by a woman. The first thing she caught sight of in the home was a cross, hanging prominently on the wall. (In 1947 Frankl married his second wife, Eleonore Katharina Schwindt, a devout Catholic.) Taken aback, and already wondering whether this was a mistake, if perhaps this wasn't the person the Rebbe had wanted her to visit, she nevertheless asked whether there was a Herr Professor Frankl in the house.

Marguerite was asked to wait. Minutes later, a slightly annoyed-looking and apparently uninterested Dr. Frankl appeared. Marguerite, feeling very self-conscious, told him that she had regards for him "from Rabbi Schneerson of Brooklyn, New York."

Marguerite steeled herself and continued: "Rabbi Schneerson, known as the Lubavitcher Rebbe, sent a message for you: Remain strong! Continue your work with complete resolve. Don't give up. Ultimately you will prevail."

The hitherto apathetic doctor suddenly transformed before a shocked Marguerite's eyes. Tears filled his eyes. After composing himself somewhat he thanked Marguerite, and in the course of the ensuing conversation he told her that he had been planning to abandon his efforts to fight on behalf of his theory and philosophy, and actually was considering departing Vienna—but now he would reconsider...

"So Rabbi Biderman," Marguerite concluded, "now you understand what I meant when I said that I served as the Rebbe's emissary to Vienna way before you arrived!"

The Other Side of the Story

All around Frankl were loyal Freudian scholars. He was taunted, and his lectures were shunnedMarguerite's story fascinated me. What had the Rebbe's message meant to Viktor Frankl?

What I had not known beforehand, but what Marguerite now explained, is that Frankl had not always been lauded and respected, as he is today. In his youth, Frankl had been a young colleague of Sigmund Freud and Alfred Adler. But his beliefs challenged their teachings. Whereas the dominant view at the time was that people are driven by the need to gratify physical needs, a "will to pleasure," he saw humankind differently. In Frankl's view, we are unique beings, driven by a "will to meaning," possessing free choice and the capacity for self-transcendence. "Between stimulus and response . . . is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom."

Frankl had begun to develop these radical ideas before the war and during his time in the Nazi death camps, seeing how some prisoners were able to eke out a sense of purpose and maintain a positive outlook even there, he had solidified them. Now he found himself a lone dissenter. All around him were loyal Freudian scholars. He was taunted, and his lectures were shunned.

Understandably, Frankl experienced incredible emotional turmoil. The pressures were so great that he decided to simply give up. He decided to move to Australia, to join his sister who lived there. He was emotionally spent, and understandably dejected at the prospect of his life's work going to waste.

When Margaret Chajes arrived at Frankl's home, she told me, he had been sitting and drafting his immigration papers. She brought him a message from a Rebbe, a young chassidic master from overseas he'd never heard of before. "Don't give up," she told him. "You will prevail."

Frankl was beyond astonished. How in the world did this Rebbe know about his situation? And why should this chassidic rebbe care about him or the perpetuation of his philosophy?

It was exactly the shot in the arm that Frankl needed, and the timing could not have been betterIt was exactly the shot in the arm that Frankl needed, and the timing could not have been better. Instead of joining his sister in Australia, he continued his practice as a psychiatrist and went back to his work, full of renewed motivation, vigor, and optimism.

A Corroborating Conversation

Marguerite's story certainly explained the annual contribution that Frankl would send to support the Rebbe's institutions in Vienna. And hearing the story stirred me to contact Dr. Frankl himself, thinking perhaps he'd have something to add.

A few days later, I called Frankl and asked to meet him

But it was difficult for him to meet me in person. This was 1995, you must understand, and Viktor Frankl was 90 years of age. So we spoke over the phone. "Do you remember Marguerite Chajes?" I asked. Naturally he did; she had become a friend of the family.

Throughout this short conversation, however, Frankl sounded impatient.

"Do you remember a regards she gave you from Rabbi Schneerson in Brooklyn?" I asked him.

A change in his demeanor. Now Frankl responded warmly: "Ah... of course! Can I ever forget it? The Rabbi came to my aid during a very difficult time in my life. I owe him a tremendous debt of gratitude!"

The Pursuit of Meaning Comes into Vogue

What, indeed, was the result of Marguerite's mission?

Well, it was soon after that, in 1959, that Frankl's book, "Man's Search for Meaning" (see sidebar), was translated into English (at first it was translated under a different title), became a bestseller and classic psychiatric text, and propelled him into the international limelight. Frankl became a guest lecturer at universities on five continents. He received honorary doctorates from universities around the world, and national and international awards and medals for his pivotal work in psychotherapy. Before his death in 1997, his magnum opus had been translated into dozens of languages and sold millions of copies.

So many millions of people benefited – directly or indirectly – from the Rebbe's communiqué to Dr. FranklHis brand of therapy inspired thousands of other books, seminars, workshops, new-age and spiritual groups, all based on Frankl's idea of the human being's unique ability to make choices and pursue his own meaning. From Scot Peck's "Road Less Traveled" to Steven Covey's "Seven Habits," and hundreds of other bestsellers during the last 30 years, all are variations of Viktor Frankl's perspective.

So many millions of people benefited – directly or indirectly – from the Rebbe's communiqué to Dr. Frankl. I sometimes shudder when I imagine what would have occurred if not for that perfectly-timed message.

In a letter dated June 19, 1969 (3rd Tammuz, 5729), the Rebbe writes (free translation):

…I would like to take this opportunity to add another point, that the medical condition of ..... proves (if proof is needed in this area) the awesome power of faith – especially when applied and expressed in practical action, community work, observance of mitzvot, etc. – to fortify a person’s emotional tranquility [and to affect the] minimizing and even elimination of inner conflicts, as well as complaints one may have to his surroundings, etc.

This is in spite the theory that faith and religion demand the discipline to restrain and suppress natural instincts and drives, and is, therefore, generally undesirable, and particularly in the case of a person who requires treatment for emotional issues.

I particularly took interest in the writing of Dr. Frankl (from Vienna) in this matter. To my surprise, however, his approach has apparently not been appropriately disseminated and appreciated. Although one can find numerous reasons as to why his ideas are not widely accepted – including the fact that [such treatment] is related to the personal lifestyle exemplified by the treating doctor – nevertheless, the question [as to why it is not appreciated] still remains…

More Details Come to Light

Haddon Klingberg, author of When Life Calls Out To Us: the love and lifework of Viktor and Elly Frankl, the only authorized biography of Viktor and Eleonore ("Elly"), writes:

"...after his death I asked Elly if he actually made these prayers every day. 'Absolutely. He never missed a day. Every morning for more than fifty years. But nobody knew this.' As they traveled the globe Viktor took the phylacteries with them, and everywhere, every morning, he prayed. He uttered memorized words of Jewish prayers and Psalms...

"(After Viktor died I saw his phylacteries for the first time. Elly had placed them in the little cubicle with his few simple possessions...)"

Indeed, Frankl's non-Jewish son-in-law confirmed this fact to me: "My father-in-law would close himself off in a room every day for a little while. Once I opened the door and saw him with black boxes on his head and hand. He was annoyed about my intruding on his privacy. When he was taken to the hospital, however, his practice of putting on tefillin became public."

I've often wondered why the Rebbe took an interest in the success of Viktor FranklI've often wondered why the Rebbe took an interest in the success of Viktor Frankl, a secular and intermarried Jew, and sought him out to offer encouragement and support. It would seem that the Rebbe did this not only out of personal concern for Frankl's welfare, but also in order to advance a philosophy which he felt ultimately fosters belief in G‑d, a spiritual perspective, and good values. The fact that this constitutes the real cure to a suffering soul is something the Rebbe repeatedly taught us.

I can't help but marvel over the Rebbe's wide reach, broad-mindedness, and remarkably visionary approach.

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Anonymous Midbar Yehuda January 14, 2018

Rebbi giving encouragement to Dr. Victor Frankl This idea about Victor Frankl reflects as noted above the Rebbe's intent to encourage him to continue his work. Others scorned him (Dr. Frankel) due to his having seemingly "left Judaism...." However as noted in this article / video (in Chabad,org 14/1/18) we are being reminded not only to judge our fellow Jew favorably but to "love every Jew from the very depths of our hearts" (As the Besht's father urged him just before he died).

We may merit to learn how to love and encourage every Jew in this lofty, yet Possible way of perception by noting that G-d himself is "lo mabeet Avon b"Yaakov," He sees no wrong doing in the Jewish people.

Thus the Rebbe took G-d's commandments to heart and sought out how to fulfill them, to pursue them. It is written that one should pursue Tzedaka (giving charity).

The most basic ways of giving charity is the actual giving and the "how" of giving.

Our sages say giving wholeheartedly with a joyful countenance is the greatest "how".
Now we know. Reply

Beverly Frank Chicago, IL July 31, 2017

2 Great Souls: The Rebbe & Dr. Frankl Yes, we must incorporate Vicktor Frankl's inspiring philosophy into our daily lives. How wonderful to learn that the Rebbe was an admirer of this great man! Reply

Gary Smith Baltimore May 12, 2016

We need to be more like him, not marveling over him. The last line of the article, "I can't help but marvel over the Rebbe's wide reach, broad-mindedness, and remarkably visionary approach." points to a basic problem in Lubavitch and is the reason why someone would write this line. If people understood who he was and how he came to be what he is, it would transform their lives and the world. As magnificent as is the work that Chabad is doing, there's so much more to do. Reply

Alan Weinberg Broollyn, Y January 5, 2016

Very touching story. I am not surprised by how powerful a few words can change a person's life. I enjoyed this article very much. Reply

Anonymous September 25, 2015

Thank goodness for the Rebbe's encouraging message , otherwise we may have have never benefited from seeing Dr Frankl's book. The book was pivotal in my life, I held onto his famous quote through a very difficult phaze of my life and was not crushed. Reply

Shaul Nemtzov Brooklyn September 21, 2015

To Shoshanna of Alberquerque Yes, he definitely had the encouragement of the Rebbe then as he did have it later as well. On page 119 in Despite All Odds by Edward Hoffman, the Rebbe showed bewilderment as to why Frankl's theories had not been as widely accepted as the Rebbe felt was befitting. In more recent times, however, Frankl's theories have reached wider acclaim. For example, Stephen Covey, and Simon Sinek, among others, included Frankl as one of their major influences. This is in addition to the fact that Man's Search for Meaning is one of the 10 most influential books in the United States. Reply

Ann San Jose September 21, 2015

Thank you, Shaul of Crown Heights!

I'm glad you enjoyed it. Reply

Shoshanna Albequerque September 20, 2015

It is so inspiring to realize that Frankl had the encouragement of the Rebbe.

Let me thank the Rebbe for doing this. Otherwise the world would have missed out on Frankl's wisdom and insights, and, as the Rebbe saw so clearly, those insights are much needed.

Thank you for sharing this bit of history. Reply

Shaul Nemtzov Crown Heights October 31, 2013

Ann of San Jose Thank you for your comment! I really enjoyed it! Reply

Rabbi Tuvia Bolton Kfar Chabad, Israel October 4, 2013

To L.K. If you want to see the Rebbe's advice on such difficult situations try opening any one of the Rebbe's 27 books of letters called 'Igrot Kodesh' where you'll find many insightful pieces of advice. You certainly are not alone and in some ways transforming difficulties is the 'basis' of Judaism: Abraham founded Judaism bec. he experienced ten 'Tests'. Good luck!!! And may all your trials turn into smiles
Moshiach NOW! Reply

Abraham Raphael Agoura Hills October 1, 2013

We are the meaning makers The core lesson from Professor Frankl is that we are the meaning makers. With every day that we do meaningful things we make the meaning. No outside force can change that and even if we die and are no longer here, our meaningful actions remain.
What a great man!!! Reply

Ann San Jose July 11, 2013

I heard Viktor Frankl speak. Before I ever heard of his book, I heard him speak in a huge auditorium at the University of California at Berkeley. I was 21.
I can still hear his voice ringing in my ears after fifty years.
He told of an old man whose wife had died and had sought therapy for his overwhelming grief.
Dr. Frankl said to the man, "One of you was bound to go first. What would have happened to her if you had died first? How would she have handled it?"

"Oh," said the widower. "She couldn't have stood it. It would have been terrible for her."

"Well then. You have spared her that."

The old man heard and understood. He stood up straight. He was bearing this burden for his beloved wife, to spare her what he was going through. Now his suffering had a purpose, a meaning.

We in the audience could all but see the exchange. But now Dr. Frankl went on with the story. It seems that he had addressed a conference and had told him of his success in helping the grieving widower.

But...The psychiatrist in the audience disagreed with Dr. Frankl's approach. He said that the reason the widower was so inconsolable was that he unconsciously or subconsciously HATED his wife. Now that his wish was fulfilled and she was dead, he felt GUILTY. The guilt was the source of his anguish. He was not really grieving at all. And if he had gone to see me, the psychiatrist said, he would have come to see this.

Dr. Frankl's voice now rang out over the auditorium as he shared with us his reply to that psychiatrist.

"I am sure that if the widower had gone to you, you would have been able to brainwash him into believing that he had hated his wife," he said. "But he would have left your office as distraught and miserable as when he arrived, if not more so. I was able to give him the strength to bear his suffering, for now it had a purpose and a meaning. You would have stripped his life of all meaning and rendered him helpless before his own supposedly evil subconscious."
Applause. Reply

Silvian Guranda Cluj-Napoca, Romania January 18, 2018
in response to Ann:

Where was that conference and what year? Reply

Anonymous Chennai, India June 4, 2013

Nice story about Dr.Viktor-Frankl. who also needed someone to encourage him So God uses people on earth to encourage us during our need . I grow stronger in my faith one step further. Reply

Miriam middleton, wi March 18, 2012

Trauma challenges faith, but one cannot rise above trauma without faith. Reply

Suzette Sedona, AZ March 16, 2012

Viktor Frankl Such an emotional story, and so very typical to the Rebbe. I have seen many miracles from the Rebbe.
It is interesting that tonight,just before I read the story of Viktor Frankl and the Rebbe, I have finally managed to get the Chabad Rabbi in Arizona to do a teaching on Passover in Sedona, AZ. Sedona is a very metaphysical, New Age city. There are very few Jews in Sedona. It seems that I have finally managed to get the chabad rabbi from phoenix to come to Sedona and do an open teaching on the spiritual meaning of Pesach!! I am thrilled. The library, where we want to hold this event, has no time slots on April 4. I pray the time slot that we want will open up for us. I pray we will get many many people. I know the Rebbe is with us! Reply

Rabbi Tuvia Bolton Kfar Chabad, Israel December 9, 2010

V. Frankl and the Rebbe I wonder if Frankl ever corresponded with or met the Rebbe. It is hard for me to believe that, being the open, inquisitive and searching man that he was, he did not contact him. Esp. being as the Rebbe did begin the contact. Does anyone know? On the other hand, I have read four books of Frankl and I see no sign that he did. Reply

Chaya Sao Paulo, Brasil October 14, 2010

What Matters Is What You Do Your Jewish values and teachings will not be thrown out unless you throw them out. No matter how far away you think you have gone, you are not too far from G-d to come back, as G-d has gone there with you. Reply

PAULINE N. FROMER Capestrano, Italy July 15, 2010

An inspiration and I realize how faith and prayer have helped me in facing so many difficult situations in life. Reply

Hana Austin June 20, 2010

@L.K. in Anaheim I wonder what your situation is. It sounds like you are losing control of your surroundings. That does not mean that you are losing your free will to interact with those surroundings, on many levels. Even people in concentration camps observed their religion to the best of their ability, within the situation they were presented with. No one can steal your soul from you. Will you still be able to maintain contact with others, like on this forum? Will you be able to have your Torah books that you can study? Can you choose to eat food that is not blatantly non-kosher? Can you refuse to do work on Shabbos? Can you be a good influence to those around you? I hope you will be able to turn whatever seems to be bad now into something that is outwardly good. Of course, I do not know what your situation is, as you do not clearly say, so I do not want you to think that I am making light of your circumstances. Just maybe, though, good will come out of this. Reply

L K anaheim, ca/usa via June 19, 2010

Viktor Frankl I am struggling with a major change in my family's life. A change that has turned my world up side down. My traditional Jewish teachings and values are being thrown out. I wonder what Rebbe would tell me? How can I continue to live in this conflict? The ideas I was raised with and the new ways that are put in front of me which I can not change and have to accept! Reply

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