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Do It Yourself

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You want to know why you deserve this series of financial woes.

Why do you see each thing as a punishment? Perhaps, on the contrary, it became time for you to receive much more than ever before from Above. Only that, in order to receive such good, you must first become small.

Like the olive, you must first come down from your tree and be crushed to bring out your oil. Like the seed, you must first lose yourself within the earth before sprouting and growing into a mighty oak. Like a metal spring, you must first become small before you can unleash your deepest power. And all these travails are His way of helping you along that path.

If so, you already know the remedy: Make yourself small on your own and relieve Him of the task.

The truth be said, you will find that you can do the job much better—far less painfully and with immediate results.

Based on letters and talks of the Rebbe, Rabbi M. M. Schneerson
From the wisdom of the Lubavitcher Rebbe, of righteous memory; words and condensation by Rabbi Tzvi Freeman. To order Rabbi Freeman’s book, Bringing Heaven Down to Earth, click here.
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December 23, 2009
advise on making oneself small
No offense, but I'd like the advice of Rabbi Freeman
Sharon
Newton, MA/USA
December 22, 2009
Need some help
Hi Leah,

It sounds like you need someone to talk things through. Have you got anyone you can do that with? You are perfect the way you are and we all make mistakes thats what makes us human. I find writing is my way of getting in touch with how I feel. I carry a journal almost every where I go. It helps get those feeling out of your head and onto something external that one can evaluate them subjectively. I also find that sometimes we ask G-d and we do alot of asking and talking about what we want, but we seldom leave silence to listen to the answer. G-d has given you already all the resources needed to effect the changes and the abundance in our lives. All my best and prayers are with you.
Yisroel Meyer
Sydney, Australia
December 22, 2009
start small
may I suggest starting small...for instance those urges to comment on something, even if your feelings about it are strong, rework it in a way that wouldn't be hurtful, or dont say it at all. Just speaking from experience, (so I cant say if you are or are not the same) I have said something I really beleived to be true just to get my point across, only to have wished 10 seconds lated I hadn't said it. And who really benefits from something hurtful? The world is not G-ds way. We are so small in His plan. Have a great day
Debra
New Johnsonville, TN
December 21, 2009
Making oneself
It seems like there are steps involved....does becoming small of one's own volition mean modesty in behavior and demeanor? does it mean not resisting the current flow of despair when things are tight and tough? Should one say "This is also for the good" and release our needs to G-d with tears and a sincere heart?
Great advice from the Rebbe, but we need the practical applications of it in order to move forward.
With all the turmoil so many are facing, its no surprise that segulas have become all the more popular with many (myself included).
Thank you, and to Leah in Tn, {{Hugs}}} hang in there.
'Rivkah in Miami
R. Gindi
Pembroke Pines, FL
December 21, 2009
how does one make onself small?
I am interested in being able to follow this advice.
Sharon
Newton, MA/USA
December 21, 2009
I will keep you in my prayers Leah. Things will change. Keep your faith.
Debra
New Johnsonville, TN
December 20, 2009
would rather have done it myself
but I was blind. If I only knew then what I know now, I could have spared myself and my whole family the pain and suffering we all went through as I spiraled and was brought to my knees begging G-d not to let these things happen. Life is not great, I am praying all day for a while now, nothing has changed, I remain small/crushed, glimpses of hope, fleeting glimpses of hope keep me connected to G-d.
Leah
NYC, NY
December 20, 2009
I like this
so many times, when wanting so badly to voice my opinion, I have been silenced by the voice that could only be G-ds, as if saying "not now, you should be quiet now" and learning to hear that voice more clearly, has helped me keep my big fat mouth shut. In doing this (when I obey) opens my ears to so many wonderful things.
Debra
New Johnsonville, TN
December 20, 2009
source?
What is the original source for this teaching and where can I obtain a copy?

Sincerely,
Baruch Rock
Efrat, Israel
December 20, 2009
Financal woes
I needed this little jolt to jump much higher.
I had become complacent. I am motivated now to accomplish what I had laid fallow.
Thanks Rabbi Freeman.
Sam
castro valley, CA
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