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Apology Accepted


Darkness had descended on the small town of Gostynin. All the inhabitants were fast asleep, their doors and shutters closed tightly against the frigid night. For the traveler arriving to the town, this was a most unwelcoming sight. Tired, weak and hungry, he had nowhere to turn, no place to rest his weary head.

Suddenly, from afar, he noticed a light shining in one of the windows. Sighing with relief, he hurried in that direction and knocked on the door, hoping to be allowed to stay for the night. It was the home of Rabbi Yechiel Meir of Gostynin.

A smile lit up the face of Reb Yechiel Meir as he opened the door. "Shalom aleichem, Reb Yid! Welcome!" he called out as he ushered the stranger inside.

Filled with joy, the host rushed about to serve his guestQuiet reigned in the little cottage; all the household members had long since retired for the night. Filled with joy, the host rushed about to serve his guest a glass of warm tea and pastry. However, when the visitor had downed the last of his drink and nary was a crumb left on the plate, Reb Yechiel Meir, perceiving that his guest was still hungry, searched about the house for some more food. To his delight, he found some raw oats and a saucepan of cooking fat. Never having played his hand at cooking before, the host placed it inside the oven and then, with his face wreathed in smiles, served the dish to his guest. While the visitor polished off the food, the host stood by, beaming with pleasure.

When the meal was over, Reb Yechiel hastened to prepare the guest a warm bed, his own, for the little house boasted no spare bed. While the traveler slept soundly, the host pored over his Talmudic volumes all through the night, learning with increased enthusiasm.

In the morning, the traveler awoke from his restful sleep and went to the synagogue. After prayers, in the course of conversation with the townsmen, he discovered that his host was no other than the illustrious Rabbi Yechiel Meir of Gostynin. Utterly ashamed and distressed, he approached the tzaddik, the holy man, to offer his apologies.

"I refuse to accept an apology from you," came the reply.

"But," the traveler protested, "I had no idea whose house it was, or whose bed I'd slept in. Had I known, I would never have put the tzaddik through such troubles."

Rabbi Yechiel Meir remained unfazed, but the traveler, eager to be forgiven, persisted in his explanations.

At last, Reb Yechiel Meir declared, "If you promise to do as I tell you, I will accept your apology."

For a slight moment, the traveler hesitated. Perhaps the tzaddik had looked into his soul and discerned some sort of reprehensible sin that needed rectification? Would he be able to carry out a strict regimen of repentance that the tzaddik might require of him?

"Anything the tzaddik will ask of me, I am ready to fulfill"No matter, he decided, with a shake of his head. If amends needed to be made, he was ready, come what may. As long as Rabbi Yechiel Meir would accept his sincere apology, it was worth everything.

"Anything the tzaddik will ask of me, I am ready to fulfill," he solemnly promised.

The rabbi smiled. "Well," he said. "This is my request to you. Every time you pass by the town of Gostynin, you will come to my home and be my guest. For when do I ever get a chance to fulfill the mitzvah of hospitality, hachnasat orchim, as I was able to this time? My townspeople spoil it for me!"

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By Mirish Kiszner   More articles...  |   RSS Listing of Newest Articles by this Author
Mirish Kiszner is a teacher, counselor and lecturer living in Jerusalem. She’s published hundreds of articles in numerous Jewish publications. Her latest book is Extraordinary Stories about Ordinary People (Artscroll), a collection of true stories about real people. She is also a regular contributor to our Help! I’ve Got Kids . . . parenting blog.

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Posted: Jan 4, 2010
raw oats & cooking fat
Please educate my unlearned self... but what 'meal' does one make from raw oats & cooking fat?
Posted By Preston, Beaumont, Texas/USA

Posted: Jan 2, 2010
love story
its great story we should do what we can to make this world better and help all in need of help we know this world needs it
Posted By susan, madison, us wisconsin
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Posted: Jan 1, 2010
yep- Abraham
I am another of those who feel deeply the story of Abraham, our Patriarch of Chesed, lovingkindness and hospitality to all.

Plus i have met a few such effusive engaging rabbis in the world.

Thank you for the story and memories.
Posted By Anonymous, WC

Posted: Dec 31, 2009
Wonderful!
I loved this story (Really, love all of them!) Thank you so much!
Posted By Ranay, Sarasota, FL.

Posted: Dec 28, 2009
the joy of mitzvot
Thank you!!! I love stories like this..so uplifting.
Posted By Anonymous

Posted: Dec 28, 2009
Reb Yecheil's Mitzvah
In a way this story reminds Me of the three strangers to whom Abraham showed hospitality--not knowing they were messengers from G-d. Moses had the need of treating His quests with honor because He was a G-dly man. If He knew that they were angels--He would have had the worry that His good deeds might be tainted by the knowlege of whom the guests really were-and the possibility that He was only trying to impress them--not really, honestly showing them hospitality. The same applies here--in a way. The Reb, because of His revered status, was afforded respect at all times, and because of His standing, people would not readily accept hospitality from Him--a necessary Mitzvah for Him and for us. Sometimes G-d hides, in order to allow us to be at our best--without the presure of knowing He is there, and thus doing the good deed out of pure intention, with the blessing of a Mitzvah well performed!
Posted By Nina Bryant

Posted: Dec 28, 2009
Encouragement of how to be and act
This story is very ecouraging. It reinforces us to do what is good and what is right when it comes to all people. Through good times and bad we can find time to do a mitzvah be it hospitality or just helping another. I am Jewish and I am also a member of the Masonic fraternity and both encourage to help all that need it. Thank you for all the stories. My life has changes in many positive ways since starting to study with Rabbi Fuss of Chabad Riverside. That too has been a blessing

Sincerely & Respectfully,
Posted By Manuel Blanco, Moreno Valley, Ca



 


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