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What Does the Name Reuben Mean?

What Does the Name Reuben Mean?


Reuben (or Reuven, as it is pronounced in Hebrew) was the name of the oldest of Jacob's twelve sons, fathers of the twelve tribes. The Torah1 records when he was given this name and as well as its meaning. But first a little background information: Jacob had intended to marry Rachel, but was tricked by his father-in-law into first marrying Leah – Reuben's mother. When she gave birth to her oldest, she chose the name Reuben, saying, "Because the L‑rd has seen my affliction, for now my husband will love me." The name is made up of two halves; "re'u" means "look" or "see," and "ben" means "son." Thus, the name Reuben expresses the fact that "re'u" - G‑d saw my needs, and therefore blessed me with "ben" - a son.

Our sages2 add that Leah chose the name with Divine intuition and was pointing to the contrast between her son, and her mother-in-law's son. "Re'u - see the difference," she said, "between ben - my son, and her son". She was referring to the fact that both Reuben and Esau (his uncle) lost the rights of the firstborn to a younger brother but had reacted very differently. Esau, who had sold his birthright to Jacob, jealously sought to kill his brother. Reuben, on the other hand, did not sell it to Joseph, as it was taken from him against his will, yet did not resent him and even sought to save him in his time of need.

The Chassidic masters teach that the name Reuben refers to "sight," a highly tuned level of G‑dly awareness that is so real that it is as if the person actually perceives G‑d with his own eyes. No amount of argument will convince a person that he did not see something when he did. This experience is unambiguous and definite. The name Reuben expresses certainty and immediacy in our awareness of G‑d.


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Rabbi Baruch S. Davidson is a writer who lives with his family in Brooklyn, N.Y.
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Reuben Whidbey Island, Wa. July 7, 2017

Reuben III I am Reuben III in my family as my grandfather's family named all nine children from the Bible. As I child I did not like my name because no one else had it among the other children. In college, I met a Jewish guy who said, "Reuben, what a neat name." From that time on, I have loved the name. And now, learning of its spiritiual import, I am even more honored to have it. Reply

reuben June 15, 2016

I finally know why my name is the best name ever! thanks chabad Reply

Reuben George June 8, 2016

My name is Reuben also..but I believe a person is more than his / her name... Reply

David H. November 15, 2012

Robinson I am a Robinson (Reubenson) on my mother's side. Both names are counted amongst the Galicean, Sephardic names in some Jewish name lists. With the 'son' tag on the end of the name, I guess it means that 'ben' or 'son' is effectively repeated at the end of the name.
More importantly it may explain why at times I feel the presence of the Almighty around about me more than other folk will ever understand... Reply

oluniran Reuben IREE, Osun/Nigeria September 3, 2012

what does d name REUBEN mean I am proud of the name Reuben. Reply

gustavo vargas angel santiago, chile April 13, 2010

what does Reuben .... In the bible who I read in a footnote that the meaning of Reuben is "one son." it is: "reu"=one, "ben"=son, from aramaic. what is the right meaning? Sometimes I make a mistake with translations, and I could be wrong. Reply

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