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Such a person ought to let his hair grow and grow

Kabbalistic Hair Styles

Kabbalistic Hair Styles

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A Nazirite is a man or woman who adopts for a certain period of time (or for the rest of their lives) an extremely elevated spiritual lifestyle, dedicating their days to meditation, prayer, transcendence, and complete service of G‑d (Num. 6:1-21).

The Bible imposes three restrictions upon a nazirite, which according to Jewish law apply even today (see Rambam, Hilchot Nazirut; Sefer Hachinuch Mitzvot #368-377):
(a) A nazirite is forbidden to drink wine or eat any grape product;
(b) A Nazirite's hair may not be cut;
(c) A nazirite may not become defiled and contaminated.

Though it is uncommon to encounter a nazirite nowadays1, we do have a tangible legacy of the Nazirite persona, in the form of a child. In some fashion, each of us was raised by our own parents as a nazirite. is uncommon to encounter a nazirite nowadays...

First, parents usually keep their children off wine. Second, parents keep away their children from contaminated environments; and finally, it is a long-standing Jewish custom, dating back hundreds, maybe thousands, of years, for parents to let their sons' hair grow long and cut it for the first time only at the age of three.

This practice of giving a male child his first "boy's haircut" only after he reached three years of age, is known today in the Jewish world as an "Upshernish" ("haircut" in Yiddish), and is practiced in many observant Jewish communities the world over. During this ceremony, the boy's hair is cut, but special caution is taken to leave the hair between the ears and the hairless portion of the face, known as earlocks, or "peyot" in Hebrew. The reason for this is because the Bible prohibits the Jew from totally removing the hair of that location where the skull is joined to the jawbone, at the side of the ear. (Lev. 19:27. Cf. Rambam, Hilchot Avodat Kochavim 12:1. Shulchan Aruch Yorah Deah 181:1) What is the reason for this tradition?2

The same question applies to a nazirite. We can understand how abstaining from wine and from contamination are conducive to fostering holiness and spirituality in a person's life. But why would the Torah instruct a nazirite to let his hair grow long? How does the possession of long, uncut hair, contribute to a life of transcendence?

To understand all of this, we must take a journey into the mystical world of hair.

What is Hair?

Jewish mysticism believes that hair contains profound energy….

In our modern terminology, hair is defined as "a collective term for slender, threadlike outgrowths of the epidermis of mammals, forming a characteristic body covering." However, Jewish mysticism believes that hair contains profound energy. The Zohar, one of the ancient Kabbalistic texts, sees every strand of hair as "harboring entire universes". One of the most profound sections in the Zohar, known as the Idra Rabba, a commentary on this week's Torah portion (Naso), is dedicated almost exclusively to discuss hair and its source in the divine reality. According to the Zohar, "…from the hair of a person you can know who he is." (Zohar, Naso, Idra Rabba 129a)

Kabbala discusses the paradox of hair, where on one hand it is rooted in a tubular pit of the epidermis, known as the hair follicle, and is nourished by the blood vessels in a papilla that extends into the follicle and into the root of the hair. This makes it part of the bodily structure. Yet on the other hand, hair contains neither blood vessels nor nerves, therefore not generating any pain upon their removal from the rest of body (Or Hatorah, parashat Emor p. 588-593).

The Kabbala of Hair

So how does Jewish mysticism view the significance of hair?

Hairs act as "straws" transmitting profound and inaccessible energy. Each strand of hair, shaped like a straw (the form of the Hebrew letter vav), communicates a level of soul-energy that due to its intensity cannot be communicated directly, only through the "straw" of hair, through the contracted, and curtailed medium of hair, which dilutes the intense energy.

Now, the Kabbala distinguishes between "fine hair" and "coarse hair" - the fine hair decorating the cranium, present immediately during birth, and the coarse hair of the beard, appearing only at a male's entry into adulthood. The hair that links the "fine" and the "coarse" are the peyot, the hair extending from the skull, down the jawbone, after which it merges with the beard.

The hair growing on top of the cranium, the "fine hair", represents the deeply concealed energy stemming from the interior of the skull, identified by Kabbala as the location for the super-conscious formations of the human psyche. The deepest and most primal forces of our psyche, the supra-rational desires and cravings of the soul formulated even prior to the birth of cognition, are associated in Jewish mysticism with the skull, defined as "the crown over the brain", or simply as "keter", which means the crown. Keter is seen as the most lofty and elevated part of the soul, its link to G‑d, Who also transcends reason and logic.

The hair of the male beard, on the other hand, the "coarse hair", represents the energy stemming from the sub conscious cognitive impressions of the human psyche, located within the higher and lower brain. This dimension of the human soul is known in Kabbala as "Mocha Stima'a" (or "the hidden cognition"), and stands one rung below the level of keter.

(This is the mystical reason for the feminine body not developing a beard. As mentioned above, the mystical function of hair is to access, in a contracted and curtailed fashion, energy that is inaccessible due to its profundity. Women, however, are naturally more in tuned with their sub conscious cognition, and therefore do not require the "straws" of hair to access that level of self.)

Linking Two Universes

Now the question is if there is any way to link the super-conscious forces of the soul, the keter dimension, with the cognitive structure of the psyche? Can we ever mentally experience who we really are in our deepest space? Even after the keter energy was filtered into hair strands, is there hope for us to internalize this infinite light within the finite vessels of cognition?

Without the two side locks curtailing, contracting and metamorphosing the new-clear energy of keter, none of it would be expressed….

Men of spirit from the days of yore have struggled with this dilemma. Judaism's answer to this question is - the peyot, the two rows of hair lingering down the jaw bone, that link the hair of the cranium to the hair of the beard. In Kabbala, these two rows of hair symbolize the contracted transmission of the super-conscious keter energy, to the sub conscious mental (Mocha Stima'a) energy, so that the infinite and unconstrained atomic power of the soul's crown can ultimately be contained and internalized within the mental framework of the human condition.

Without the two side locks curtailing, contracting and metamorphosing the new-clear energy of keter, none of it would be expressed or experienced within the person's conscious life. Only by having the keter energy filtered through the hair on the skull, and then re-filtered a second time via the peyot, can the deepest energy of the soul become articulated in the lower chambers of consciousness.

[This may also be the reason why the great kabbalist, Rabbi Isaac Luria (d. in 1572), did not allow his peyot to grow very much below his ears and have them hang over the sides of his beard, as is the custom of Yemenite, Moroccan and most Chassidic Jews. Rather he would trim his peyot with scissors to ensure that they just reached his beard. This "style" was embraced by the Chabad school and many other Ashkenazic and Sefardic communities. In the former style, the emphasis is on overwhelming the beard (representing the deep cognitive impressions) with the "peyot", representing the flow of the soul's pristine desire and emotion. This indeed is the spiritual path of Yemenite and many Chassidic Jews. In Chabad, however, the goal has always been to link between the atomic energy of the soul and the mental framework of the mind, represented by the connection of the peyot with the beard.]3

The Man Who Gazes at His Pristine Self

A nazirite is a human being who…attempts to go back to the primal formations of his soul….

All of the above is valid, however, in the case of an ordinary human being, in whom the hair of the cranium can transmit the intensity of the keter feature of the soul only via the peyot. The hair atop of the skull on its own (without the further filtering through the peyot) cannot convey that keter energy, due to its tremendous power and intensity. Therefore, the Torah instructs us to leave our peyot and beards intact, for these are the containers through which we access the holiness of our souls. There is no mitzvah, however, in letting the hair above the skull grow long.

However, a nazirite is a human being who, through a profound process of meditation and transcendence, attempts to go back to the primal formations of his soul. Such a person, says the Torah, ought to let his hair grow and grow, since each strand transmits and brings to the fore tremendous holiness and profundity, the supra rational link of the soul to G‑d.

A nazirite needs not his peyot to filter the energy and bring it down to the lower brain-level; a nazirite is able to experience something of his true self without even the most refined masks.

The Secret of a Child

This may be the deeper reason for the Jewish custom of letting a child's hair grow freely till the age of three. During the first years of a child's life, what is most exposed in his life is his keter dimension - his primal, basic formations. During the first years, a child has not yet matured enough to allow his or her mind to filter through every experience and stimuli. At that time, a child is like a dry sponge, absorbing everything in a very deep place.

Though we often perceive children as lacking in the ability to internalize as much as we can, in truth, their level of internalization is far deeper - straight to the primal part of the soul, without traveling through the multi layers of mental cognitive structure. If you wish to know your pristine experiences, spend some real time with your child. There you will encounter your own keter, your own inner self, expressed in the long strands of hair decorating the crown of his soul, the skull.

After three years of age, the process of mental frame working and processing begins to increase significantly. This is the time when a child learns more and more to process the world around him via his conscious mind and heart, not via his super conscious core. It is at this point that we must begin to help the child build a bridge between his innate yearnings and his outer persona, between his soul and his mind.

That is why we give him a haircut, and we create a bridge - the peyot that carry down the keter soul energy into his lower brain, which as he grows older will develop a beard. This is the moment we generate the link between the majesty of his soul and the depth of his brain.

Bursting Through the Peyot

This is the deeper meaning behind the Torah's prediction that the Mashiach will "burst through the peyot of the Moabite nation" (Num. 24:17). Moab represents wisdom and intelligence. Nowadays, we must preserve the peyot in order to communicate the supra rational energy into the framework of rationality. But when Mashiach comes, the doors of our perception will be cleansed, granting us the ability to gaze at our core without flinching an eye. The core energy of the soul will come to the fore in its full vigor, not requiring the contraction and concealment represented by the peyot.

In that sense, our young children carry in their hair the light of Mashiach.

Based on Zohar, Writings of the Ari, Likutei Torah, and other sources of Kabbala and Chassidut.

The most famous nazirites in Jewish history are the biblical figures Samson and Absalom. Some people claim that the famed sage of the city of Rogochav, Rabbi Yosef Rosin (d. 1936), author of Tzafnat Paanach and one of the greatest Jewish minds in last century, whose hair was extremely long, accepted upon himself the status of a nazirite. However others attribute his long hair to his unwillingness to cut them because of pain involved. Around thirty years ago there lived in Jerusalem Rabbi David Kohen, who was a proclaimed nazirite. Until today he is known as "The Nazir" (he passed away in 1972). Rabbi David Kohen, whose son serves as present chief rabbi of Haifa, was a prolific writer, scholar and Kabbalist. Rabbi David dedicated his life to disseminate the teachings of his maters Rabbi Avraham Yitzchak Hakohen Kuk, first chief rabbi of Israel (d. 1935) and his pupil Rabbi Yaakov Moshe Charlap (d. 1952).
The first explicit mention of this tradition is in Shaar Hakavonot, section 12, Inyan HaPesach in the Writings of the Ari. There, Rabbi Chaim Vital relates how his master, Rabbi Isaac Luria, one of the greatest mystics in the history of Judaism, performed this ceremony with his own son, in the city of Meron, in Israel, at the resting place of Rabbi Shimon Bar Yochai. This goes back more then 400 years. There is a slight hint for this tradition in Midrash Tanchuma, Kedoshim, section 14 , as well as in the Jerusalem Talmud, Peah 1:4. Cf. Chedush Haritva beginning of Tractate Shevuot. - For a full discussion of the origins and details of this tradition, see Yalkut Hatesporet (NY, 1997), by Rabbi Yosef Yitzchak Serebryanski, and (in English) "Upshernish" (Published by Sichot In English, NY, 1999), by Rabbi Eliyahu Touger. What follows is based on the writings of Kabbalah and Chassidism.
See Shaar Hamitzvot and Taamei Hamitzvot, parashat Kedoshim; Beit Lechem Yehudah, gloss to Yoreh Deah 181:1; Igrot Kodesh by the Lubavitcher Rebbe vol. 20 p.10; Or Hatorah, parashat Emor pp. 588-93, also 5672 vol. 2 p. 956-964
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Ari Fine Warsaw August 16, 2017

I would say to preserve wisdom is the sign of a Nazarene. The hair growing long is symbolic , but when young before 28 also beautiful. We are as trees and need shaping depending on our desire for others or power over others. Long beards do not help us, but long thoughts full of eternal light and befitting energy will eternally. Young men should not waste their time on these matters. But cleanliness and grooming puts us over the beasts. Keep the hair washed, the world is quite polluted. Once a week is not enough any more. Mustiness is no respect to Hashem. Reply

Moshe Nigeria April 25, 2017

I am happy for my peyot, and live a life of spiritual life. But what can I do to keep spiritual life? Reply

Llandon Ross November 6, 2014

Long Mustache Hair B"H
I have been growing out my facial hair and it is coming out slowly because I have never shaved. the very first defined hair of my mustache is longer then the rest and people have told me to trim and or pull it. I have given into the preerpressure before and have plucked it . I am just wondering when it grows back what should I do ? Reply

Anonymous Flemington, NJ August 9, 2013

Dear Rabbis,
What is the significance of balding from the kabbalistic perspective? Is the connection with supra-rational dimension of the soul diminished? What happens when a person is completely bald (temporarily during chemotherapy) or permanently?
Thank You. Reply

me miami August 4, 2013

Course vs. fine hair so what is the explaination of course hair on the top of the cranium... many non europen jews have course hair... Reply

Llandon Ross September 20, 2012

How to grow a beard I'm starting to grow a beard and I was wondering is it ok to shave to grow a beard Reply

Anonymous Safed, Israel September 19, 2012

Kabbalah of hair and women WOnderful article. I'm always asking my husband about why different communities keep different styles of peyot and he's never known the source - sharing this with him now.
Could you direct me to kabbalah of women's hair and married women's covering? Also braiding hair? thank you. Reply

Rachel D. September 1, 2012

My mom and .....As long as I could remember, my mom forbade me to cut my hair. She would get soo upset if I came from the salon with an inch or two removed! She would say the same thing every single time, "It was Samson's strength! And it's your strength too!" Even now she'll still ask "did you cut your hair?" "That was Samson's strength!"
...As I got older and able to voice my opinions more without being disrespectful, I would simply say, "Well Samson was a Nazarite, and I'm not!" Then my mom would say it's good for females to keep her hair..But she would and still uses Samson for her reference/argument. Reply

Yerachmiel Tilles Tzefat, Israel via June 28, 2012

Re: to: Used to be You are confusing "nazir"-the vow taker with the city Nazereth. Admittedly they sound similar and may even share a common root. It Hebrew the placename is pronounced "Natzrat" and someone from there is called a "Natzrati." Reply

"Used to be conservative" Eugene, Oregon June 26, 2012

I thought the term "nazirite" referred to some one who was born in a certain town, like, a "Bostonian." Wasn't Jees said to be a nazirite? Were they talking about his HAIR? Or where he was from? Reply

Anonymous May 31, 2012

Just wondering if a woman were to be a Nazir, but had facial hair, would this hair on the face not be allowed to be cut along with hair on her head? Reply

webmaster Tzefat, Israel via February 17, 2012

RE: girl's facial hair She may remove it. Reply

Anonymous Delray Beach, FL January 2, 2012

GIrls Facial Hair My daughter was born with a little darkish, downey facial hair down the right side of her face(like a long side burn). Everyone told me that it would go away, but she is 11 now and it has not. I told her to shave it, and she told me her teacher told her that she was not allowed to do anything to it because it is holy, Is this true? I think she should get rid of it. Reply

Anonymous Nigeria, Enugu October 23, 2011

Very Informative But.... Shalom Alechem!
Am very pleased to the author of this article for his clear enlightenment on the subject matter of hair & I now know why the Orthodox Jews, more especially the Hasidim keep a flowing earlocks. I would like to grow & keep earlocks but it seems am not gifted for that. Please what can I apply on my skin to foster the growth of hair & internalize this lifestyle into my disciplined life.
Yedidyahu Obiajulu Oba.
Enugu, Nigeria Reply

Miguel Antonio Moya wilmette, il June 5, 2011

brilliant Thank you for this article, i have been so fascinated by my body's urges to grow my hair. I always knew that hair reacts to electro-magnetism so i figured it was sensitive to ALL energy. In this case I feel like only the Strongest energies are felt by the person. Reply

Anonymous Perth, Australia November 26, 2009

facial hair Since facial hair is connected to levels of testosterone, it is potentially possible for a woman to grow a beard, and in fact, some women do grow the odd coarse facial hair, especially in old age. We also have the old side-show phenomenum of the 'bearded lady', whom can still be seen in books like the Guiness Book of Records each year. So is it that testosterone is related to the "Mocha Stima'a"? Or is it that some women have grey areas around their gender in which the "Mocha Stima'a" stimulates more testosterone? Of course the opposite is possible, with some men not producing so much facial/coarse hair - in some cultures the men produce barely any facial hair. This article discussing hair has really caught my curiosity! Reply

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