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For the first three years of life, children absorbs their parents' love. Then, their education takes a leap—they are ready to produce and share their unique gifts. For a Jewish boy, this transition is marked with a haircutting ceremony—an "upsherin"—on his third Jewish birthday.

The Upsherin

A Three-Year-Old Jewish Boy's First Haircut

For the first three years of life, children absorb their parents' love. Then, their education takes a leap—they are ready to produce and share their unique gifts.

For a Jewish boy, this transition is marked with a haircutting ceremony—an "upsherin"—on his third Jewish birthday.
The Basics of the Upsherin
A Boy's First Haircut
At the age of three, children’s education takes a leap—they are now ready to produce and share their unique gifts. For a Jewish boy, this transition is traditionally marked with a haircutting ceremony.
A Jewish Boy's First Haircut
Musings from the mother of a newly “upsherined” boy
Then it was haircut time. I squeezed my eyes shut, half expecting the same cries I heard at his bris, which seems like it was just yesterday. But when I looked up, he was grinning.
The Defining Haircut
Education is, and always has been, the key to Jewish survival. But the essence of education is the imparting of values, not information.
Kabbalistic Hair Styles
An understanding the kabbalistic nature of the Nazirite, and hair in general, sheds light on the inner significance of the Upsherin ceremony.
A Milestone in a Child's Education
From Our Library -- An Advanced Guide to the Upsherin
What is an Upsherin? When is it done? What are the customs associated with this event?
The Deed: The Upsherin
A Video Primer for a Boy's First Haircut
An Upsherin is the traditional "first haircut" ceremony held on a boy's third birthday. This ceremony marks the start of the child's formal education and is highlighted by leaving payot and the child starting to wear a kipah and tzitzit.
The Rebbe Participating in Children's Upsherins
5747-5750, 1987-1990
A collage of videos of the Rebbe cutting the hair of three-year-old boys.
The Meaning of Upsherenish
The Mitzvah of Peyos
This class explores the reasons and sources for the custom of celebrating a Jewish boy’s first haircut – an Upsherin.
Can I Cut My Son’s Hair Before Age Three?
Can I arrange to cut my son’s hair earlier than his third birthday so that my father can be involved?
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