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Two Is One


Look deeply and you will see that the Torah does not know of man and woman as separate beings. Each act is performed once through a single body—a body that in our world may appear as two, but which the Torah sees as one. On the contrary, for both to do the same mitzvah would be redundant, for why should one half of the body do what the other has already done?

They are a single whole, whether they know of one another or not. Where does a woman put on tefillin or wear tzitzit? On the body of her male counterpart.


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From the wisdom of the Lubavitcher Rebbe; words and condensation by Tzvi Freeman. To order Tzvi's book, "Bringing Heaven Down to Earth, click here. Rabbi Freeman is available for public speaking and workshops. Read more on his bio page.

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Posted: Nov 7, 2009
Devorah's point
Devorah's point is well taken. "Standing alone in faith" is providential just as much, it would seem, as the state of matrimony that is also divinely providential. Duality and its resolution, or lack of resolution, manifests in this way too.
Posted By Happyminyan, Beverly Hills, California

Posted: Nov 3, 2009
Re: Does not apply for every mitzva
The woman does the mitzva in a different way than the man. Therefore she recites the Grace After Meals, washes her hands for bread, says the prayers, and does many of the mitzvos that men are commanded to do as well. He cannot do the mitzva in the same way as her, and vise versa, so it needs to be done by both of them.
So then why do women not wear tefillin, and why don't men light shabbat candles? Because we each have our own special mitzvot, too.
Mitzvot are our way to connect with G-d. G-d decided that men need to wear tefillin in order to connect with Him. Women, apparently, do not.
It is not up to us human beings to decide which mitzvot are for whom. some are for both of us, some are divided between us.
Posted By Anonymous

Posted: Nov 3, 2009
Two is One
What if one does not have a counterpart?

In a perfect world our wives, our husbands are our counterparts. But the world is not "perfect" and a woman or a man can stand alone in faith.
Posted By Devorah, Pitttstown, NJ



 


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