A mentor, our sages tell us, must be like an angel. That's a problem. Having never seen an angel, you will always be in doubt: Perhaps the mentor you have chosen is not like an angel. How can you ever rely on your mentor while so unsure of his or her qualifications?
So we will clarify: The mentor must be a human angel.
An angel, because just as an angel has no body, no hatred, no jealousy and is not in competition with you, so the mentor must remain objective and uninfluenced by any personal benefit from the advice.
And yet a human being: With compassion, with a conscience, and with a passion for kind deeds.
hallandale, Fl.
Thank you, Angel!
Brazil, BH
Mission, BC CANADA
Vienna, Austria
You are so right.
castro valley, ca
It's very hard to find someone who can answer the questions I ask. I come here because I feel that the writers here are my mentors. But in truth, you don't know me and I don't know you.
I feel a mentor must know his student and a student must be able to watch his mentor's face and listen to his voice and meet his gaze and understand him even if he doesn't talk.
Sometimes, Torah study is very isolating especially the Chassidic texts, not for anything other than very few people want to understand it deeply and very few people can teach it.
I wish to find a mentor like this and follow this mentor around and acquire his compassion first-hand. But where? Where for someone like me, other than words in this site?
new york