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Entering Adulthood - the Bar and Bat Mitzvah


How can a 12 or 13 year old be considered an adult? What suddenly happens at age 12/13?

15 Comments Posted
Reader Comments
Posted: Aug 30, 2005
This is a good article on Bar Mitzvah coming from an excellent source.
Posted By Jamie

Posted: June 16, 2007
Great info
Thanks for this insightful piece on the Bar/Bat Mitzvah spiritual process. I'm attending a celebration of Christian teenagers 'coming of age' spiritually this evening, and your article has inspired me to inspire them.
Posted By John Kershaw, Bradford, England

Posted: Sep 14, 2007
but WHY do you do this? is there a historical reason to the celebration? is it writen in the tora that at a certain age you should celebrate the adultness?? i do not get it.
Posted By cecilia

Posted: Nov 14, 2007
Making more sense
now i have a better undersanding of what i am attending and why.. thanks for the info!!
Posted By Anonymous

Posted: Jan 14, 2008
thanks for the lesson
very helpful info. My Bar Mitzvah is soon, and this will surely help me get ready!
Posted By John, lake grove, ny

Posted: June 7, 2010
my Bat Mitzvah is really soon and i hope i will remember this. it is amazing what some think. i will have those i know read this. thank you for the advice and knowledge.
Posted By Hannah , washington, Maine

Posted: June 22, 2010
thank you
i'm truly grateful to learn more things about bar\bat mitzvah. it does enlighten my knowledge regarding how much it means in our religion. thank you rabbi.
Posted By Anonymous

Posted: Aug 3, 2010
Very Nice
Nice article. I took my son to the Ohel today, and his Bar Mitzvah at home is this Saturday (8/7/10). I know he'll bring us much nachas!
Posted By Anonymous, Akron, Ohio

Posted: Nov 17, 2010
gr8
i just turned bas mitzvah and i really understand about being bas mitzvah now thank you
Posted By Anonymous, NY

Posted: June 21, 2011
Yasher Koach
Excellent article. This helped us very much as my daughter wanted to speak about 'what IS a bat mitzva' and this is finely described & explained.
Posted By Shira, Jerusalem

Posted: Aug 16, 2011
Thanks much!
thanks now i have good information for my assignment! :)
Posted By Bryan, sydney, Australia

Posted: Oct 5, 2011
I have no Jewish Links anymore
Hi, I was born jewish-to a Jewish mother and a jewish father. My mother born in England and my father in Aden then immigrating to Israel when it was formed. They have both now sadly passed and are burried side by side in a jewish Cemetary. This now is the only linkage i have to being jewish. it makes me sad as I have a son who will be turning 13 years old in two years and i wish him to know his heritage and have a bar mitvah. Does anybody know where i can seek help in regaining my Jewish faith? My mother died when i was nearly 16 years of age and my father died in 2007. They both had traditional Jewish send offs but after my mother died my father lost a bit of his will to carry on and left myself my brother and i to do as we will. Myself being the oldest still tried to retain a sense of normality after my mother's passing-but it was not long before my efforts were ignored. We still observed the Rosh hashanah and Yom Kippur every year but it never felt the same. any help would be great.
Posted By Angelique Robinson, London, Edmonton

Posted: Oct 28, 2011
Re: Jewish
On the home page of chabad.org there is a box where you can search for a Chabad house in your area.

Wishing you lots of success this year, both spiritually and physically!
Posted By Anonymous, Crown Heights, NY

Posted: Nov 28, 2011
Bat Mitzvah
What are a girl's responsibilities for her Bat Mitzvah? A boy reads from the Torah, but what does a girl do?
Posted By Anonymous, New York, NY

Posted: Dec 13, 2011
I don't get it, what are the new responsibilities a boy has after his Bar Mitzvah?
Posted By Anonymous

 


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