My earliest memories of Purim are joyous, lively ones. Adults clowning in the
streets, children scurrying to and fro, festive gatherings in every house and
apartment, sounds of merry-making filtering through the neighborhood.
Masquerades and charades, party and song, dance and drink were the order of
the day. Yes, drink -- especially drink. Drinks of all kinds and sizes. We
children didn't partake, of course, but adults sure did enjoy. This day was an
anomaly for a religion and society in which drink, and certainly drunkenness, was usually
anathema.
One must indeed wonder why Jews celebrate this holiday with such jollity.
Jewish law stipulates that all holidays be joyful, but Purim goes beyond the
norm. On Purim a Jew is religiously required to "drink until one cannot
distinguish between the words 'cursed is Haman' and 'blessed is Mordechai.'"1
Why do we drink on Purim? Why would we want to achieve the state of not
distinguishing between the "cursed is Haman" and "blessed is Mordechai"? As with
all Jewish questions, the answer is found on four levels -- the technical, the
symbolic, the homiletic and the mystical.
The Technical Answer: Commemorating the Wine
Jewish holidays commemorate our history's miracles. On Passover we eat matzah
to commemorate our ancestors' hasty Exodus from Egypt, which left them had
little time to bake bread. On Chanukah we light candles to commemorate the
miracle of the small jar of oil that burned for eight days. Similarly on Purim
we drink wine to commemorate the salvation of our people, which unfolded over a
series of the royal feasts and parties in which, as the Book of Esther relates,
wine was a major ingredient and mover of events:
The fall of Queen Vashti which precipitated the rise of Queen Esther occurred
at the royal feast at Shushan, with the king in a state of intoxication. Esther
was welcomed into the royal family with a series of drinking celebrations.
Finally, Esther engineered Haman's downfall in a duo of intimate dinner parties
where, once again, wine flowed freely.2
The Symbolic View: Bridging the 'Between'
From the time of Haman's cursed libel until Mordechai succeeded in
orchestrating the Jewish people's blessed salvation, our ancestors must have
been in a state of intense anxiety. In retrospect they knew that there had been
no cause to worry for G-d had miraculously saved them. If only they could have
known earlier what they knew later, they could have avoided tremendous anguish.
One important aspect of the Purim celebration is to reflect upon G-d's
salvation. In times of trouble a Jew must turn to G-d. Anguish and worry do not
solve problems but placing our trust in G-d, while doing what we can to help
ourselves, does.
Here then is the symbolic meaning of being incapable of distinguishing
"between 'cursed is Haman' and 'blessed is Mordechai.'" We must learn to put our
trust in G-d and thus avoid the anxiety that dominates the "in-between" state,
the interim state between the problem point of "cursed is Haman" and the
solution state of "blessed is Mordechai." 3
The Homiletic Perspective: Transcending Dividers Good and Bad
Celebration and joy must lead to unity. Discord develops between friends when
one causes harm to the other, or when one becomes jealous of the other's good
fortune. These two states are represented by the terms "cursed is Haman" and
"blessed is Mordechai."
On Purim one must reach out and forgive long-standing grievances and
jealousies. We rejoice with friends and share a glass of wine in the hopes of
transcending both the courses and the blessing that divide us, dismissing old
grudges and rekindling old friendships.
The Mystical Explanation: Beyond Reason
The Purim miracle defies comprehension. Our ancestors had largely assimilated
into the Persian society. They were invited to Persian parties, admitted into
Persian circles and perceived themselves as full citizens of official and social
Persia.
When the royal edict was issued requiring all Persians to bow before the
powerful minister Haman, most Jews were prepared to obey. Mordechai and perhaps
a handful of others refused. Enraged, Haman complained to the King who, in turn,
issued an edict against the Jewish nation.
Standing with Mordechai endangered not only their hard-earned position in the
empire, but also their very lives. Yet not a single Jew betrayed Mordechai and
what the Jewish leader represented. When the time came to choose between their
eternal commitment to G-d and their new-found and tenuous friendships, every Jew
chose G-d.
The Jew didn't choose G-d out of love or reverence. This was an irreverent
Jew. The Jew didn't choose G-d out of scholarship and piety. This was an
assimilated Jew. Why did the Jew choose G-d? Because the Jewish connection to
G-d is infinite and eternal. It transcends reason and understanding. It has
weathered powerful storms and trying challenges, and is inexplicably still
alive. Our bond with G-d is compelling because the Jew and G-d are linked at the
essence. When the faced with a challenge the Jew embraces G-d, regardless of
prevailing spiritual conditions.
This transcendent bond is the mystical dimension of drinking wine on Purim.
The essence of this holiday is not emotive or intellectual. It is best captured
by the soul, not the brain or heart. When wine has dulled the brain, when
coherent thought has ceased to function, and the Jew, despite his intoxicated
state, remains committed to his religion, he has captured the spirit of
Purim.4
In summation, Jews drink wine on Purim to recall the parties of old; to build
camaraderie and overcome grudges and jealousies; to emphasize the miraculous
salvation which drives away the worries of contemporary challenges; and to
experience that uplifting merriment that highlights the essential bond between
G-d and the Jewish people.