Forty days after they received the Torah at Mount Sinai and committed to be G‑d’s chosen people, the Children of Israel worshipped a Golden Calf. Moses pleaded with G‑d not to destroy His errant nation, and on the tenth of Tishrei G‑d said, “I have forgiven.” Ever since, we observe this date as the “Day of Atonement”—a celebration of our indestructible relationship with G‑d. It is the holiest day of the year, when we reconnect with our very essence, which remains faithful to G‑d regardless of our behavior.
We wear white clothes in emulation of the spiritual angelsYom Kippur is a fast day: from sundown on the eve of Yom Kippur until the following nightfall, we do not eat or drink. (If you’re ill, consult a rabbi.) We also abstain from certain physical pleasures: wearing leather footwear, bathing or washing, applying lotions or creams, and marital relations. It is also a “day of rest,” on which all work is forbidden (as on Shabbat).
We wear white clothes in emulation of the spiritual angels, and spend the greater part of the day in the synagogue engaged in repentance and prayer. There are five prayer services: 1) The evening prayers, which begin with the solemn Kol Nidrei. 2) Morning prayer. 3) Musaf, which includes a description of the Yom Kippur Holy Temple service. 4) Afternoon prayer, during which the Book of Jonah is read. 5) Ne’ilah, recited as the day wanes and the verdict for the new year is sealed. The first four prayers include a (private) confession of sins to G‑d.
Many laws and customs are associated with the prayer services; your synagogue rabbi will lead you along as needed.
Ne’ilah concludes with the congregation calling out the Shema in unison, and then a blast of the shofar signals the end of the day.
Yom Kippur is followed by a festive meal. We rejoice, confident that G‑d has forgiven our sins.
For detailed Yom Kippur how-tos, visit our expanded Yom Kippur section.
Could it have been to make your soul closer to God?
London, UK
One of my rabbis decribes sin as "not seeing the truth yet." It is not about the obvious Bernie Madoff-like behavior, but about how our ego can invade our motivations, even when we think we are doing good. I used to read the Al Chet and think, "I never did that! I didn't cheat in business, or on my wife. I didn't steal or kill, or do any of those things. Why am I even here?"
What I have come to learn is that a fine line exists between righteous and self-righteous. Yom Kippur is the time for me to stop acting, stop emotiing, and genuinely reflect on my behavior and my motives, in order to become more selfless and genuinely righteous in the year to come. The concept of T'Shuvah deepens and becomes more real every year. I don't think I will ever get it down completely. That is why I will continue to PRACTICE Judaism every year of my life, and strive to improve one day at a time. I am grateful to Chabad, which helps me do so.
Calabasas, CA
Obviously, cash itself would not be able to "buy off" G-d. However sincere goodness and sharing with others is surely a great merit which would stand in anyone's defense.
yonkers, ny