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Love and Judgement

Love and Judgement

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There is a part of me that really dislikes Rosh Hashanah. Rosh Hashanah is called Yom HaDin, the "Day of Judgment"--and I simply dread being judged. Who enjoys feeling fear, feeling threatened, or thinking about possibly being punished? It is also referred to as Yom HaZicharon, the "Day of Memory." On this day G‑d remembers everything--every little itsy bitsy tiny weenie little thing that I did last year--and then decides my fate for the upcoming year.

There is, however, another part of me that feels much love for Rosh Hashanah. It is an opportunity to take inventory of my actions, reflect and make changes to improve myself and my relationships with others. Judgment is actually empowering. It tells me that G‑d cares about my choices and that I make a difference in this world.

There is a verse from the book of Psalms that summarizes my ambivalence. The sages associate this verse with Rosh Hashanah. It states "Serve G‑d with awe, rejoice in trembling." This seems to be a paradox--either I am happy and rejoicing or I am frightened and trembling. How can I be doing and feeling both? Yet on Rosh Hashanah somehow I am rejoicing about my trembling.

On Rosh Hashanah when I acknowledge that G‑d is the one and only King and Judge, my ego feels frightened and overwhelmed. My illusion of being self-contained without any accountability to a higher power is shattered. This egotistical illusion is what the Kabbalah calls klipah--the hard shell. When the shell is broken I realize that I cannot do whatever I want, whenever I want or wherever I want. I am not independent and self defined. There is someone that I am responsible and accountable to. That is very frightening for the ego, but also very reassuring for the self.

The self wants to feel accountability because if I am not accountable then I don't count. Therefore, on Rosh Hashanah, while my pained ego shatters into little pieces, my true inner self, the soul, is encouraged and rejoices.

If I am not accountable, I don't count On Rosh Hashanah we tremble with joy because we know that G‑d's judgment is actually an expression of great love and care.

The Shofar

When we blow the shofar (ram's horn) on Rosh Hashanah, we start with a long blast announcing the coming of the King and the establishment of His ruling power. Then the shofar is sounded again, but this time it is a few shorter, fragmented blasts. The sound of this second blast reflects the breakdown of the ego. The King's presence overwhelms the ego and it breaks down. Then, strangely enough, out of the breakdown comes this new strength, another longer blast, and that hints to the establishment of the self. This is one interpretation of the variation in the blasts of the shofar.

The first sound is called in Hebrew tekiah, which means to sound a horn, but it also means to drive a stake firmly into the ground. In other words, it signals to us that we must firmly establish in our hearts the truth that G‑d is the one and only King and true Judge. The next set of sounds is called shevarim which literal means "breakings." This is hinting to the breakdown of the klipah--the hard shell--created by our ego which claims that we are independent of G‑d. However, after the ego is shattered we once again blast the sound of tekiah, now expressing the establishment of the soul. We now know that we are strong and confident, standing in the loving presence of G‑d. G‑d's judgment actually affirms our power to make a difference, the truth that we matter and that He loves us.

The sounding of the shofar accompanies three themes that we express in the prayers on Rosh Hashanah: malchiot (kingship), zichronot (memories) and shofrot (shofars). Malchiot means that G‑d is the King. He is our King, He rules over us all because He created the world and He created us. This world is His Kingdom and we are His subjects.

Zichronot means "memories." Even though He is our King and next to Him we may feel comparatively minute, zichronot reminds us that we are great in the eyes of G‑d. He remembers us and watches over us. G‑d takes note of everything we do because each and every one of us is significant and noteworthy to G‑d. He is our King and we are His subjects, not His objects. He is like a King who cares about us and therefore, we are the subject of His rule and love. He only wants whatever is in our best interest, unlike a tyrant or dictator who treats his people like objects to be used for his own interest and pleasure. Zichronot affirms that G‑d remembers us and never forgets us. Even though there are times in our lives when we feel forgotten, that's only from our perspective. G‑d always remembers us, watches over us and cares.

The third theme expressed in the Rosh Hashanah prayers is shofrot, which literally means "sounds of the shofar" but symbolically refers to the sounds of the shofar heard at the giving of the Torah at Sinai. This affirms our belief that G‑d not only loves us and cares about us, but He gave us a way to love Him and care about the manifestation of His presence on earth; through the mitzvot (divine commandments) of the Torah we are able to love and bond with Him. This is the meaning of the teachings of the Torah and the ultimate purpose of fulfilling the mitzvot.

G‑d's judgment actually affirms our power to make a difference When the people of Israel heard the blast of the shofar at Sinai they were literarily blown away (forgive me for the pun). The Midrash teaches that the immensity and the intensity of the revelation were so overwhelming that everyone's souls flew from their bodies. Therefore G‑d, so to speak, sent angels to push the souls of the Jews back into their bodies and revived them. Although we were totally devastated by the revelation of G‑d, He gave us the strength to maintain ourselves in His presence.

These are the same dynamics at work on Rosh Hashanah. On the one hand, we feel frightened and threatened, and on the other hand, there is something very affirming to know that the King cares, that our choices matter to G‑d and that His judgment will guide us towards choosing the greatest good, a life of Torah and mitzvot so that we can enjoy the greatest pleasure--to love and bond with G‑d.

Rabbi David Aaron is founder and dean of the Isralight Institute and the internationally recognized author of several books on Kabbalah. Click here to purchase his books
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Dan Waldron Rockford, Illinois September 24, 2006

Rosh Hashannah Beautiful, this is why I read Chabad. Please forgive me for not sending a contribution as I cannot do it at present, but I am blessed by your writings. Thank you! Reply

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