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My Son's First Steps

On a recent Tuesday, my twelve-month old son started walking. I came home exhausted from a long day at work to see little Yaakov Kopel waddling around the house as if he owned the place. My exhaustion was quickly forgotten. I observed for a while, had him chase me a little, and savored the milestone, trying to commit the moment to memory.

Truth be told, Yaakov had actually taken his first steps several weeks earlier, and had progressively been taking more and more steps ever since. But until this day, he had not considered walking as a serious means of transportation. He had considered using his two feet to move around as an adventure, a challenge, and perhaps most importantly a way of eliciting tons of positive attention from his parents and siblings -- who would form a cheerleading choir: Alein, alein, alein... Yaakov Kopel gait alein... ("Yaakov Kopel is walking on his own..."). But when he actually had to get somewhere, he would scoot down on all fours and crawl to his destination.

Something must have clicked in his mind that Tuesday. Walking wasn't a hobby anymore. His crawling days were behind him.


When G‑d formed the body of man, He was guided by one primary objective. This body was to be inhabited and vivified by a unique human soul. They would have to seamlessly fuse. As such, the body, and every one of its components, had to be perfectly compatible with its life-energy.

One of the unique characteristics of the human body is its erect posture. This mirrors a basic human-soul quality: its mind's ability to control its emotions and passions. Cognitive abilities are based in the brain, while the heart is the seat of emotions. The fact that the human head towers above the heart symbolizes the mind's supremacy -- the human's innate ability to act based on need (the person's need as well as what he or she is needed for) as opposed to impulse.

Though this is a basic human skill, the dominion of the mind does not come easily, it requires much work and discipline. We all start out crawling on all fours, with head and heart more or less on same plane, and then -- hopefully -- we slowly progress and start walking upright.

The challenge, however, is to ensure that moving while vertical doesn't remain a "hobby," relegated to inspired moments when we are not feeling kvetchy, and when we have an audience of admiring onlookers.

If when we really need to get somewhere, in the course of our navigation of life's pathways, we comfortably revert to crawling, using our emotions as our compass, then we have not yet maximized our human capabilities.


Cute idea, no? Maybe for you. To me this is much more than cute; it's my son's milestone.

Think of how proud our Father must be when we finally master the ability to truly walk, to truly become movers.


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Latest Comments:
Posted: June 19, 2008
your son must be sooooooooooo cute
this is an adorable article!
Posted By Judie Green, South lake, FL

Posted: June 17, 2008
Your sons milestone
To see such a little one walking, is always very moving.
I think the day, when I converted,
knowing what I did, was such a milestone in the eyes of my heavenly father.
Before I had been crawling.
Now I go upright, Baruch Hashem!
Wonderful, how you talked about it.
May we all, when G-d takes our neshamot home, walk upright into his opened arms.
Posted By Michal

Posted: June 14, 2008
Ya'akov geit alein!
Un yetz hot Ya'akov hent! The sense of power and achievement your son must have felt was also the release of his hands from the task of moving. May Hash-m bless him with hands that are creative, caring and capable. What a lovely story.
Posted By Judith Yacov, Herzlia, Israel
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Posted: June 13, 2008
a wonderful chinuch story
Just yesterday, I was discussing with a few friiends/fellow teachers how we could impress upon our young students the concept of chassidishe behavior. These elementary school aged girls come from kosher, Shomer Shabbos homes, but are sadly lacking the female role models of modest behavior (we're not just talking sleeve length here). Yes, it's a golden opportunity before the teenage eye-rolling years set in, to really instill within them a sense of pride and purpose in striving to be a chassidishe, modest Jewish girl/woman. Thanks for providing a story for me to share with them, one to which they can relate. I pray constantly that Hashem should put the right words into my mouth, ones that will enter these girls' hearts, to assist them in their journey through life. I'm sure that this fits the bill--I know from experience that a story can stay with us and instruct us much longer and more effectively than any finger-pointing lecture. Thank you and Yaakov Kopel, keep up the good work!
Posted By M..H., North Miami jBeach, Florida

Posted: June 12, 2008
Nice article, Naftali. Considering that I knew you when you were little, it's sentimental and especially warming to me.

What I want to know is how you became such a good writer going to Yeshiva.
Posted By Miriam Shear, Ma''aleh Adumim, Israel
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Posted: June 11, 2008
Shalom
A nice story. May Yaakov go from victory to victory!
Posted By Eric Sander Kingston, CA

Posted: June 8, 2008
Awesome Idea
Thank you so much for providing such inspiration right before shavuos
Posted By Anonymous


 



By Naftali Silberberg   More by this authors...  |   RSS Listing of Newest Articles by this Author
Rabbi Naftali Silberberg resides in Brooklyn, NY, with his wife Chaya Mushka and their three children.
About the artist: Sarah Kranz has been illustrating magazines, webzines and books (including five children’s books) since graduating from the Istituto Europeo di Design, Milan, in 1996. Her clients have included The New York Times and Money Marketing Magazine of London

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