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Remote Connection

It could no longer be avoided. Despite my techno-phobia, the time had come for me to learn a new computer program for my work.

"Chana, I'll walk you through the tutorial first thing tomorrow morning," the chabad.org technical director confirmed our cyber appointment. He couldn't have fathomed how his ominous words were raising my blood pressure by the minute, especially after I realized that at that hour my personal technical assistant wouldn't be nearby to help, but would be studiously studying in his fourth grade classroom.

And so, 9:15AM on Thursday morning, I was introduced to a hitherto unheard of desktop accessory called the "remote desktop connection." This remarkable accessory somehow connected me from my small computer desk in the family room of my suburban Toronto home to the many gizmos, programs, library and resources on the powerful chabad.org computers located at our headquarters in Brooklyn, New York.

With extreme patience and steel nerves, our technical director slowly (as in s-l-o-w-l-y) demonstrated the program and explained step-by-step how it works. And after enough time, I actually got it.

I now had so many new skills at my fingertips. With ease, I glided through the program and had access to a whole cyber world of programming aides, information and publishing wherewithal.

"Wow, this is amazing! Look at what I can accomplish!" I enthused, a tad too proud.

Sure enough, that moment, I encountered a glitch in the system, some problem that I had neither the expertise nor the know-how to overcome. But not to worry, our savvy technical director was still at hand to help. Expertly, he connected to my computer, and from his seat in Brooklyn directed my curser and mouse as if I was pressing the right buttons myself to deftly overcome this challenge. We were once again, back on track, sailing through the tutorial.

Though it was only a momentary glitch, that malfunction reminded me that this learning session wasn't about my newfound aptitude--or about me at all. On my own, on my little computer in suburban Toronto, there was little that I could accomplish. It was only once I was connected to this potent powerhouse of resources, information and programs, content and graphics, that I was given the tools to undertake so much more than the sum total of my own means.

That moment made me realize that no matter how much talent, proficiency, or resources we may think we possess, we are all limited.

It is only when we "connect" ourselves to something so much greater than ourselves that we become empowered to do so much more than we ever envisioned. When we tap into the vast storehouse of Divine wisdom and timeless teachings of our traditions, we enrich our lives with more than we could have ever learned on our own. When we feel connected to the infinite powers of our Creator, we can maximize our truly unlimited inner potential.

And when we palpably feel this real "connection" to something and Someone greater than ourselves, then even when we experience glitches and barriers along our system in life, we will be helped along, and the "right buttons" will be pressed to help us overcome our challenges.

It may not be instantly, but with the right connection, and with the savvy Programmer at our side, we are on the right path.

What makes you feel "connected" to something Higher than yourself?

What do you do when you feel this "connection" is becoming weaker?


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Posted: Feb 14, 2008
I made aliyah 3 yrs ago. I understand as much as ten words of Hebrew and few if any of the prayers. My dad was a sabra. I am
quite hard of hearing even with aids and legally blind. I am elderly and often hope the end will be soon.
Posted By Anonymous

Posted: Feb 14, 2008
Connection Matters
Since I was a child to me davening and meditating on Torah was the hardest things to do. I could not stand it...the long hours with no food...the long readings.
However, as I grew older and in the deepest quest of my life, I found myself looking back to my roots...and my G-d. When I found this website I encountered myself in a new light. I was encouraged and challenged to take a deeper look with fresh eyes to a Torah-centered lifestyle.
Through davening and engrossing myself in Torah, I have found a connection I did not have when I was young. When I pray something inside of me stirs up with such a fire I can't controlled it...just experience it. I have become more like the people at the synagogue...there is no time...just the Infinite knowledge of the Most High in our midst. When I postponed my davening or my time reading and meditating on Torah to do other things, I find myself worn out and unable to do things right. Everything comes to a halt. I can't explain it, but it is the most disturbing thing I have experienced.
I concluded and promised myself to make the most of my time in His Torah and daven as much as I can. So, that I find delight in the little things that may come my way during the day.
Posted By Suleyma Romero, Riverhead, NY

Posted: Feb 6, 2008
Thanks, but let's not make the men feel excluded. :)
Posted By chana weisberg
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Posted: Feb 6, 2008
A Nice Space
This blog-column and comment space has provided such a nice place for women to support each other. Wow, Chana, you do good work!
Posted By Anonymous, Greenville, SC

Posted: Feb 6, 2008
Tikkun Olam-To Fix The World
It is in Service that I feel free and in Giving that I truly receive.
Posted By Liebele, Haiku, Maui, Hawaii

Posted: Feb 6, 2008
reaching out from IL
Dear Anonymous, if I knew your name I'd call you now and have a cup of coffee with you. There are few, I'm sure, who can imagine what pain you are going through. What you are feeling and what you are going through is only known between you and Hashem. You are special to Him, even if you feel he is not listening and you can believe or not believe that. We are listening to you on Chana's wonderful blog and my heart goes out to you. May Hashem inspire you with one little idea that will help you see His brochos and may you have courage and strength to love your son no matter what he says. Thank you Chana for being here for all of us. Now I must tackle my computer problems and the Yetzer Hara that says "do it before davening"!!!! Chodesh Tov and much Simcha in our lives. DeeBee in Israel
Posted By Anonymous, Tzfat, Israel

Posted: Feb 5, 2008
Dear Anonymous, Northbrook
When I read your sad, sad post, about how you feel so hated by your closest relatives and so alone, it reminded me of another individual who for many years in his life faced the greatest challenges and for the first three decades of his life was also so hated by his brothers and family.
I am referring to the life of non other than King David.
I invite you to read this article, perhaps it will help to give you some necessary strength and solace:
Nitzevet Mother of David.
Posted By chana weisberg
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Posted: Feb 5, 2008
what speaks to my soul
I am at a loss about what speaks to my soul. Nothing, not prayer, not the little faith I have left, nothing seems to wake my soul. I am alone. No friends, no family, no rabbi. Will anyone notice if I'm gone? Does anyone care or would everyone just find another reason to hate me if I no longer exist? I'm tired of starting my day with fear and ending it with fear. I'm tried of how hard everyday gets to keep any faith. I have no answers to why I'm here. I just want peace in my mind. My heart, my soul cannot find peace. The pain of my sons hatred towards me is unbearable. The pain that no one will stand up for me hurts like the pain that no one believes in me or that I'm not good makes me wonder why am i here? Is my purpose to be hated and looked down upon by my family it hurts to be hated and mistrusted. Talk to G-d you say. G-d doesn't hear me when I try to talk to G-d. I don't even hear myself. Part of me feels that I desire the pain so why should G-d listen.
Posted By Anonymous, Northbrook, IL

Posted: Feb 5, 2008
Dear Chana,
First I would like to say that your column is fantastic! I think it is just what I need to connect with other Jewish women, although most of you are far away.
As is my own Personal Technical Assistant. She is in the states, about 10,000 miles away, but still will give me a phone tutorial when I am confused on some "new" technology that she has mastered years ago!
One thing that keeps me feeling connected to my 'mainframe' is the fact that I am a social worker now. No matter what difficulties that women have gone through to end up at our shelter, they show incredible inborn strength when they are clothed, fed, housed and have someone who really cares about the outcome of their case. It reminds me of Hashem who stated, "He who is touching (going against) you is touching My eyeball." Zech 2:8
He truly feels our pain and Hashem's reaction is immediate. We may not see the results immediately since we are not the only person on earth - but He puts the ball in motion as quickly as we, ourselves, would react to someone poking our own eye.
As we read a few weeks back, Hashem would not allow the angels to rejoice as the Egyptians were swallowed up in the Sea. Why? Because they were His children too. He is sensitive to all of us. All.

If I feel that my connection is becoming weaker, I usually take a good long look in the mirror. I ask myself, "Is my conduct befitting that of a spiritual woman? Am I keeping up with my Torah reading? Am I praying to Hashem - not only the prayers before bed or after washing my hands, but the conversations I should be having daily with him on a level that is more intimate. I also examine my own motives in life and if I am focusing on my wants rather than my own needs.
I am not always good at this. I fail often. But I try. I think knowing that I am weak on my own is probably the best way to know that it is time to reach out to Hashem or if I am unable to do that, to reach out to my own Rabbi, who will help me.

Thanks again for the wonderful article.
Posted By Kelly Rae, Sydney, Australia

Posted: Feb 4, 2008
I'm very much a novice when it comes to 'all things Jewish' having grown up in a very secular home where we didn't even celebrate the holidays. However, I am gradually exploring my faith and heritage and recently took up saying the Modeh Ani.
Admittedly my pronounciation is probably not great as I sound out the words (I have them written down as I have not yet managed to commit them to memory) but I have found it makes the perfect start to the day. No matter how sad I was the night before, even if I am dreading the day ahead there are a few moments where I think "Yes. I am here for a reason. Everything will be OK because I woke up."
And as someone who has suffered depression in the past and has woken despairing that I was still here, you can't really get much better than that.
Posted By JA


 



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Chana Weisberg is the Director of Editorial Management at Chabad.org. She authored several books, including her latest, Tending the Garden: The Unique Gifts of the Jewish Woman. She has served as the dean of several women’s educational institutes, and lectures internationally on issues relating to women, faith, relationships and the Jewish soul.

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