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Musing for Meaning

Writer’s Block

Writer’s Block

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My fear came true. After more than a year of writing my weekly blog, Musing for Meaning, the deadline is looming and I have nothing to say. Zilch. Zippo. Nada.

It is not often that I am accused of being short on words. My problem is actually quite the opposite. My children beg me to stop talking, and I live with insecurity that I all too often overspeak in social situations (make that any situation). I like to talk. A lot. And I have ideas, thoughts and feelings that I like to share. Sue me. Fortunately, I found a job that allows for that (best part about writing is that it is one way . . . I can talk all I want on paper!). And to supplement, I am a professional speaker (ha!). I actually get paid to talk. Dream come true.

I actually get paid to talk. Dream come trueSo, you can see my dilemma as I sit at the computer with no idea what to write about. I finally caved, and posted on my Facebook wall that I had writer’s block and was in desperate need of suggestions. And boy, did they start coming in. Great ones. But they didn’t help. They actually overwhelmed me, and reminded me how many important topics I haven’t written about. But none that I could just write about on the spot.

And then someone posted that I should write about writer’s block. And so, here you go.

What does it mean to have writer’s block? Is it really ever possible that we have nothing to write about? There is an entire world happening around us. So much to learn from. So much to incorporate into our thinking and feeling. Which is where the “block” part comes in. It really is me. There is so much happening around, but I am just not open to it. I am not a vessel. Because I haven’t made the room for ideas to enter in, they can’t then come back out through the pen (or keyboard).

Along with my request for topic suggestions, I got a few great links to ridding oneself of writer’s block. One of them suggested that the way to break through the rut is actually to stop thinking and start experiencing. Change your environment. Let your mind wander. Listen to other perspectives. Be around other creative people. Basically, the way to unblock something is to clean it out, to make room and space for something new.

But then, what exactly is blocking me? Thoughts? Feelings? Fears? Boredom? All of the above? If I am closed, for whatever reason, there will be no output. But even once I let in some room, I need to first fill again before I can give out. And that is a lesson I need to reteach myself over and over again.

I like to do. I like to give. I like to be busy. Because when I am, I don’t have time to really worry or contemplate or think. I don’t need to reevaluate if I don’t stop. I don’t need to wonder if I am spending my time wisely, if I don’t have the time to wonder. But there are times when our mind doesn’t let any more in, because it needs us to think about what is already there.

I like to be busy. Because when I am, I don’t have time to really worry or contemplate or thinkAnd then there are times when there just isn’t anything to say . . . yet. It ebbs and flows. I have written a few articles in a week, when I couldn’t even process without that outlet of writing, and then weeks go by and I don’t seem to get out a word. So far, I have balanced the timetable so that it didn’t pressure me like it is now. But it eventually caught up. Deadline. No article. Stress.

So, I am not going to allow myself to stress. I am going to allow myself to recognize that I need to take some time to think through what I think. To think through what I feel. And to think through before I say something just for the sake of saying it.

This writer’s block has been quite helpful in making me stop. And I have no doubt that many of the pieces to come will be a result of not being able to write one now. But wait . . . then what is this? Hmmm, a piece about the merits of having nothing to write. Definitely my speed. Even when I have nothing to say, I manage to take 742 words to express it!


Sara Esther Crispe, a writer, inspirational speaker and mother of four, is the Co-Director of Interinclusion, a non-profit multi-layered educational initiative celebrating the convergence between contemporary arts and sciences and timeless Jewish wisdom. Prior to that she was the editor of TheJewishWoman.org and wrote the popular weekly blog, Musing for Meaning. To book Sara Esther for a speaking engagement, please click here.
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February 21, 2013
Try Adding 'Blessings' for the Reader?
I just got a most wonderful 9 (nine) word email: THANKS HARRY! WE NEED PEOPLE LIKE YOU IN EDUCATION. This I got in response to my email concerning the health of Joe. Is seems to me that what Joe said in 9 words tops many of my own long-winded emails. I plan to refer to this blessing, over and over and share it with others.
Harry Pearle
Rochester
February 17, 2013
Well said
When I get writers block my blog tends to the repetitive.
Anonymous
CR
February 17, 2013
I think this article is superb - why? Because it is spontaneous and witty, thoughtful and thought-provoking. And, it so reminds me of myself. No outline needed. No theme attached - just a good hearted article. Too many think they need everything "in the box". "Out of the box" is where the "real" is. Thanks!
Ammi
February 16, 2013
you hit it on this BlockHead!
...Meaning I am the Blockhead, that is! I think you were channeling my thoughts, Sar! Thank you for such a great, great article! I hope to spew out some words on paper and follow in your awesome footsteps one day!
Mahalo <3
Paulina
Honolulu, HI
February 14, 2013
Dear Sarah Esther,
While I appreciate the candor of your article, in my humble opinion, it could have benefited from a thesis statement and being more concise. I believe what you were trying to convey is that ChaBaD principle could be applied to our daily activities, including writing; namely once you have an idea (chochma), you need to contemplate on it (binah), and then digest and internalize it (daat). Only then you can optimally act on it – in your case write an article. If this indeed is the thesis of your article, in my opinion, an average reader would have benefited by being presented with it.
Thank You for your consideration.
Anonymous
Flemington, NJ
February 14, 2013
Haha
Very cute:) well written
Anonymous
February 13, 2013
Writing is preverse for me. I don't mean that in some deviant way. When I want to avoid my life, I write. When I want to avoid writing, I live my life. Or let me put it this way, when I make a committment to write about ANY topic, I just can't. When I'm supposed to be doing something else, that's when the writing just flows. So I can't even be jealous that you get paid to write, because I'd get fired from that job.
I guess my question to you would be, a) what is the topic, and b) what's been going on in the last week or two of your life? Maybe there's a hint in there somewhere?
anonymous
ottawa
February 13, 2013
O the horror
I also rarely have writer's block, but when I do, it almost always involves a deadline. I think you handled it well. My first step is almost always panic. (My next step is better--daven. A lot more effective.)

Once, I wrote something that was dreck because I was uninspired. Truly, so bad. Just writing to get it done (motivated by a fear of deadline). The moment of inspiration came when I revised. HaShem put the right spin in my head. It turned out much, much better.
Rebecca Klempner
Los Angeles
February 13, 2013
Effort and Reward
Guaranteed or your money back........Grab your Lap Top. Hop on your stationary exercise Bicycle. (Life Fitness Model preferred). 12 minutes into pedaling what appears to no where....you will enter a space and time that certainly parallel Gan Eden in feeling and expression.What is your signal... the first drops of sweat reaching the floor.Your fingers will be moving at light speed. The typed illustrated expression will amaze you.P.s- A "simple" letter to Ma or Pa using this approach will enhance your love and respect in words that come from the heavens.The Benefits far exceed the "cost".And ya will get "fit" along the way. Endorphins are certainly a gift from God.
Danny masri
Modiin
February 12, 2013
That was a great article!!! And I laughed out loud at the ending! Loved it!
Maya
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Sara Esther CrispeSara Esther Crispe, a writer, inspirational speaker and mother of four, is the Co-Director of Interinclusion, a non-profit multi-layered educational initiative celebrating the convergence between contemporary arts and sciences and timeless Jewish wisdom. Prior to that she was the editor of TheJewishWoman.org and wrote the popular weekly blog, Musing for Meaning. To book Sara Esther for a speaking engagement, please click here.
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