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The Assimilated Girl and Begin's Stopover in France
The Rebbe's Aide Relates - Part IV

Menachem Begin, of blessed memory, met several times with the Rebbe in his private study (both prior to and after becoming the Israeli Prime Minister).

At the end of one of these audiences, the Rebbe turned to Begin and asked him if he would do him a personal favor. Begin replied affirmatively.

The Rebbe, of righteous memory, greets Israeli Prime Minister Menachem Begin, prior to his private audience with the Rebbe.

The Rebbe told him that he had received a letter from a French girl's parents who wrote in great pain about their daughter who was dating a non-Jew and was planning to marry him. The parents had tried every thinkable way to separate the two, but with no success. Feeling hopeless, they turned to the Rebbe for help and advice.

"I am sure," the Rebbe told Begin, "that if a well-known individual as yourself, especially as you speak French, will speak to her about her choice in marriage, she will respect your words, and it will influence her in the correct direction."

Begin agreed to fulfill this mission. The Rebbe gave him the name, address, and phone number of the girl, and told him that he should send him the bill for the stopover in France.

Begin traveled to France and spoke, with words straight from his heart, to the young girl who was making the decision of her life. His words entered her heart, and she decided to move to Israel, thus automatically ending her relationship with the non-Jew.

The Rebbe covered the expenses for the stopover in France, and the girl married a Jew and today lives in Jerusalem.


Reader Comments
Latest Comments:
Posted: Jan 3, 2010
Why the Cynicism?
It seems that some of the readers neglected to note that the story was told by Rabbi Klein, one of the Rebbe's personal secretaries, who presumably was directly involved in this story. On the general subject of intermarriage between Jews and non-Jews, you might like to read Rabbi Eliezer Shemtov's excellent essay on the matter elsewhere on this site.
Posted By Shmary, Davis

Posted: Dec 29, 2009
I think some of the readers missed the point. I dont think there needed to be any sweetners and the story can be understood pretty simply. Words that come from the heart enter the heart.
Many young men and women who consider marrying out of the faith are unaware and perhaps somewhat indifferent at the time to the ramifications of such a relationship. The attempts made by her parents to seperate them probably made her more defensive. Having Begin talk with her allows her to listen with open ears to passionate words that speak to her Neshomo. We tend to underestimate the power of sincere words. Perhaps there is someone we know that can use a bit of our time and loving words.
Posted By Mendy Brownstein, Brooklyn, NY

Posted: Dec 29, 2009
Finding your bashert (intended mate)
I'm sorry to hear of your disappointments in courtship, M. A.

Keep looking! Your are looking for the right one for you; and he is searching for you! As you have found, character is more important than romantic illusions.

Ask people who know you to match you up with someone with a good heart. Everybody loves to make introductions and they will be able to know if the man is honest and decent before you even meet him.

Good luck! Happiness is coming to you..
Posted By Ruth, Natick, Mass, USA
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Posted: Dec 9, 2009
I married a man not of my faith it did not work! Thank G_d I'm alive!
I met a man of my faith thought him to be my soulmate , but he turned out to be a conman. Thank G_d I didn't marry him!
Posted By M.A., cc, fl

Posted: Dec 8, 2009
I would like to know the whole story. Menachem Begin Z'L was a collegue of my Grand father Albert STARA. They both worked together, to get Jews into Israel during wwII and were both in Lechi. I have letters from him to my grandfather. He was a very humble and decent man. I don't like "snipets" of stories and knowing Begin, he would never have revealed all that the Rebe told him.
What is the author trying to prove with this paragraph? So she dropped the man and moved to Israel, maybe she decided something within her needed something else. Not an impressive article
Posted By Rivkah Staraselski

Posted: Dec 8, 2009
Are we suppose to believe that story?
Are we suppose to believe that story or is it one of the tales from midrash? Very dissapointing.... Does chabad.org think we are fools?
Posted By Anonymous, melbourne, australia

Posted: Dec 4, 2009
Always and Never?
I am disappointed by this. With all the good the dear Rebbe did, with all the love he showed for jew and non-jew alike, did he never accept the possibility that G-d in His mercy and great love might actually bring such a pair together? What if, in an unusual circumstance, the non-jew was compelled by the spark within him? Is there to be no chance of acceptance of one who is drawn near and willingly joins with our people? What of conversion? Shall we deny the power and potential of G-d out of presumption?

Caution is always advised, and I do not suggest throwing wide the doors, but even in ancient times G-d through Moshe permitted non-jews to live along side, participate, and (if truly desired) become one of the people. Who are we to contravene the will of G-d?

On the other hand, perhaps the dear Rebbe received unshared information from the parents that convinced him that the boy was insincere. Having expressed my opinion - and hopes - I will trust the dear Rebbe.
Posted By RCR, Fredericksburg, VA

Posted: Dec 3, 2009
You failed to tell us what sweetener Begin offered the girl.
Life isn't that simple.
Posted By Anonymous, London, UK

Posted: Dec 2, 2009
re
"she decided to move to Israel, thus automatically ending her relationship with the non-Jew"

and what if he had decided to move with her?

See, this is why ALWAYS being against it is wrong imo
Posted By Anonymous, b


 



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Rabbi Binyomin Klein was an aide to the Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson, of righteous memory.

As recorded by Dovid Zaklikowski

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